{"id":920,"date":"2023-05-22T19:57:00","date_gmt":"2023-05-22T19:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/?p=920"},"modified":"2023-06-24T11:53:03","modified_gmt":"2023-06-24T11:53:03","slug":"nidurlaegingin-fullkomnud-lygarinn-hafdi-betur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/index.php\/2023\/05\/22\/nidurlaegingin-fullkomnud-lygarinn-hafdi-betur\/","title":{"rendered":"Ni\u00f0url\u00e6gingin fullkomnu\u00f0 \u2013 lygarinn haf\u00f0i betur."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

          <\/em>(Rita\u00f0 vori\u00f0 2023)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g er satt a\u00f0 segja b\u00fain a\u00f0 f\u00e1 mig fullsadda af vi\u00f0bj\u00f3\u00f0slegum lygas\u00f6gum um manninn minn, J\u00f3n Baldvin Hannibalsson – alltaf lj\u00f3tari og hatursfyllri me\u00f0 hverju \u00e1rinu. \u00c9g  hef veri\u00f0 gift \u00feessum manni \u00ed 64  \u00e1r og veit, hvern mann hann hefur a\u00f0 geyma. S\u00e1 ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 ekkert skylt vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 l\u00fdsingu, sem dregin er upp af honum af hatursfullu f\u00f3lki \u00e1 samf\u00e9lagsmi\u00f0lum. \u00deess vegna geri \u00e9g or\u00f0 d\u00f3ttur okkar, Ald\u00edsar, a\u00f0 m\u00ednum, en h\u00fan sag\u00f0i \u00ed vi\u00f0tali einhvern t\u00edma:  \u201c ….m\u00e1 hann aldrei nj\u00f3ta sannm\u00e6lis?\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Og \u00e1\u00f0ur en lengra er haldi\u00f0, langar mig til a\u00f0 segja vi\u00f0 ykkur, lesendur g\u00f3\u00f0ir, a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef heldur aldrei \u2013 \u00e9g endurtek, aldrei –  heyrt manninn minn, tala af sl\u00edkri \u00f3vir\u00f0ingu, heift og hatri um nokkra manneskju, eins og \u00e9g hef or\u00f0i\u00f0 vitni a\u00f0 \u00ed \u00edslenskum fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum um hann.   <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Og \u00feegar jafnvel Ingibj\u00f6rg S\u00f3lr\u00fan G\u00edslad\u00f3ttir l\u00fdsir manninum m\u00ednum sem r\u00e1nd\u00fdri, sem situr um ungar st\u00falkur eins og villid\u00fdr um br\u00e1\u00f0, \u00fe\u00e1 var m\u00e9r allri loki\u00f0. \u00deessi or\u00f0 l\u00fdsa botnlausu hatri og hefndarhug. Hva\u00f0 hefur ma\u00f0urinn gert \u00e1 hennar hlut? Hann dr\u00f3 sig \u00ed hl\u00e9 \u00fat \u00far \u00edslenskri p\u00f3lit\u00edk til \u00feess a\u00f0 draumurinn um sameiningu jafna\u00f0armanna sem valkost vi\u00f0 fj\u00e1rm\u00e1la\u00f6flin, g\u00e6ti r\u00e6tst. H\u00fan er  konan sem \u00f6\u00f0rum fremur ber \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 draumurinn r\u00e6ttist ekki \u2013 a\u00f0 tilraunin mist\u00f3kst. Og hefur s\u00ed\u00f0an hlaupist fr\u00e1 allri \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feeim \u00f3f\u00f6rum. \u00dear \u00e1 hatri\u00f0 s\u00ednar r\u00e6tur. \u00deess vegna er \u00feessi hefndarhugur. \u00cdslensk p\u00f3lit\u00edk getur a\u00f0 s\u00f6nnu veri\u00f0 illv\u00edg og \u00f3v\u00e6gin. En er \u00feetta ekki \u00cdslandsmet \u00ed r\u00e6tni?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gott or\u00f0spor<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00deegar J\u00f3n Baldvin kom heim fr\u00e1 n\u00e1mi me\u00f0 hagfr\u00e6\u00f0ipr\u00f3f upp \u00e1 vasann, 25 \u00e1ra a\u00f0 aldri, f\u00e9kk hann hvergi vinnu \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed svi\u00f0i, verandi sonur Hannibals, sem var tr\u00falega  r\u00e6g\u00f0asti ma\u00f0ur \u00ed \u00edslensku samf\u00e9lagi  \u00e1 \u00feeim t\u00edma \u2013  og sonurinn hlaut a\u00f0 gjalda \u00feess. (J\u00e1, \u00fea\u00f0 vir\u00f0ist vera stutt \u00ed r\u00f3gberann hj\u00e1 sumum landa okkar.) J\u00f3n Baldvin ger\u00f0ist \u00feess vegna kennari \u00ed gagnfr\u00e6\u00f0ask\u00f3la. \u00dea\u00f0 f\u00f3r flj\u00f3tlega af honum gott or\u00f0, og hann naut mikilla vins\u00e6lda. Kenndi \u00edslensku, ensku, s\u00f6gu og h\u00e9lt n\u00e1mskei\u00f0 um \u00edslenskt \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lag, sem \u00fe\u00e1 var n\u00fdm\u00e6li.  Honum var fali\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 verkefni a\u00f0 kenna \u00ed kvennabekk \u00e1 fj\u00f3r\u00f0a \u00e1ri og t\u00f3k \u00fe\u00e1 upp n\u00fdjar kennslua\u00f0fer\u00f0ir. Hann leyf\u00f0i \u00feessum ungu st\u00falkum a\u00f0 hafa me\u00f0 s\u00e9r prj\u00f3nles, \u00e1 me\u00f0an hann messa\u00f0i yfir \u00feeim,. S\u00fa \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un f\u00e9ll \u00ed g\u00f3\u00f0an jar\u00f0veg. A\u00f0 \u00feeirra eigin s\u00f6gn, s\u00ed\u00f0ar meir, voru \u00feessar stelpur v\u00edst sumar hverjar skotnar \u00ed honum  og reyndu hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r g\u00e1tu, a\u00f0 ganga \u00ed augun \u00e1 kennaranum unga. \u00deetta var m\u00e9r allt sagt seinna, \u00feegar \u00e9g kynntist sumum \u00feessara stelpna \u00e1 vinnumarka\u00f0num.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g kynntist \u00fe\u00f3 aldrei \u00de\u00f3ru Hreinsd\u00f3ttur, en \u00e9g \u00feekkti listakonuna, m\u00f3\u00f0ur hennar  nokku\u00f0 vel, af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan var vinkona fr\u00e6nku  minnar, sem l\u00edka var a\u00f0 nor\u00f0an.  S\u00fa kona \u00e1tti vi\u00f0 alvarleg heilsuvandam\u00e1l a\u00f0 str\u00ed\u00f0a og gat af \u00feeim s\u00f6kum l\u00edti\u00f0 sinnt  d\u00f3ttur sinni \u00e1 unglings aldri.  Gott  ef \u00fea\u00f0 var ekki einmitt \u00e9g, sem ba\u00f0 J\u00f3n Baldvin um a\u00f0 l\u00edta s\u00e9rstaklega til me\u00f0 \u00feessari st\u00falku, sem v\u00e6ri hj\u00e1lpar\u00feurfi. M\u00f3\u00f0ir hennar haf\u00f0i tala\u00f0 vi\u00f0 mig einslega um \u00fea\u00f0 leyti, sem sk\u00f3lastarf  h\u00f3fst um hausti\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mig  \u00f3ra\u00f0i au\u00f0vita\u00f0  ekki fyrir \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 s\u00e1 vinargrei\u00f0i yr\u00f0i nota\u00f0ur gegn honum h\u00e1lfri \u00f6ld seinna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Af manni m\u00ednum, J\u00f3ni Baldvini,  f\u00f3r svo gott or\u00f0 sem kennara \u00ed Hagask\u00f3la, a\u00f0 vori\u00f0 1970 var \u00feriggja manna nefnd komin heim \u00ed stofu \u00e1 Vesturg\u00f6tunni til a\u00f0 freista \u00feess a\u00f0 f\u00e1 hann vestur \u00e1 \u00cdsafj\u00f6r\u00f0 til a\u00f0 taka a\u00f0 s\u00e9r a\u00f0 stofna og st\u00fdra n\u00fdjum menntask\u00f3la \u00fear. \u00deetta sama haust vorum vi\u00f0 flutt vestur me\u00f0 b\u00f6rn og buru. Er \u00fea\u00f0 n\u00fa hugsanlegt, a\u00f0 \u00feessi vir\u00f0ulega nefnd \u00farvalsmanna a\u00f0 vestan hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 send su\u00f0ur \u00feetta vor, ef \u00fea\u00f0 hef\u00f0u fari\u00f0 af honum \u201elj\u00f3tar s\u00f6gur\u201c um kynfer\u00f0islegt ofbeldi gagnvart nemendum s\u00ednum \u00ed Hagask\u00f3la?  \u00datiloka\u00f0<\/strong>. J\u00f3n Baldvin naut sl\u00edkra vins\u00e6ldar me\u00f0al nemenda sinna, a\u00f0 landspr\u00f3fsbekkur \u2013  g\u00e1fnalj\u00f3sin \u2013  h\u00f3tu\u00f0u a\u00f0 elta hann vestur \u00e1 fir\u00f0i til a\u00f0 geta noti\u00f0 kennslu hans \u00f6gn lengur. Og tveir af \u00f6flugustu kennurum Hagask\u00f3la sl\u00f3gust \u00ed f\u00f6r me\u00f0 okkur og kenndu nokkur \u00e1r vi\u00f0 M\u00cd. Hva\u00f0 segir \u00fea\u00f0 okkur?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dea\u00f0 hefur svo sem veri\u00f0 reynt a\u00f0 sverta n\u00edu \u00e1ra dv\u00f6l okkar \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i l\u00edka me\u00f0 \u201elj\u00f3tum s\u00f6gum\u201c.  Seinasta vori\u00f0 sem J\u00f3n Baldvin \u00fatskrifa\u00f0i st\u00fadenta \u00e1tti hann, a\u00f0 s\u00f6gn eins nemanda (kvenkyns), a\u00f0 hafa k\u00e1fa\u00f0 \u00e1 ungum st\u00falkum \u00ed sundlaug Bolungarv\u00edkur. Seinna kom \u00e1 daginn, a\u00f0 hann var haf\u00f0ur fyrir rangri s\u00f6k. S\u00e1 sem k\u00e1fa\u00f0i,  var ekki sk\u00f3lameistarinn,  heldur ungur ma\u00f0ur sem var stundakennari vi\u00f0 sk\u00f3lann \u00feennan vetur. Enda hefur Sighvatur Bj\u00f6rgvinsson, f.v. \u00feingma\u00f0ur Vestfir\u00f0inga, \u00edtreka\u00f0 sta\u00f0fest \u00fea\u00f0 vi\u00f0 mig, a\u00f0 aldrei hafi hann heyrt \u201elj\u00f3tar s\u00f6gur\u201c af manni m\u00ednum fyrir vestan. Og b\u00e6tti vi\u00f0: \u201eP\u00f3lit\u00edskir andst\u00e6\u00f0ingar hef\u00f0u \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega f\u00e6rt s\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed nyt, ef svo hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0<\/strong>.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g man l\u00edka eftir \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 innv\u00edg\u00f0ur allaballi \u00e1 Vesturg\u00f6tu\u00e1rum okkar, sag\u00f0i vi\u00f0 mig: \u201eMa\u00f0ur ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 gera fleira en gott \u00feykir \u00ed p\u00f3lit\u00edkinni, Brynd\u00eds m\u00edn\u201c.  \u00de\u00e1 haf\u00f0i hann l\u00e1ti\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 berast \u00fat, a\u00f0 J\u00f3n Baldvin v\u00e6ri\u201c drykkjusj\u00faklingur \u00e1 framf\u00e6ri tengdaf\u00f6\u00f0ur s\u00edns\u201c.<\/strong> J\u00e1, f\u00e1t\u00e6k, en hamingjus\u00f6m – og vi\u00f0 skuldu\u00f0um engum neitt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g segi l\u00edka fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed b\u00f3k minni \u201eBrosa\u00f0 gegnum t\u00e1rin\u201c, \u00feegar \u00e9g f\u00e9kk pabba til a\u00f0 aka m\u00e9r alla lei\u00f0 upp \u00ed Brei\u00f0holt, \u00fear sem \u00e9g ruddist inn \u00e1 heimili i\u00f0na\u00f0armanns og h\u00fa\u00f0skamma\u00f0i hann  fyrir a\u00f0 rakka ni\u00f0ur manninn minn \u00e1 matsta\u00f0 \u00ed mi\u00f0b\u00e6 Reykjav\u00edkur, \u00fear sem Kolfinna, d\u00f3ttir okkar, var a\u00f0 vinna og var \u00e1heyrandi a\u00f0 \u201eJ\u00f3n Baldvin v\u00e6ri \u00f3rei\u00f0uma\u00f0ur, sem skulda\u00f0i \u00fat um allan b\u00e6 og sviki \u00f6ll lofor\u00f0\u201c. \u00c9g var svo rei\u00f0, og hann var svo hr\u00e6ddur vi\u00f0 mig, a\u00f0 hann ba\u00f0 mig gr\u00e1tandi afs\u00f6kunar og  lofa\u00f0i b\u00f3t og betrun. \u201eAldrei framar, aldrei framar\u201c, sag\u00f0i hann bara! \u00c9g var b\u00f3kstaflega hamslaus af rei\u00f0i.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Og svo get \u00e9g b\u00e6tt \u00fev\u00ed vi\u00f0, a\u00f0 konur hafa svo sem ekki  l\u00e1ti\u00f0 manninn minn \u00ed fri\u00f0i heldur, svo \u00e9g vitni \u00ed br\u00e9f, sem \u00c1rni heitinn Gunnarsson, g\u00f3\u00f0ur vinur, sendi okkur nokkru \u00e1\u00f0ur en hann kvadddi \u00feennan heim. \u00dear segir \u00e1 einum sta\u00f0:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eVi\u00f0 sem h\u00f6fum fl\u00e6kst me\u00f0 J\u00f3ni Baldvini \u00e1 frambo\u00f0sfundi, veri\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00ed veislum og hvers konar samkomum, h\u00f6fum oft or\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00feess varir og s\u00e9\u00f0, hvernig konur hafa leita\u00f0 \u00e1 hann og vilja\u00f0 eiga me\u00f0 honum g\u00f3\u00f0ar stundir. \u00de\u00e6r hafa stundum or\u00f0i\u00f0 svo \u00e1gengar, a\u00f0 jafnvel g\u00f6mlum kvennam\u00f6nnum hefur bl\u00f6skra\u00f0! \u00de\u00e6r hafa ekki allar veri\u00f0 k\u00e1tar, \u00feegar hann hefur vikist undan e\u00f0a \u00fdtt \u00feeim fr\u00e1 s\u00e9r. Kannski or\u00f0i\u00f0 rei\u00f0ar og fundist \u00fe\u00e6r ni\u00f0url\u00e6g\u00f0ar, og vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0in or\u00f0i\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fdmsum h\u00e6tti. Um \u00feetta g\u00e6tum vi\u00f0, nokkrir f\u00e9lagar, bori\u00f0 fyrir r\u00e9tti.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00f3n Baldvin var forma\u00f0ur Al\u00fe\u00fd\u00f0uflokksins \u00ed t\u00f3lf \u00e1r. \u00c1 \u00feeim \u00e1rum voru konur mj\u00f6g \u00f6flugar \u00ed flokksstarfinu, s\u00f3ttu fundi og l\u00e9tu verulega til s\u00edn taka.  Aldrei hefur nein \u00feessara kvenna stigi\u00f0 fram og kvarta\u00f0 undan kynfer\u00f0islegri \u00e1reitni formannsins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u00f0 n\u00e6rast \u00e1 hatri<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dei\u00f0 taki\u00f0 kannski l\u00edka eftir \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 \u00ed allri \u00feessari r\u00f3gsherfer\u00f0 og lygum um JBH er mitt nafn sjaldan nefnt. \u00cd augum hataranna  er \u00e9g bara  skaplaus  \u201edrusla\u201c, sem stend til hli\u00f0ar og l\u00e6t mig engu skipta, \u00feegar ma\u00f0urinn minn er me\u00f0 kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rn og ungar konur. Horfi bara \u00e1 \u201eslj\u00f3um augum, oftast fordrukkin, me\u00f0virk og subbuleg\u201c. M\u00e9r er s\u00fdnd alger fyrirlitning  –  e\u00f0a hvernig l\u00fdst ykkur \u00e1 \u00feessa mannl\u00fdsingu \u00e1 m\u00e9r, sem er h\u00f6f\u00f0 eftir einu Metoo-vitninu?:\u201eH\u00fan er alveg eins og hann. Gr\u00edpur utan um kinf\u00e6ri (sic) ungra manna \u00e1 fillir\u00edum\u201c (sic<\/em>).  Kona, sem bullar svona um a\u00f0ra konu, sem h\u00fan \u00feekkir ekki neitt, er auglj\u00f3slega ekki \u00feungt haldin af s\u00f3makennd. Samt telst h\u00fan vera stj\u00f6rnuvitni hj\u00e1 MeToo.Tr\u00fair einhver svona vitnisbur\u00f0i?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sannleikurinn er nefnilega s\u00e1, a\u00f0 \u00feessar konur, sem n\u00fa l\u00e1ta gamminn geysa og ata manninn auri, hata mig miklu meira en hann. <\/strong>\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00e9g, sem er skotmark \u00feeirra. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00e9g, sem \u00fe\u00e6r \u00feola ekki.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 R\u00f3gur og n\u00ed\u00f0 \u2013 n\u00fatildags kalla\u00f0 hatursor\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0a \u2013 vellur upp \u00far skolpr\u00e6sum sorpmi\u00f0lanna \u00fat um allt. Hva\u00f0 segir \u00fea\u00f0 okkur um s\u00e1lar\u00e1stand  samf\u00e9lagsins? Og hva\u00f0 segir \u00fea\u00f0 okkur um r\u00e9ttarfari\u00f0 \u00ed landinu okkar?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g leyf\u00f0i m\u00e9r a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 r\u00e9ttl\u00e6ti\u00f0 myndi sigra \u00ed \u00feessu svokalla\u00f0a \u201erassstrokum\u00e1li\u201c. \u00c9g bar svo mikla vir\u00f0ingu fyrir r\u00e9ttarkerfinu, a\u00f0 \u00e9g tr\u00fa\u00f0i \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 sannleikurinn hlyti a\u00f0 skera \u00far um ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0una. Og \u00fear a\u00f0 auki sta\u00f0festu \u00e1k\u00e6rendur (Laufey og Carmen), a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r hef\u00f0u l\u00e1ti\u00f0 sig hverfa \u00far veislunni strax \u00ed upphafi, \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 snerta mat n\u00e9 v\u00edn \u2013 og \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 vera snertar<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sem sagt, \u00fea\u00f0 var aldrei nein veisla. \u00deetta \u201eseinna\u201c var aldrei. \u00dea\u00f0 er bara sk\u00e1ldskapur –  lygi –  eitthva\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00e6r m\u00e6\u00f0gur spunnu upp \u00ed \u00f6rv\u00e6ntingu sinni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Og \u00fea\u00f0 merkilega er, a\u00f0 d\u00f3marinn \u00ed m\u00e1linu tr\u00fa\u00f0i lyginni betur en sannleikanum<\/strong>. Og \u00fea\u00f0 jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fe\u00e6r m\u00e6\u00f0gur hafi or\u00f0i\u00f0 tv\u00edsaga og ekki muna\u00f0, hverju \u00fe\u00e6r \u00e6tlu\u00f0u a\u00f0 lj\u00faga. A\u00f0 mati \u00e1k\u00e6ruvaldsins (Hrafnhildar Gunnarsd\u00f3ttur), er frambur\u00f0ur brota\u00feola \u201esk\u00fdr og st\u00f6\u00f0ugur um meint brot….. a\u00f0 h\u00fan hef\u00f0i sta\u00f0i\u00f0 h\u00e6gra megin vi\u00f0 \u00e1k\u00e6r\u00f0a og hef\u00f0i hann \u00fe\u00e1 byrja\u00f0 a\u00f0 strj\u00faka \u00e1kaft upp og ni\u00f0ur eftir rassi hennar\u201c. Og \u00e1k\u00e6ruvaldi\u00f0 b\u00e6tir vi\u00f0: a\u00f0 \u201eeiginkona og vinkona hafi l\u00edklega bara veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 spjalla og ekki teki\u00f0 eftir neinu \u00f3venjulegu\u201c!!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er greinilegt, a\u00f0 \u00ed augum \u00e1k\u00e6ruvaldsins, erum vi\u00f0 hj\u00f3nin, \u00e9g og J\u00f3n Baldvin,  algert pakk – ruddar og d\u00f3nar, sem kunna enga mannasi\u00f0i, hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 \u00ed umgengni vi\u00f0 konur.  Og \u00fea\u00f0 er eiginlega \u00fea\u00f0, sem \u00e9g svo erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00e6tta mig vi\u00f0<\/strong> – a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 s\u00e9um fyrirlitin af \u00feessu samf\u00e9lagi okkar og ni\u00f0url\u00e6g\u00f0 og au\u00f0m\u00fdkt a\u00f0 \u00f3sekju. E\u00f0a var \u00fea\u00f0  kannski  einmitt \u00e6tlunarverk d\u00f3maranna? \u00deeir h\u00f6f\u00f0u heyrt svo margar \u201elj\u00f3tar s\u00f6gur\u201c, tr\u00fa\u00f0u r\u00f3ginum og l\u00e9tu ford\u00f3mana r\u00e1\u00f0a \u2013 d\u00e6mdu okkur sek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En vi\u00f0 erum saklaus.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 Eg lag\u00f0i h\u00f6nd \u00e1 hina helgu b\u00f3k og s\u00f3r vi\u00f0 nafn hennar og foreldra minna, a\u00f0 \u00e9g seg\u00f0i sannleikann –  og ekkert nema sannleikann. En \u00fea\u00f0 dug\u00f0i ekki til. D\u00f3marinn var auglj\u00f3slega fyrirfram sta\u00f0r\u00e1\u00f0inn \u00ed a\u00f0 d\u00e6ma okkur sek \u2013 sama hva\u00f0 vi\u00f0 seg\u00f0um.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eLj\u00f3tar s\u00f6gur\u201c hafa auglj\u00f3slega skila\u00f0 \u00e1rangri, og vi\u00f0 \u00e1ttum aldrei m\u00f6guleika \u00e1 a\u00f0 vera s\u00fdknu\u00f0.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ni\u00f0url\u00e6gingin fullkomnu\u00f0 \u2013 lygarinn haf\u00f0i betur.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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          (Rita\u00f0 vori\u00f0 2023) \u00c9g er satt a\u00f0 segja b\u00fain a\u00f0 f\u00e1 mig fullsadda af vi\u00f0bj\u00f3\u00f0slegum lygas\u00f6gum um manninn minn, J\u00f3n Baldvin Hannibalsson – alltaf lj\u00f3tari og hatursfyllri me\u00f0 hverju \u00e1rinu. \u00c9g  hef veri\u00f0 gift \u00feessum manni \u00ed 64  \u00e1r og veit, hvern mann hann hefur a\u00f0 geyma. S\u00e1 ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 ekkert skylt vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 … Continue reading “Ni\u00f0url\u00e6gingin fullkomnu\u00f0 \u2013 lygarinn haf\u00f0i betur.”<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-920","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","category-greinar_og_vidtol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/920","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=920"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/920\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":923,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/920\/revisions\/923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=920"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=920"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/bs\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=920"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}