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M\u00e9r finnst einhvern veginn, a\u00f0 \u00e9g geti ekki sagt skili\u00f0 vi\u00f0 land mitt og \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0 \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 gera hreint fyrir m\u00ednum dyrum – segja sannleikann.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Au\u00f0m\u00fdkingin, ni\u00f0url\u00e6gingin er sl\u00edk, a\u00f0 okkur er ekki v\u00e6rt h\u00e9r lengur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c9g tr\u00fa\u00f0i \u00fev\u00ed sta\u00f0fastlega, a\u00f0 r\u00e9ttl\u00e6ti\u00f0 mundi sigra – a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 byggjum vi\u00f0 heilbrigt r\u00e9ttarkerfi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n En svo er ekki.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sk\u00f3labr\u00f3\u00f0ir minn og mikill vinur, Styrmir Gunnarsson, sag\u00f0i einhvern t\u00edma, a\u00f0 \u201e\u00cdsland v\u00e6ri \u00f3ge\u00f0slegt \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lag\u201c. \u00c9g skildi ekki alveg \u00fe\u00e1 , hva\u00f0 hann var a\u00f0 fara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n En n\u00fana liggur \u00fea\u00f0 lj\u00f3st fyrir \u2013 og vi\u00f0 erum sj\u00e1lf f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb spillingarinnar.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ————————————-<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Innan nokkurra vikna eru li\u00f0in fimm \u00e1r fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 skipul\u00f6g\u00f0 a\u00f0f\u00f6r a\u00f0 mannor\u00f0i m\u00ednu og eiginmanns m\u00edns h\u00f3fst \u00e1 \u00cdslandi. \u00dea\u00f0 var sumari\u00f0 sem \u00e9g var\u00f0 \u00e1ttr\u00e6\u00f0, 2018. \u00deetta sama sumar vildi svo til, a\u00f0 fyrrverandi nemendur m\u00ednir \u00ed M\u00cd, vinkonur og samstarfsmenn, f\u00f3ru a\u00f0 hringja \u00ed mig og vara mig vi\u00f0. S\u00f6g\u00f0u, a\u00f0 MeToo konur v\u00e6ru a\u00f0 leita a\u00f0 \u201elj\u00f3tum s\u00f6gum<\/strong>\u201c um manninn minn. \u00c9g gat ekki \u00edmynda\u00f0 m\u00e9r, a\u00f0 til v\u00e6ru \u201elj\u00f3tar s\u00f6gur\u201c af manni m\u00ednum og t\u00f3k ekki miki\u00f0 mark \u00e1 \u00feessu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n En \u00fea\u00f0 var einmitt \u00feetta sama sumar, sem Laufey \u00d3sk, sem \u00e9g haf\u00f0i \u00feekkt fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan var barn \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i, nota\u00f0i s\u00f6mu or\u00f0, \u00feegar \u00e9g bau\u00f0 hana velkomna \u00e1 heimili mitt \u00ed Andal\u00fas\u00edu, \u00e1samt tveimur d\u00e6trum s\u00ednum. \u201e\u00c9g hef heyrt svo margar lj\u00f3tar s\u00f6gur<\/strong> um \u00feig, J\u00f3n Baldvin\u201c \u2013 \u00e9g s\u00e1, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa k\u00e1fa\u00f0ir \u00e1 d\u00f3ttur minni, og n\u00fa skaltu bi\u00f0jast afs\u00f6kunar\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Og \u00fea\u00f0 voru fleiri sem h\u00f6f\u00f0u safna\u00f0 – a\u00f0 eigin s\u00f6gn – \u201elj\u00f3tum s\u00f6gum<\/strong>\u201c af J\u00f3ni Baldvini. Einn af \u00feeim var sj\u00e1lfur almannatengill formanns Sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0isflokksins, ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 nafni Fri\u00f0j\u00f3n Fri\u00f0j\u00f3nsson. Allir skr\u00e1\u00f0ir f\u00e9lagar \u00ed Sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0isflokknum fengu \u00ed p\u00f3sti \u00feetta sama haust fr\u00e1sagnir Fri\u00f0j\u00f3ns af \u00f3s\u00e6milegri heg\u00f0an J\u00f3ns Baldvins \u00feau \u00e1r, sem vi\u00f0 dv\u00f6ldumst \u00ed Washington (fr\u00e1 1998-2003).<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c9g get a\u00f0eins svara\u00f0 \u00feessum \u00f3sv\u00edfna \u00e1r\u00f3\u00f0ri og lygum me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vitna \u00ed The Washington Times (Oktober, 1999), sem segir um manninn minn: \u201eIcelandic Ambassador, J\u00f3n Baldvin Hannibalsson, a man of wit and intelligence, has become a popular diplomat on Embassy Row\u201c…..<\/p>\n\n\n\n St\u00e6rsta \u00e1falli\u00f0 var\u00f0 svo \u00feann 11. jan\u00faar, 2019, t\u00edu d\u00f6gum \u00e1\u00f0ur en ma\u00f0urinn minn \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 halda upp \u00e1 80 \u00e1ra afm\u00e6li sitt me\u00f0 \u00fatg\u00e1fu b\u00f3kar og umr\u00e6\u00f0um.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00deann dag f\u00f3rna\u00f0i Stundin, bla\u00f0 allra landsmanna, tugum bla\u00f0s\u00ed\u00f0na \u00ed illa \u00feefjandi r\u00f3gss\u00f6gur um J\u00f3n Baldvin og Brynd\u00edsi (\u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 mitt hlutverk hafi a\u00f0allega falist \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 standa hj\u00e1 og flissa, me\u00f0an ma\u00f0urinn minn \u00feukla\u00f0i brj\u00f3st kvenna). \u00deetta er einhver hr\u00e6\u00f0ilegasti dagur l\u00edfs mins \u2013 jafnvel vinir okkar voru skelfingu lostnir \u2013 og sk\u00edthr\u00e6ddir. Hver var n\u00e6stur? L\u00edf okkar beggja var \u00ed r\u00fast, fort\u00ed\u00f0in forsm\u00e1\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00f3ge\u00f0slegum lygas\u00f6gum kvenna um mig og minn mann. \u00c9g kanna\u00f0ist ekkert vi\u00f0 \u00feessar vesalings konur, utan nokkrar, sem h\u00f6f\u00f0u miki\u00f0 smja\u00f0ra\u00f0 fyrir manni m\u00ednum \u00e1 sinum yngri \u00e1rum og h\u00f6tu\u00f0u mig fyrst og fremst.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00deetta var hatursherfer\u00f0, sem margir komu a\u00f0 og \u00e1ttu dj\u00fapar r\u00e6tur \u00ed okkar samf\u00e9lagi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Og \u00fev\u00ed spyr \u00e9g n\u00fana: Getur veri\u00f0, a\u00f0 \u00e1hrifam\u00e1ttur r\u00f3gsagnanna hafi a\u00f0 lokum n\u00e1\u00f0 alla lei\u00f0 inn \u00ed r\u00e9ttarsalinn \u2013 og vi\u00f0 goldi\u00f0 \u00feess?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Flestar \u00feessar s\u00f6gur um manninn minn voru hundgamlar, og \u00fea\u00f0 dr\u00f3 \u00far \u00e1hrifam\u00e6tti \u00feeirra. \u00dea\u00f0 var til d\u00e6mis of seint a\u00f0 h\u00f6f\u00f0a m\u00e1l gegn geranda. Voru engar n\u00fdlegar s\u00f6gur til?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00dea\u00f0 voru m\u00edn mist\u00f6k a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a Laufeyju a\u00f0 koma me\u00f0 \u00feessa Carmen Josefu, d\u00f3ttur s\u00edna \u00ed heims\u00f3kn \u00feetta sumar. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i t.d. ekki hugmynd um, a\u00f0 h\u00fan v\u00e6ri talsma\u00f0ur MeToo hreyfingarinnar, a\u00f0 h\u00fan fer\u00f0a\u00f0ist me\u00f0 handb\u00f3k St\u00edgam\u00f3ta – og a\u00f0 h\u00fan v\u00e6ri komin til \u00feess a\u00f0 finna h\u00f6ggsta\u00f0 \u00e1 manninum m\u00ednum?<\/p>\n\n\n\n E\u00f0a var \u00fea\u00f0 svo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00deegar vi\u00f0 vorum s\u00fdknu\u00f0 af H\u00e9ra\u00f0sd\u00f3mi hausti\u00f0 2021, las \u00e9g af tilviljun eftirfarandi texta \u00e1 f\u00e9sb\u00f3k nokkrum d\u00f6gum seinna: \u201eVeistu \u00fea\u00f0, Brynd\u00eds, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert versta eintak, sem til er af konu \u2013 og eiginlega verri en eiginma\u00f0ur \u00feinn! Kona sem horfir \u00ed hina \u00e1ttina, \u00e1 me\u00f0an eiginma\u00f0urinn n\u00ed\u00f0ist \u00e1 eigin ni\u00f0jum og b\u00f6rnum annarra, \u00fe.m.t. nemendum s\u00ednum \u00e1 barnsaldri…… Reyndu a\u00f0 kl\u00f3ra \u00ed bakkann, gamla, \u00fei\u00f0 eru\u00f0 ekkert nema \u00fatbrunni\u00f0 n\u00ed\u00f0ingspakk, og flestum er drullusama, nema \u00feeim sem n\u00fa \u00feurfa a\u00f0 l\u00ed\u00f0a fyrir illverk ykkar og lygar…..\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n Undir \u00feetta skrifar Carmen Josefa J\u00f3hannsd\u00f3ttir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00de\u00e1 voru li\u00f0in \u00ferj\u00fa \u00e1r fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan kom \u00ed heims\u00f3kn til okkar \u00ed Andal\u00fas\u00edu \u00e1sam m\u00f3\u00f0ur sinni og litlu systur. Var h\u00fan \u00fe\u00e1 \u00feegar farin a\u00f0 leggja \u00e1 mig sl\u00edkt hatur, sem birtist \u00fearna \u00ed or\u00f0um hennar? Getur \u00fea\u00f0 veri\u00f0?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c9g man, a\u00f0 h\u00fan yrti varla \u00e1 okkur J\u00f3n Baldvin vi\u00f0 komuna til Salobrena. \u00de\u00e6r systur hurfu inn \u00ed herbergi, sem \u00e9g haf\u00f0i \u00e6tla\u00f0 \u00feeim, og l\u00e9tu ekki sj\u00e1 sig fyrr en daginn eftir. Hva\u00f0 bj\u00f3 a\u00f0 baki? \u00c9g spyr sj\u00e1lfa mig n\u00fana \u00feeirrar spurningar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vi\u00f0 vorum ekki farin a\u00f0 brag\u00f0a \u00e1 v\u00edninu \u2013 hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 matnum – \u00feegar Laufey byrjar a\u00f0 \u00f6skra \u00e1 okkur me\u00f0 sv\u00edvir\u00f0ingar og lygar, sem \u00e6tlu\u00f0u engan endi a\u00f0 taka. Enda hvarf d\u00f3ttirin fr\u00e1 bor\u00f0inu undir r\u00e6\u00f0u m\u00f3\u00f0ur sinnar og s\u00e1st ekki eftir \u00fea\u00f0. Og skammri stundu seinna voru \u00fe\u00e6r allar, m\u00e6\u00f0gurnar \u00ferj\u00e1r, horfnar \u2013 og sneru ekki aftur. \u00c9g var komin upp \u00ed r\u00fam \u00ed \u00e1falli, fj\u00f3r\u00f0i gesturinn farinn me\u00f0 \u00feeim or\u00f0um, a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vanda betur vali\u00f0 \u00e1 gestum m\u00ednum n\u00e6st. Ma\u00f0urinn minn var f\u00f3r upp \u00e1 \u00feak, bar ni\u00f0ur matf\u00f6ng, diska og gl\u00f6s, og var b\u00fainn a\u00f0 ganga fr\u00e1 \u00ed eldh\u00fasinu, \u00feegar \u00e9g dratta\u00f0ist loks \u00e1 f\u00e6tur s\u00ed\u00f0degis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00dea\u00f0 var Styrmir Gunnarsson, vinur okkar og sk\u00f3laf\u00e9lagi, sem sag\u00f0i \u00ed d\u00f3msal \u00e1ri\u00f0 2008, a\u00f0 \u00cdsland v\u00e6ri \u201e\u00f3ge\u00f0slegt \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lag\u201c. \u00dea\u00f0 var hhrollvekjandi fullyr\u00f0ing, sem \u00e9g skildi kannski ekki alveg \u00fe\u00e1, en n\u00fana, \u00feegar \u00e9g upplifi \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 eigin skinni, \u00fe\u00e1 fyllist \u00e9g \u00f3tta vi\u00f0 tilhugsunina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c9g haf\u00f0i aldrei veri\u00f0 \u00ed d\u00f3msal \u00e1\u00f0ur, a\u00f0eins horft \u00e1 vitnalei\u00f0slur \u00ed sj\u00f3nvarpi og s\u00e9\u00f0 hvernig menn studdu h\u00f6nd \u00e1 b\u00edbl\u00eduna og s\u00f3ru vi\u00f0 hana, a\u00f0 \u00feeir seg\u00f0u sannleikann – og ekkert nema sannleikann. \u00deegar \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf m\u00e6tti til yfirheyrslu \u00ed d\u00f3msal, s\u00e1 \u00e9g enga b\u00edbl\u00edu, en einhvers sta\u00f0ar var \u00e9g minnt \u00e1, a\u00f0 m\u00e9r b\u00e6ri a\u00f0 segja sannleikann, og \u201e a\u00f0 refsivert v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 lj\u00faga \u00ed vitnast\u00faku\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00dea\u00f0 var l\u00edklega \u00feess vegna, sem \u00e9g haf\u00f0i bibl\u00eduna me\u00f0fer\u00f0is, \u00feegar \u00e9g var k\u00f6llu\u00f0 \u00ed anna\u00f0 sinn til a\u00f0 bera vitni \u00ed \u201erassstrokum\u00e1linu\u201c svokalla\u00f0a. Og \u00fea\u00f0 var \u00feess vegna, sem \u00e9g lag\u00f0i h\u00f6nd \u00e1 hina helgu b\u00f3k, \u00feegar \u00e9g haf\u00f0i loki\u00f0 m\u00e1li m\u00ednu og s\u00f3r vi\u00f0 nafn f\u00f6\u00f0ur m\u00edns og m\u00f3\u00f0ur, a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef\u00f0i sagt sannleikann \u2013 og ekkert nema sannleikann \u2013 og horf\u00f0i beint \u00ed augun \u00e1 d\u00f3murunum \u00feremur, sem s\u00e1tu \u00ed hinum enda salarins og voru greinilega ekki a\u00f0 hlusta \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0, sem \u00e9g var a\u00f0 segja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A\u00f0 vera \u201eheppinn me\u00f0 d\u00f3mara\u201c var okkur sagt, a\u00f0 skipti mestu m\u00e1li. Vi\u00f0 vorum ekki heppin me\u00f0 d\u00f3mara. M\u00e1l okkar f\u00f3r tvisvar sinnum fyrir r\u00e9tt. \u00cd fyrra skipti\u00f0 vorum vi\u00f0 s\u00fdknu\u00f0 (n\u00f3v. 2022). en \u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ara var ma\u00f0urinn minn d\u00e6mdur skilor\u00f0sbundi\u00f0 \u00ed tveggja m\u00e1na\u00f0a fangelsi og grei\u00f0slu sektar upp \u00e1 nokkrar millj\u00f3nir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" M\u00e9r finnst einhvern veginn, a\u00f0 \u00e9g geti ekki sagt skili\u00f0 vi\u00f0 land mitt og \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0 \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 gera hreint fyrir m\u00ednum dyrum – segja sannleikann. Au\u00f0m\u00fdkingin, ni\u00f0url\u00e6gingin er sl\u00edk, a\u00f0 okkur er ekki v\u00e6rt h\u00e9r lengur. \u00c9g tr\u00fa\u00f0i \u00fev\u00ed sta\u00f0fastlega, a\u00f0 r\u00e9ttl\u00e6ti\u00f0 mundi sigra – a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 byggjum vi\u00f0 heilbrigt r\u00e9ttarkerfi. 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