A\u00f0f\u00f6r \u00de\u00f3ru T\u00f3masd\u00f3ttur a\u00f0 mannor\u00f0i f\u00f6\u00f0ur m\u00edns \u00ed N\u00fdju l\u00edfi (2.tbl. 2012), a\u00f0 undirlagi Gu\u00f0r\u00fanar Har\u00f0ard\u00f3ttur og fj\u00f6lskyldu hennar, rifjar upp fyrir m\u00e9r, a\u00f0 eftir eina af m\u00f6rgum s\u00e1ttatilraunum, sem ger\u00f0ar voru vi\u00f0 fj\u00f6lskyldu Gu\u00f0r\u00fanar, sneri m\u00f3\u00f0urbr\u00f3\u00f0ir minn til baka me\u00f0 \u00feessi skilabo\u00f0: \u201eS\u00e1ttatilraunir? \u00dei\u00f0 geti\u00f0 gleymt \u00fev\u00ed. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e6tir ykkur ekkert nema svartn\u00e6tti af hatri\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n
Hvers vegna? Hven\u00e6r breyttist vinar\u00feel \u00ed \u00f3vinafagna\u00f0? \u00c9g tek undir me\u00f0 \u00feeim sem segja, a\u00f0 deilua\u00f0ilar hef\u00f0u \u00e1tt a\u00f0 hafa mannd\u00f3m til a\u00f0 \u00fatklj\u00e1 \u00e1greiningsm\u00e1l s\u00edn utan vi\u00f0 kastlj\u00f3s fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0la. Fj\u00f6lskyldub\u00f6l af \u00feessu tagi \u00e1 \u00fear ekkert erindi. \u00dear me\u00f0 er ekki veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 m\u00e6la b\u00f3t neins konar \u00fe\u00f6ggun e\u00f0a yfirhylmingu, fjarri \u00fev\u00ed. Einungis, a\u00f0 s\u00e1ttaumleitanir og s\u00e1lusorgun hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 betur vi\u00f0eigandi.<\/p>\n
En \u00far \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00fai\u00f0 er a\u00f0 bera m\u00e1lin \u00e1 torg, ver\u00f0ur hvorki vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 n\u00e9 til baka sn\u00fai\u00f0. Tilgangur \u00feessarar greinar er ekki bara s\u00e1 a\u00f0 hreinsa nafn f\u00f6\u00f0ur m\u00edns af \u00f3r\u00e9ttm\u00e6tum \u00e1s\u00f6kunum. Tilgangurinn er l\u00edka s\u00e1 a\u00f0 s\u00fdna fram \u00e1, af hva\u00f0a r\u00f3tum \u00feetta \u201esvartn\u00e6ttishatur\u201c er runni\u00f0, hva\u00f0a hvatir b\u00faa a\u00f0 baki og hva\u00f0 fyrir \u00feeim vakir, sem a\u00f0 \u00feessari a\u00f0f\u00f6r standa.<\/p>\n
Byrjum \u00e1 byrjuninni. Ritstj\u00f3ri N\u00fds l\u00edfs birtir mynd af Gu\u00f0r\u00fanu Har\u00f0ard\u00f3ttur, sem er \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00f6g\u00f0 vera t\u00edu \u00e1ra, um \u00fea\u00f0 leyti, sem h\u00fan \u00e1 a\u00f0 hafa or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir kynfer\u00f0islegri \u00e1reitni af h\u00e1lfu J\u00f3ns Baldvins. Me\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum or\u00f0um: Fa\u00f0ir minn er sag\u00f0ur vera barnan\u00ed\u00f0ingur. Lengra ver\u00f0ur t\u00e6past gengi\u00f0 \u00ed a\u00f0 vega a\u00f0 \u00e6ru manns.<\/p>\n
Til sannindamerkis um, a\u00f0 \u00feessi \u00e1k\u00e6ra eigi vi\u00f0 einhver r\u00f6k a\u00f0 sty\u00f0jast, eru tilgreind tv\u00f6 atvik, \u00feegar Gu\u00f0r\u00fan er t\u00f3lf og fimmt\u00e1n \u00e1ra, fyrir meira en h\u00e1lfum \u00f6\u00f0rum \u00e1ratug. \u00dear me\u00f0 er b\u00fai\u00f0 a\u00f0 blanda m\u00e9r og b\u00f6rnunum m\u00ednum inn \u00ed m\u00e1li\u00f0, sem og systur minni, Sn\u00e6fr\u00ed\u00f0i, auk m\u00f3\u00f0ur okkar. Vi\u00f0 vorum nefnilega \u00f6ll vi\u00f0st\u00f6dd \u00feessi tilgreindu atvik og vitum \u00fev\u00ed, um hva\u00f0 er veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala. Sj\u00f3n er s\u00f6gu r\u00edkari. Vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum ekki a\u00f0 rei\u00f0a okkur \u00e1 fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn annarra. Vi\u00f0 erum \u00f6ll sannf\u00e6r\u00f0 og samm\u00e1la um, a\u00f0 \u00fearna \u00e1tti engin kynfer\u00f0sleg \u00e1reitni s\u00e9r sta\u00f0. Hvers vegna var ekki k\u00e6rt fyrr en eftir d\u00fak og disk? \u00dea\u00f0 er einfaldlega af \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hvarfla\u00f0i ekki a\u00f0 neinum \u2013 hvorki Gu\u00f0r\u00fanu, a\u00f0standendum hennar n\u00e9 okkur hinum \u2013 a\u00f0 h\u00fan hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 beitt kynfer\u00f0islegri \u00e1reitni. \u00d6ll okkar samskipti n\u00e6stu \u00e1rin sta\u00f0festa \u00feetta. Ef a\u00f0rar s\u00f6gur \u00far s\u00f6mu h\u00f6fundarsmi\u00f0ju (\u201ehann sag\u00f0i \u2013 h\u00fan sag\u00f0i\u201c s\u00f6gubur\u00f0ur) eru \u00e1m\u00f3ta tr\u00faver\u00f0ugar og \u00feessar, \u00fe\u00e1 gef \u00e9g satt a\u00f0 segja ekki miki\u00f0 fyrir \u00fe\u00e6r \u2013 og l\u00e1i m\u00e9r, hver sem vill. Hva\u00f0 stendur \u00fe\u00e1 eftir? Tilraun til mannor\u00f0smor\u00f0s, sem hefur ekki anna\u00f0 vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 sty\u00f0jast en s\u00f6gusagnir og \u2013 eftir\u00e1spuna.<\/p>\n
J\u00e1, en, hva\u00f0 me\u00f0 br\u00e9fi\u00f0, sem fylgdi b\u00f3k Vargas Llosa, og JBH sendi Gu\u00f0r\u00fanu til Venezuela, \u00fear sem h\u00fan dvaldist sem skiptinemi, \u00feegar h\u00fan var sautj\u00e1n \u00e1ra? Spurningin um \u00fea\u00f0 var s\u00fa, hvort efni br\u00e9fs (og b\u00f3kar) g\u00e6ti talist hafa \u201es\u00e6rt blyg\u00f0unarkennd\u201c vi\u00f0takanda og jafnvel talist refsivert a\u00f0 l\u00f6gum? Saks\u00f3knari treysti s\u00e9r ekki til a\u00f0 fallast \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 og v\u00edsa\u00f0i \u00feeirri k\u00e6ru fr\u00e1, eftir a\u00f0 hafa \u00edhuga\u00f0 m\u00e1li\u00f0 \u00ed h\u00e1lft anna\u00f0 \u00e1r. \u00de\u00f3ra T\u00f3masd\u00f3ttir leggur saks\u00f3knara \u00feau or\u00f0 \u00ed munn \u00ed grein sinni, a\u00f0 hann hafi l\u00fdst JBH \u201esekan skv. \u00edslenskum l\u00f6gum\u201c. \u00deetta er hrein f\u00f6lsun \u00e1 ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u r\u00e9ttarranns\u00f3knar.<\/b> Eitt d\u00e6mi af m\u00f6rgum um v\u00edtaver\u00f0a bla\u00f0amennsku \u00de\u00f3ru.<\/p>\n
Hitt er svo anna\u00f0 m\u00e1l, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt efni br\u00e9fs s\u00e9 ekki refsivert a\u00f0 l\u00f6gum, getur \u00fea\u00f0 veri\u00f0 \u00f3vi\u00f0urkv\u00e6milegt, \u00feannig a\u00f0 vi\u00f0takandi eigi fullan r\u00e9tt \u00e1 afs\u00f6kunarbei\u00f0ni. Og \u00fea\u00f0 vanta\u00f0i ekkert upp \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0, a\u00f0 s\u00fa afs\u00f6kunarbei\u00f0ni v\u00e6ri fram borin. Allt sem var\u00f0ar \u00feessi br\u00e9faskipti, \u00fe.m.t. hvers vegna til \u00feeirra var stofna\u00f0, er a\u00f0 fullu uppl\u00fdst. \u00c9g hef engu vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta, sem \u00fear stendur. Og \u00fe\u00f3. Br\u00e9fritari kunni alla vega a\u00f0 skammast s\u00edn. Hann br\u00e1st ekki vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 forher\u00f0ingu, \u00fe\u00f6ggun e\u00f0a yfirhylmingu. Hann i\u00f0ra\u00f0ist, ba\u00f0st fyrirgefningar, leita\u00f0i hj\u00e1lpar og bau\u00f0st til a\u00f0 gera allt, sem \u00ed hans valdi st\u00e6\u00f0i til a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta fyrir brot sitt. \u00dea\u00f0 er meira en sagt ver\u00f0ur um marga a\u00f0ra, sem a\u00f0 \u00feessu m\u00e1li hafa komi\u00f0 og kunna hvorki a\u00f0 skammast s\u00edn n\u00e9 bi\u00f0jast afs\u00f6kunar \u00e1 mannor\u00f0smei\u00f0andi g\u00edfuryr\u00f0um.<\/p>\n
\u00dearna erum vi\u00f0 loksins farin a\u00f0 n\u00e1lgast kjarna m\u00e1lsins: Af hverju stafar allt \u00feetta \u201esvartn\u00e6tti af hatri\u201c<\/b>, sem m\u00f3\u00f0urbr\u00f3\u00f0ir minn l\u00fdsti og gegns\u00fdrir t.d. grein H\u00f6llu Har\u00f0ard\u00f3ttur \u00ed FT. (23.03.12) \u2013 ef vitnisbur\u00f0urinn \u00ed m\u00e1linu og frambornar sk\u00fdringar eru ekki bur\u00f0ugri en \u00feetta? Er ekki kominn t\u00edmi til a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta feluleiknum og segja sannleikann umb\u00fa\u00f0alaust, fyrst \u00feau, sem a\u00f0 \u00feessari a\u00f0f\u00f6r standa, hafa vali\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 lei\u00f0 a\u00f0 finna \u00feessu \u00f3skiljanlega hatri s\u00ednu \u00fatr\u00e1s \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum?<\/p>\nHugar\u00f3rar<\/h2>\n
\u00de\u00e6r eru \u00f3f\u00e1ar fj\u00f6lskyldurnar \u00e1 \u00cdslandi , sem h\u00fdsa \u00feann harm sinn \u00ed hlj\u00f3\u00f0i, a\u00f0 einhver fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0limur er haldinn ge\u00f0sj\u00fakd\u00f3mi. \u00deessi sj\u00fakd\u00f3mur er \u00feess e\u00f0lis, a\u00f0 s\u00e1 sem er haldinn honum telst l\u00f6ngum hvorki \u00e1byrgur or\u00f0a sinna n\u00e9 ger\u00f0a. Til skamms t\u00edma var reynt a\u00f0 fara me\u00f0 sl\u00edka \u00f3g\u00e6fu sem mannsmor\u00f0. Fyrir \u00e1hrif g\u00f3\u00f0ra manna, ekki s\u00edst bernskuvinar f\u00f6\u00f0ur m\u00edns, Styrmis Gunnarssonar, hefur \u00ed seinni t\u00ed\u00f0 veri\u00f0 reynt a\u00f0 svipta hulunni af leyndard\u00f3mnum, sem hefur umluki\u00f0 sj\u00fakd\u00f3minn. Menn hafa reynt a\u00f0 beina umfj\u00f6llun um veikindi af \u00feessu tagi og aflei\u00f0ingar \u00feeirra \u00ed \u00feann farveg, a\u00f0 um \u00fea\u00f0 megi r\u00e6\u00f0a ford\u00f3malaust, r\u00e9tt eins og hver \u00f6nnur veikindi. \u00c9g treysti \u00fev\u00ed, \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed sem h\u00e9r fer \u00e1 eftir, a\u00f0 \u00feetta vi\u00f0horf s\u00e9 anna\u00f0 og meira en or\u00f0in t\u00f3m, \u00feegar \u00e1 reynir.<\/p>\n
Allir sem \u00feekkja eitthva\u00f0 til okkar fj\u00f6lskyldu vita, a\u00f0 einn \u00far okkar h\u00f3pi hefur lengi veri\u00f0 haldinn ge\u00f0hvarfas\u00fdki. Vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum \u00f6ll, foreldrar okkar, systkini og jafnvel n\u00e1nir \u00e6ttingjar, veri\u00f0 tilneydd, a\u00f0 l\u00e6knisr\u00e1\u00f0i, a\u00f0 hafa afskipti af sj\u00faklingnum til \u00feess a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir, a\u00f0 hann fari sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r e\u00f0a \u00f6\u00f0rum a\u00f0 vo\u00f0a. Aflei\u00f0ingarnar hafa veri\u00f0 \u00f3umfl\u00fdjanlegar. \u00dea\u00f0 er alkunna, a\u00f0 rei\u00f0i hins sj\u00faka eftir nau\u00f0ungarvistun beinist fyrst og fremst a\u00f0 hans e\u00f0a hennar n\u00e1nustu. \u00deannig h\u00f6fum vi\u00f0 \u00f6ll m\u00e1tt \u00feola haturs- og hefndarhug fyrir viki\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 hefur teki\u00f0 \u00e1 sig \u00fdmsar birtingarmyndir \u00ed t\u00edmans r\u00e1s. Flest \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sammerkt \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sn\u00fdst um hugar\u00f3ra um kynfer\u00f0islega misnotkun af einu e\u00f0a \u00f6\u00f0ru tagi, sem s\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar segja, a\u00f0 s\u00e9 algengt og al\u00feekkt sj\u00fakd\u00f3mseinkenni.<\/p>\n
\u00deetta hefur bitna\u00f0 \u00e1 f\u00f6\u00f0ur okkar me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 d\u00f3ttir hans hefur spunni\u00f0 upp s\u00f6gur um, a\u00f0 hann hafi misnota\u00f0 hana unga, og a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 yngri systur hennar h\u00f6fum m\u00e1tt \u00feola sl\u00edkt sl\u00edkt hi\u00f0 sama. Samkv\u00e6mt \u00feessum sj\u00faklegu hugar\u00f3rum hefur fa\u00f0ir hennar \u00e1tt m\u00f6k vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed sem n\u00e6st allar kvenpers\u00f3nur innan fj\u00f6lskyldunnar, l\u00edfs sem li\u00f0nar, barnungar jafnt sem eiginkonur annarra fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0lima, fyrir utan vinkonur hennar og sk\u00f3lasystur. \u00deessir sj\u00faklegu hugar\u00f3rar hafa veri\u00f0 breiddir \u00fat munnlega og br\u00e9flega \u00ed meira en \u00e1ratug. Hj\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed fer ekki, a\u00f0 s\u00f6gubur\u00f0ur af \u00feessu tagi eitrar sm\u00e1m saman \u00fat fr\u00e1 s\u00e9r. \u00ddmsir, sem ekki \u00feekkja a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur, hafa freistast til a\u00f0 tr\u00faa r\u00f3ginum. A\u00f0rir hafa gripi\u00f0 hann upp fegins hendi til a\u00f0 finna h\u00f6ggsta\u00f0 \u00e1 p\u00f3lit\u00edskum andst\u00e6\u00f0ingi.<\/b><\/p>\n
Einn m\u00f3\u00f0urbr\u00f3\u00f0ir minn, \u00e1samt \u00fe\u00e1verandi eiginkonu sinni, t\u00f3k a\u00f0 s\u00e9r umbe\u00f0inn a\u00f0 annast um unga d\u00f3ttur, me\u00f0an m\u00f3\u00f0irin var vistu\u00f0 \u00e1 sj\u00fakrah\u00fasi og afi og amma b\u00fasett erlendis. \u00cd sta\u00f0inn uppskar hann formlega \u00e1k\u00e6ru m\u00f3\u00f0urinnar um kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni vi\u00f0 d\u00f3ttur hennar. K\u00e6ran var ranns\u00f6ku\u00f0 af vi\u00f0komandi yfirv\u00f6ldum og v\u00edsa\u00f0 fr\u00e1 sem tilefnislausri. Fa\u00f0ir minn er hvorki s\u00e1 fyrsti n\u00e9 eini, sem hefur m\u00e1tt \u00feola sl\u00edkar \u00e1sakanir.<\/p>\n
\u00cd \u00ferj\u00fa \u00e1r st\u00f3\u00f0 Sn\u00e6fr\u00ed\u00f0ur systir m\u00edn \u00ed illskeyttri deilu vi\u00f0 \u00edtalskan barnsf\u00f6\u00f0ur sinn um forr\u00e6\u00f0i yfir d\u00f3ttur \u00feeirra. \u00d6ll fj\u00f6lskyldan st\u00f3\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9tt a\u00f0 baki Sn\u00e6fr\u00ed\u00f0i \u00ed \u00feessari \u00f6rlagar\u00edku deilu \u2013 me\u00f0 einni undantekningu. Elsta d\u00f3ttirin reyndi a\u00f0 leggja \u00f3vini systur okkar li\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 mata hann \u00e1 ofangreindum s\u00f6gubur\u00f0i um f\u00f6\u00f0ur hennar, \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed skyni a\u00f0 veikja tilkall systur sinnar til forr\u00e6\u00f0is yfir d\u00f3ttur sinni. \u00deessi framkoma ver\u00f0ur ekki sk\u00fdr\u00f0 nema \u00ed lj\u00f3si \u00feess haturs \u2013 og hefndarhuga, sem sj\u00faklingurinn ber til foreldra sinna og systkina.<\/p>\n
\u00d3g\u00e6fa m\u00edn var s\u00fa, a\u00f0 \u00ed fjarveru foreldra og systkina kom \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed minn hlut, ekki bara einu sinni heldur tvisvar, a\u00f0 a\u00f0sto\u00f0a yfirv\u00f6ld, a\u00f0 l\u00e6knisr\u00e1\u00f0i, vi\u00f0 nau\u00f0ungarvistun sj\u00faklingsins. \u00dea\u00f0 hef\u00f0i \u00e9g betur l\u00e1ti\u00f0 \u00f3gert. \u00dea\u00f0 var ekki einasta, a\u00f0 m\u00e9r v\u00e6ri ger\u00f0 fyrirs\u00e1t (sem hr\u00e6ddi n\u00e6stum \u00far m\u00e9r l\u00edft\u00f3runa).\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00fe\u00f3 ekkert \u00ed samanbur\u00f0i vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0, sem gert var til a\u00f0 ey\u00f0ileggja nafn mitt og or\u00f0st\u00edr \u2013 me\u00f0 sl\u00edku offorsi, a\u00f0 \u00e9g hr\u00f6kkla\u00f0ist \u00far landi me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnum m\u00ednum. Allur snerist s\u00e1 r\u00f3gbur\u00f0ur um \u201ekynfer\u00f0ism\u00e1l\/kynl\u00edf\u201c.<\/p>\n
\u00deetta er enn eitt d\u00e6mi\u00f0 um, hversu grafalvarlegar aflei\u00f0ingar \u00feessi sj\u00fakd\u00f3mur getur haft, ekki einasta fyrir sj\u00faklinginn sj\u00e1lfan heldur fyrir alla hans n\u00e1nustu.<\/b><\/p>\n
\u00c1 s.l. hausti barst okkur vitneskja um, a\u00f0 Innanr\u00edkisr\u00e1\u00f0uneyti og R\u00edkisl\u00f6greglustj\u00f3ra hef\u00f0u borist or\u00f0sendingar, ekki fr\u00e1 sj\u00faklingnum a\u00f0 \u00feessu sinni, heldur fr\u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum bandamanni hennar \u00ed r\u00f3gsherfer\u00f0inni, nefnilega barnsf\u00f6\u00f0ur systur minnar \u00e1 \u00cdtal\u00edu. Tilgangurinn var a\u00f0 koma \u00e1 framf\u00e6ri br\u00e9fum fr\u00e1 elstu systur minni me\u00f0 l\u00edtt dulb\u00fanum \u00e1s\u00f6kunum um kynfer\u00f0islega misnotkun f\u00f6\u00f0ur okkar \u00e1 okkur systrum. \u00deetta var s\u00f6gubur\u00f0ur \u00ed svipu\u00f0um anda og fram kom \u00ed grein \u00de\u00f3ru T\u00f3masd\u00f3ttur \u00ed N\u00fdju l\u00edfi.<\/p>\n
Allt ber \u00feetta \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sama brunni. \u00dea\u00f0 er r\u00f3gsmask\u00edna \u00ed gangi, sem \u00fej\u00f3nar a\u00f0eins einum tilgangi \u2013 a\u00f0 hafa \u00e6runa af f\u00f6\u00f0ur m\u00ednum og fj\u00f6lskyldu okkar. Takist \u00fea\u00f0 ekki fyrir d\u00f3msst\u00f3lum, \u00fe\u00e1 skal l\u00e1ti\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 reyna \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum.<\/b><\/p>\nKletturinn a\u00f0 baki<\/h2>\n
\u00cd lj\u00f3si \u00feessa br\u00e1 m\u00e9r s\u00ed\u00f0ur en ella, \u00feegar \u00e9g f\u00e9kk s\u00edmtal fr\u00e1 Gu\u00f0r\u00fanu Har\u00f0ard\u00f3ttur \u00e1ri\u00f0 2002, \u00fear sem h\u00fan var n\u00fdkomin af fundi me\u00f0 systur minni, \u00e1samt systrum s\u00ednum og fr\u00e6nkum. \u00de\u00e1 heyr\u00f0i \u00e9g hana halda \u00fev\u00ed fram \u00ed fyrsta sinn, a\u00f0 fa\u00f0ir minn hef\u00f0i \u00e1reitt hana kynfer\u00f0islega. S\u00ed\u00f0an hefur sagan veri\u00f0 kl\u00e6dd \u00ed faglegri b\u00faning, a\u00f0 fenginni r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f fr\u00e1 St\u00edgam\u00f3tum (hj\u00e1 m\u00f3\u00f0ur \u00de\u00f3ru T\u00f3masd\u00f3ttur, ritstj\u00f3ra N\u00fds l\u00edfs?). \u00dea\u00f0 er engu logi\u00f0 \u00e1 hana systur m\u00edna um \u00edmyndunarafl og sannf\u00e6ringarkraft, \u00feegar s\u00e1 g\u00e1llinn er \u00e1 henni. H\u00fan er l\u00f6gfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur a\u00f0 mennt, fluggreind og \u00ferumum\u00e1lflytjandi. H\u00fan er konan sem g\u00e6ti selt \u00feeim sand \u00ed Sahara. Er ekki sagt, a\u00f0 tr\u00fain flytji fj\u00f6ll?<\/p>\n
Allt fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan var nau\u00f0ungarvistu\u00f0 \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild, hefur rei\u00f0i hennar og hatur beinst a\u00f0 f\u00f6\u00f0ur hennar og, eftir atvikum, \u00f6\u00f0rum fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0limum. \u00de\u00f3tt frambur\u00f0urinn s\u00e9 breytilegur eftir \u00e1rst\u00ed\u00f0um, sn\u00fdst hann samt alltaf um \u00fea\u00f0 sama: Fa\u00f0ir hennar \u00e1 a\u00f0 hafa misnota\u00f0 hana sj\u00e1lfa (sem barn), okkur systurnar, d\u00f3ttur hennar, \u00f6mmu okkar (v\u00e6ntanlega sem fullor\u00f0na konu) og fr\u00e6nkur okkar \u2013 fyrir n\u00fa utan vinkonur hennar og sk\u00f3lasystur. Kannski gleymi \u00e9g einhverri. M\u00e9r er \u00fe\u00e1 vorkunn, \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sakaskr\u00e1in er s\u00edbreytileg. Meint \u00e1reitni vi\u00f0 Gu\u00f0r\u00fanu fr\u00e6nku okkar sem barn, er bara partur af l\u00f6ngum lista um samb\u00e6rilegt ath\u00e6fi.<\/p>\n
Vi\u00f0 yfirheyrslur \u00ed tengslum vi\u00f0 ranns\u00f3kn r\u00edkissaks\u00f3knara \u00e1 k\u00e6rum Gu\u00f0r\u00fanar Har\u00f0ard\u00f3ttur var r\u00e6kilega fjalla\u00f0 um tengsl \u00feeirra \u00e1k\u00e6ruatri\u00f0a vi\u00f0 \u00feennan s\u00edbreytilega s\u00f6gubur\u00f0 um meinta kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni f\u00f6\u00f0ur m\u00edns vi\u00f0 n\u00e1nast allt kvenkyns innan fj\u00f6lskyldunnar. S\u00e1 s\u00f6gubur\u00f0ur er i\u00f0ulega fram borinn til a\u00f0 ey\u00f0a efasemdum \u00feeirra, sem reynst hafa tregir til a\u00f0 tr\u00faa frambur\u00f0i Gu\u00f0r\u00fanar um meint \u00e1reiti \u00e1 barnsaldri e\u00f0a sakn\u00e6mi br\u00e9faskrifta vi\u00f0 hana. Ef \u00fei\u00f0 tr\u00fai\u00f0 ekki Gu\u00f0r\u00fanu, \u00fe\u00e1 hlj\u00f3ti\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0, a\u00f0 minnsta kosti, a\u00f0 tr\u00faa hans eigin d\u00f3ttur \u2013 e\u00f0a hva\u00f0? Var \u00fea\u00f0 ekki svona, sem fj\u00f6\u00f0rin (br\u00e9fi\u00f0) var\u00f0 a\u00f0 heilli h\u00e6nu \u00ed d\u00e6mis\u00f6gu danska sk\u00e1ldsins H.C.Andersen?<\/b><\/p>\n
Allt er \u00feetta (sj\u00e1lfsagt \u00f3vart) sta\u00f0fest me\u00f0 or\u00f0um Gu\u00f0r\u00fanar sj\u00e1lfrar \u00ed vi\u00f0talinu vi\u00f0 \u00de\u00f3ru T\u00f3masd\u00f3ttur. \u00dear segir Gu\u00f0r\u00fan berum or\u00f0um: \u201eAld\u00eds, elsta d\u00f3ttirin (J\u00f3ns Baldvins og Brynd\u00edsar) hefur reyndar sta\u00f0i\u00f0 me\u00f0 m\u00e9r eins og klettur\u201c. \u00deessir sj\u00faklegu hugar\u00f3rar eru me\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum or\u00f0um \u201ekletturinn\u201c a\u00f0 baki \u00e1k\u00e6rum \u00e1 hendur JBH.<\/b> \u00deetta er vitnisbur\u00f0urinn, sem \u00e1 a\u00f0 ey\u00f0a efasemdum vantr\u00faa\u00f0ra, \u00fe\u00f3tt r\u00e9ttarkerfi\u00f0 hafi v\u00edsa\u00f0 k\u00e6runum fr\u00e1 \u00ed tv\u00edgang. \u00deetta sk\u00fdrir l\u00edka, hvers vegna sakleysileg atvik \u00e1 bernsku\u00e1rum, sem engum datt \u00fe\u00e1 \u00ed hug a\u00f0 kenna vi\u00f0 kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni ur\u00f0u, m\u00f6rgum \u00e1rum seinna, a\u00f0 meintu gl\u00e6psamlegu ath\u00e6fi.<\/p>\nFj\u00f6lskyldub\u00f6li\u00f0<\/h2>\n
\u00deegar h\u00e9r er komi\u00f0 s\u00f6gu haf\u00f0i \u00feetta \u201esvartn\u00e6ttishatur\u201c n\u00e1\u00f0 a\u00f0 kynda undir eldum tortryggni og \u00f3vildar, sem \u00fe\u00fdddi, a\u00f0 \u00f6llum s\u00e1ttaumleitunum var v\u00edsa\u00f0 \u00e1 bug. S\u00ed\u00f0an hefur fj\u00f6lskyldan veri\u00f0 \u00ed s\u00e1rum. Hatri\u00f0 gr\u00f3f um sig og hefndarhugurinn r\u00e9\u00f0i f\u00f6r. \u00deetta er fj\u00f6lskylduharmleikurinn, sem b\u00fdr a\u00f0 baki \u00f6llu \u00feessu m\u00e1li. \u00dea\u00f0 er engin lei\u00f0 a\u00f0 skilja \u00feetta \u201esvartn\u00e6ttishatur\u201c sem a\u00f0 baki b\u00fdr, nema me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feekkja \u00feessa s\u00f6gu. Sj\u00faklegur s\u00f6gubur\u00f0ur, eins og h\u00e9r hefur veri\u00f0 l\u00fdst, hefur s\u00e1\u00f0 fr\u00e6jum tortryggni, \u00falf\u00fa\u00f0ar og haturs innan fj\u00f6lskyldunnar og lagt sitt af m\u00f6rkum til a\u00f0 \u00fatiloka s\u00e6ttir.<\/p>\n
Systurnar \u00ferj\u00e1r, Halla, Katr\u00edn og Gu\u00f0r\u00fan, d\u00e6tur Magdalenu m\u00f3\u00f0ursystur minnar, voru afskaplega n\u00e1nar m\u00e9r \u00e1 uppvaxtar\u00e1runum. \u00de\u00e6r voru hluti af minni fj\u00f6lskyldu. \u00de\u00e6r g\u00e6ttu barna minna, r\u00e9tt eins og \u00e9g haf\u00f0i g\u00e6tt \u00feeirra. \u00c9g leit \u00e1 m\u00f3\u00f0ur \u00feeirra sem m\u00edna a\u00f0ra m\u00f3\u00f0ur. H\u00fan \u00f3l mig upp og ger\u00f0i mig a\u00f0 feminista. Einmitt vegna \u00feess hversu n\u00e1num fj\u00f6lskyldub\u00f6ndum vi\u00f0 tengdumst \u00e1 uppvaxtar\u00e1rum \u00feeirra, eru vinslitin, sem hlotist hafa af \u00feessum r\u00f3gbur\u00f0i \u00f6llum saman, \u00feeim mun s\u00e1rari.<\/p>\n
Konan, sem Halla Har\u00f0ard\u00f3ttir r\u00e6\u00f0st \u00e1 me\u00f0 offorsi \u00ed grein sinni \u00ed FT. (23.03.s.l.), \u00e1tti st\u00f3ran hlut \u00ed a\u00f0 ala hana upp. \u00der\u00e1tt fyrir allt sem \u00e1 undan er gengi\u00f0 kemur m\u00e9r samt sem \u00e1\u00f0ur \u00e1 \u00f3vart, hva\u00f0a or\u00f0um h\u00fan leyfir s\u00e9r a\u00f0 fara um hana m\u00f3\u00f0ur m\u00edna.\u201c Si\u00f0blinda og me\u00f0virkni?\u201c H\u00fan m\u00f3\u00f0ir m\u00edn er samkv\u00e6mt H\u00f6llu meira a\u00f0 segja \u201eh\u00e6tt a\u00f0 vera sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0 pers\u00f3na\u201c. Fyrr m\u00e1 n\u00fa vera ofst\u00e6ki\u00f0 \u2013 gott ef \u00feetta ja\u00f0rar ekki vi\u00f0 kvenfyrirlitningu?<\/p>\n
Hva\u00f0 hefur h\u00fan m\u00f3\u00f0ir m\u00edn gert \u00e1 hlut \u00feeirra systra, sem r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tir \u00fea\u00f0, a\u00f0 h\u00fan ver\u00f0skuldi sl\u00edka or\u00f0aleppa? A\u00f0 tr\u00faa ekki skilyr\u00f0islaust \u00f3s\u00f6nnum s\u00f6gubur\u00f0i um, a\u00f0 eiginma\u00f0ur hennar s\u00e9 barnan\u00ed\u00f0ingur \u2013 \u00fe\u00f3tt h\u00fan viti betur? \u00c1 h\u00fan ekki r\u00e9tt \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 leggja sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6tt mat \u00e1 vitnisbur\u00f0inn? \u00c1 h\u00fan ekki r\u00e9tt \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 komi\u00f0 s\u00e9 fram vi\u00f0 hana af vir\u00f0ingu og sanngirni, \u00e1n a\u00f0dr\u00f3ttana og illm\u00e6lgi? Er \u00fea\u00f0 virkilega svo, a\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka ekki nema m\u00e1tulega miki\u00f0 mark \u00e1 r\u00f3gsmask\u00ednunni, hafi h\u00fan fyrirgert r\u00e9tti s\u00ednum til a\u00f0 vera sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0 pers\u00f3na og a\u00f0 vera me\u00f0h\u00f6ndlu\u00f0 sem sl\u00edk? H\u00fan m\u00f3\u00f0ir m\u00edn \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 ekki skili\u00f0, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r systur leyfi s\u00e9r a\u00f0 sparka \u00ed hana fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00f6k eina, a\u00f0 h\u00fan h\u00fdsir st\u00f3rt og \u00f6rl\u00e1tt hjarta. H\u00fan \u00e1 s\u00e9r enga a\u00f0ra \u00f3sk heitari en \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 f\u00e1 a\u00f0 fa\u00f0ma f\u00f3sturd\u00e6tur s\u00ednar, \u00e1\u00f0ur en h\u00fan kve\u00f0ur \u00feennan heim. F\u00e6r h\u00fan \u00fea\u00f0?<\/p>\n
Er \u00fea\u00f0 tilviljun, a\u00f0 snemma \u00e1 \u00feessu \u00e1ri b\u00e1rust foreldrum m\u00ednum tv\u00f6 br\u00e9f fr\u00e1 elstu d\u00f3tturinni, \u00fear sem h\u00fan \u00e1r\u00e9ttar enn einu sinni haturs- og hefndarhug sinn \u00ed gar\u00f0 fj\u00f6lskyldunnar. \u00dear bo\u00f0ar h\u00fan, a\u00f0 dagur rei\u00f0innar s\u00e9 \u00ed n\u00e1nd og a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 munum senn uppskera makleg m\u00e1lagj\u00f6ld. \u201eHelv\u00edti \u2013 \u00fea\u00f0 eru \u00fei\u00f0\u201c, segir \u00fear. Auk \u00feess segist h\u00fan vera a\u00f0 leggja seinustu h\u00f6nd \u00e1 b\u00f3k, \u00fear sem h\u00fan flettir ofan af f\u00f3lsku foreldra sinna (\u00e1\u00f0ur hefur h\u00fan, a\u00f0 s\u00f6gn, sett saman kvikmyndahandrit um s\u00f6mu s\u00f6gu og leitar n\u00fa a\u00f0 tilkippilegum leikstj\u00f3ra).<\/p>\n
Er \u00fea\u00f0 tilviljun, a\u00f0 \u00feegar stj\u00f3rn Samfylkingarf\u00e9lagsins \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk haf\u00f0i leita\u00f0 til J\u00f3n Baldvins um a\u00f0 standa fyrir n\u00e1mskei\u00f0i \u00e1 vegum f\u00e9lagsins um Hruni\u00f0 snemma \u00e1 \u00feessu \u00e1r, barst stj\u00f3rn f\u00e9lagsins nafnlaust n\u00ed\u00f0br\u00e9f um n\u00e1mskei\u00f0shaldarann, sem bar \u00f6ll h\u00f6fundareinkenni r\u00f3gsmask\u00ednunnar? Er \u00fea\u00f0 tilviljun, a\u00f0 um l\u00edkt leyti barst ritstj\u00f3rnum fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0la \u00feetta sama nafnlausa n\u00ed\u00f0br\u00e9f \u00ed p\u00f3stinum? Er \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00edka tilviljun, a\u00f0 skv. fr\u00e9ttum sag\u00f0i Ingibj\u00f6rg S\u00f3lr\u00fan G\u00edslad\u00f3ttir, fyrrverandi forma\u00f0ur Samfylkingarinnar, sig \u00far Samfylkingarf\u00e9laginu \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk, \u00ed m\u00f3tm\u00e6laskyni vi\u00f0 vali\u00f0 \u00e1 lei\u00f0beinanda \u00e1 n\u00e1mskei\u00f0inu um Hruni\u00f0?<\/p>\n
Allt saman r\u00f6\u00f0 tilviljana? Og au\u00f0vita\u00f0 hrein tilviljun, a\u00f0 \u00de\u00f3ra T\u00f3masd\u00f3ttir, d\u00f3ttir Gu\u00f0r\u00fanar J\u00f3nsd\u00f3ttur hj\u00e1 St\u00edgam\u00f3tum, \u00e1kve\u00f0ur a\u00f0 beita glanst\u00edmaritinu, sem h\u00fan ritst\u00fdrir til \u00feess a\u00f0 finna s\u00f6gubur\u00f0inum farveg \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum? \u00c9g er m\u00e1tulega tr\u00fau\u00f0 \u00e1 tilviljanir. \u00deegar \u00fe\u00e6r hrannast upp hver af annarri \u00e1 sk\u00f6mmum t\u00edma m\u00e1 oft finna \u00f3s\u00fdnilega h\u00f6nd a\u00f0 baki, \u00feegar skyggnst er undir yfirbor\u00f0i\u00f0.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g held \u00e9g hafi, \u00feegar h\u00e9r er komi\u00f0 s\u00f6gu, sagt n\u00f3g til a\u00f0 svara spurningunni, sem hinga\u00f0 til hefur veri\u00f0 \u00f3svara\u00f0: Af hverju stafar \u00feetta svartn\u00e6ttishatur?<\/b> \u00c9g held, a\u00f0 \u00feessar sk\u00fdringar dugi l\u00edka til \u00feess a\u00f0 lesendur skilji, hvers vegna \u00e9g tek heils hugar undir me\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0ur minni, \u00fear sem h\u00fan sag\u00f0i \u00ed grein sinni \u00ed FT, 16.03., “N\u00fa er n\u00f3g komi\u00f0<\/a>“:<\/p>\n \u201eAf \u00feessu tilefni get \u00e9g ekki or\u00f0a bundist a\u00f0 segja \u00fea\u00f0, sem m\u00e9r b\u00fdr \u00ed brj\u00f3sti hreint \u00fat: \u00dea\u00f0 er lj\u00f3tt a\u00f0 f\u00e6ra s\u00e9r \u00ed nyt fj\u00f6lskylduharmleik annarra \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed skyni a\u00f0 koma h\u00f6ggi \u00e1 einhvern, sem manni er \u00ed n\u00f6p vi\u00f0, af hva\u00f0a \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um, sem \u00fea\u00f0 kann a\u00f0 vera. \u00dea\u00f0 er reyndar meira en lj\u00f3tt. \u00dea\u00f0 er mannvonska\u201c.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n \u00cd erfi\u00f0um og vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mum deilum\u00e1lum er \u00fea\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0 regla a\u00f0 setja sig \u00ed annarra spor. Hva\u00f0 gerir ma\u00f0ur, sem er opinberlega borinn s\u00f6kum um a\u00f0 vera barnan\u00ed\u00f0ingur, ef \u00fea\u00f0 dugar ekki, a\u00f0 r\u00e9ttarkerfi\u00f0 hefur \u00ed tv\u00edgang v\u00edsa\u00f0 k\u00e6rum \u00e1 bug? Ef \u00fev\u00ed er engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur haldi\u00f0 til streitu \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum, a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 v\u00edst sekur? Er \u00fe\u00e1 ekki \u00ferautalendingin a\u00f0 h\u00f6f\u00f0a mei\u00f0yr\u00f0am\u00e1l, a\u00f0 f\u00e1 hin \u00e6rumei\u00f0andi umm\u00e6li d\u00e6md dau\u00f0 og \u00f3merk og a\u00f0 krefjast miskab\u00f3ta? \u00dea\u00f0 sem fyrir liggur um \u00f3vanda\u00f0a og \u00f3hei\u00f0arlega bla\u00f0amennsku \u00de\u00f3ru T\u00f3masd\u00f3ttur \u00ed N\u00fdju l\u00edfi vir\u00f0ist gefa \u00e6ri\u00f0 tilefni til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta hana standa fyrir m\u00e1li s\u00ednu frammi fyrir d\u00f3mara. En hva\u00f0a tilgangi \u00fej\u00f3nar \u00fea\u00f0? Jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt hin \u00e6rumei\u00f0andi umm\u00e6li yr\u00f0u d\u00e6md dau\u00f0 og \u00f3merk, mundi \u00fea\u00f0 varla l\u00e6kna \u00fe\u00e1, sem haldnir eru sj\u00faklegu hatri, af meinsemd sinni.<\/p>\n Eitt a\u00f0 lokum. Halla Har\u00f0ard\u00f3ttir gefur \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed skyn \u00ed grein sinni \u00ed FT., sem var\u00f0 tilefni \u00feessara skrifa, a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 kunni a\u00f0 reynast foreldrum m\u00ednum s\u00e1rsaukafullt, e\u00f0a jafnvel um megn, a\u00f0 horfast \u00ed augu, kinnro\u00f0alaust, vi\u00f0 spegilmynd s\u00edna \u00ed samt\u00edmanum. Vi\u00f0 n\u00e1nari umhugsun held \u00e9g, a\u00f0 \u00fearna skj\u00e1tlist H\u00f6llu hrapallega \u2013 jafnvel a\u00f0 h\u00fan halli r\u00e9ttu m\u00e1li. Vera m\u00e1, a\u00f0 ford\u00f3marnir villi henni s\u00fdn. Sagnfr\u00e6\u00f0ingurinn \u00ed m\u00e9r segir, a\u00f0 tr\u00falega muni vandfundnir tveir einstaklingar me\u00f0al samt\u00edmaf\u00f3lks foreldra minna, sem geti a\u00f0 lei\u00f0arlokum liti\u00f0 jafns\u00e1tt yfir farinn veg og \u00feau tv\u00f6. \u00dear me\u00f0 l\u00e6t \u00e9g \u00fatr\u00e6tt um \u00feetta m\u00e1l.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Inngangur:<\/b> \u00deann 24. feb. s.l. (\u00e1 afm\u00e6lisdegi m\u00f3\u00f0ur minnar) birti \u00de\u00f3ra T\u00f3masd\u00f3ttir, ritstj\u00f3ri glanst\u00edmaritsins N\u00fds l\u00edfs, flenniuppsl\u00e1tt um \u201emeinta kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni\u201c m\u00edna vi\u00f0 systurd\u00f3ttur konu minnar. T\u00edmariti\u00f0 seldist upp og a\u00f0rir fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lar t\u00f3ku m\u00e1li\u00f0 upp \u00ed kj\u00f6lfari\u00f0. <\/p>\n Daginn \u00e1\u00f0ur, 23. feb., barst m\u00e9r nj\u00f3sn af \u00feessum m\u00e1lab\u00fana\u00f0i og ba\u00f0 Fr\u00e9ttabla\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 birta samd\u00e6gurs grein \u201eMala domestica…<\/a>\u201c \u00fear sem \u00e9g sk\u00fdr\u00f0i m\u00e1li\u00f0 \u00fat fr\u00e1 m\u00ednum b\u00e6jardyrum. Margir s\u00e1u \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u til a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 sig um m\u00e1li\u00f0, b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00ed prentmi\u00f0lum en \u00fe\u00f3 einkum \u00ed netheimum. \u00dea\u00f0 var ekki fyrr en \u00feann 16. mars, sem \u00e9g birti grein h\u00e9r \u00e1 heimas\u00ed\u00f0u minni undir heitinu \u201eA\u00f0 gera hreint fyrir s\u00ednum dyrum<\/a>\u201c. Sama dag birti Brynd\u00eds, kona m\u00edn, grein \u00ed Fr\u00e9ttat\u00edmanum undir fyrirs\u00f6gninni \u201eN\u00fa er n\u00f3g komi\u00f0<\/a>\u201c, \u00fear sem h\u00fan t\u00f3k til varna fyrir h\u00f6nd fj\u00f6lskyldu okkar.<\/p>\n Halla Har\u00f0ard\u00f3ttir, systurd\u00f3ttir Brynd\u00edsar, br\u00e1st harkalega vi\u00f0 \u00ed grein \u00ed Fr\u00e9ttat\u00edmanum \u00feann 23. mars (\u00e1 afm\u00e6lisdegi m\u00f3\u00f0ur Brynd\u00edsar), \u00fear sem h\u00fan veittist hart a\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0ursystur sinni. Engum, sem fylgdist me\u00f0 umfj\u00f6llun \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum og netheimum um \u00feetta m\u00e1l, gat blandast hugur um, a\u00f0 heitar tilfinningar bjuggu a\u00f0 baki. \u00c1 bak vi\u00f0 \u00feetta allt saman leyndist fj\u00f6lskylda, sem var sundru\u00f0 og \u00ed s\u00e1rum. Margir h\u00f6f\u00f0u or\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 \u00feetta fj\u00f6lskyldub\u00f6l \u00e6tti ekkert erindi \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0la. N\u00e6r hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 leita s\u00e1tta me\u00f0 fulltingi s\u00e1lusorgara. N\u00fa er of seint a\u00f0 f\u00e1st um \u00fea\u00f0. <\/p>\n Margir l\u00e9tu \u00ed lj\u00f3s undrun s\u00edna yfir \u00fevi, hvers vegna \u00feetta m\u00e1l var matreitt ofan \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0la meira en \u00e1ratug eftir a\u00f0 \u00feau atvik \u00e1ttu s\u00e9r sta\u00f0, sem ur\u00f0u s\u00ed\u00f0ar tilefni kl\u00f6gum\u00e1la. Hvers vegna einmitt n\u00fana? Hvers vegna allt \u00feetta hatur, sem a\u00f0 baki bj\u00f3? \u00dea\u00f0 er svo ekki fyrr en n\u00fa n\u00fdlega, n\u00e1nar tilteki\u00f0 28. apr\u00edl s.l., sem Kolfinna d\u00f3ttir m\u00edn birti grein \u00e1 Facebook, \u00fear sem h\u00fan segir s\u00f6guna alla og svarar hispurslaust \u00feeim spurningum, sem \u00e1\u00f0ur haf\u00f0i veri\u00f0 \u00f3svara\u00f0. Grein hennar: \u201eFj\u00f6lskyldub\u00f6l \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum \u2013 hvers vegna allt \u00feetta hatur?\u201c , birtist h\u00e9r \u00e1 eftir \u201efor the record\u201c.\u00cd spegli t\u00edmans<\/h2>\n
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