\u00cd tilefni af helgarbla\u00f0svi\u00f0tali Fb. 16. jan.vi\u00f0 R\u00f6gnu B. Bj\u00f6rnsd\u00f3ttur, sem kynnt er til s\u00f6gunnar sem fyrrv. frambj\u00f3\u00f0andi Kvennalistans, vil \u00e9g taka fram eftirfarandi:<\/p>\n
Bla\u00f0ama\u00f0ur beindi nokkrum fyrirspurnum til m\u00edn um efni\u00f0, sem var \u00f3hr\u00f3\u00f0ur um m\u00edna pers\u00f3nu, og kraf\u00f0ist svara \u00ed t\u00edmapressu. H\u00fan f\u00e9kk sv\u00f6r svo til samstundis, enda hafa \u00feau legi\u00f0 fyrir lengi, a\u00f0gengileg fyrir \u00e1hugasama. En \u00fe\u00f3tt bla\u00f0ama\u00f0ur hafi be\u00f0i\u00f0 um og fengi\u00f0 sv\u00f6r, stakk h\u00fan efni \u00feeirra undir st\u00f3l og l\u00e9t n\u00e6gja a\u00f0 v\u00edsa til \u00feess, hvar \u00feau m\u00e6tti finna. Vegna \u00feessara v\u00edtaver\u00f0u vinnubrag\u00f0a beini \u00e9g \u00feeirri sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u kr\u00f6fu til ritstj\u00f3ra Fr\u00e9ttabla\u00f0sins, J\u00f3ns \u00de\u00f3rissonar, a\u00f0 hann birti sv\u00f6rin \u00ed n\u00e6sta t\u00f6lubla\u00f0i Fr\u00e9ttabla\u00f0sins. Af tillitssemi vi\u00f0 ritstj\u00f3ra fylgja sv\u00f6rin h\u00e9r me\u00f0, \u00ed styttri \u00fatg\u00e1fu.<\/p>\n
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\u201eH\u00f3pur kvenna hefur sem kunnugt er birt opinberlega fr\u00e1sagnir s\u00ednar af samskiptum s\u00ednum vi\u00f0 mig (og Brynd\u00edsi konu m\u00edna \u00ed 9 tilvikum) \u00e1 undanf\u00f6rnum \u00e1rum. Sumar \u00feeirra taka \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 or\u00f0um s\u00ednum me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vitna undir nafni. \u00deeim hef \u00e9g \u00feegar svara\u00f0 (sj\u00e1 www.jbh.is<\/a> \u2013 S\u00f6gubur\u00f0ur<\/a>).<\/p>\n Hinar – 16 talsins \u2013 fela sig undir nafnleynd. \u00ddmsir fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lar hafa birt \u00feessar s\u00f6gur, athugasemda \u2013 og gagnr\u00fdnilaust. Sameiginlega er \u00feessum s\u00f6gum \u00e6tla\u00f0 a\u00f0 duga til a\u00f0 r\u00e6na mig og konu m\u00edna mannor\u00f0inu og \u00fatsk\u00fafa okkur \u00far \u00edslensku samf\u00e9lagi. Af \u00feessu tilefni h\u00f6fum vi\u00f0 Brynd\u00eds h\u00f6f\u00f0a\u00f0 mei\u00f0yr\u00f0am\u00e1l \u00e1 hendur R\u00daV (og heimildakonu \u00feess til vara) um sv\u00edvir\u00f0ilegustu \u00e1sakanirnar. Vonir okkar standa til \u00feess, a\u00f0 \u00f3hlutdr\u00e6gur d\u00f3mari, skeri \u00far um sannleiksgildi\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 b\u00ed\u00f0ur s\u00edns t\u00edma.<\/p>\n \u00cd upphafi taldi \u00e9g mig vera varnarlausan, l\u00edkt og jafnan er um \u00fe\u00e1, sem vegi\u00f0 er a\u00f0 \u00far launs\u00e1tri. En vi\u00f0 n\u00e1nari sko\u00f0un kom \u00e1 daginn, a\u00f0 unnt var a\u00f0 sannreyna eina s\u00f6guna \u00fat fr\u00e1 sta\u00f0 og stund. S\u00fa saga reyndist vera hreinn sk\u00e1ldskapur. \u00de\u00e1 vakna\u00f0i spurningin: Gegnir sama m\u00e1li um allar hinar? Svari\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00feeirri spurningu er \u00feetta :<\/p>\n Vandleg sko\u00f0un og k\u00f6nnun \u00e1 sta\u00f0reyndum og sannleiksgildi fullyr\u00f0inga lei\u00f0ir \u00ed lj\u00f3s, a\u00f0 t\u00f3lf af sext\u00e1n \u00feessara fr\u00e1sagna eru sannanlega uppspuni e\u00f0a f\u00e1 ekki sta\u00f0ist, af \u00f6\u00f0rum tilgreindum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um. Hinar sem eftir standa eiga \u00fea\u00f0 sammerkt, a\u00f0 \u00fear er ekkert sem h\u00f6nd \u00e1 festir \u2013 hvorki hvar e\u00f0a hven\u00e6r, n\u00e9 hverjar eigi hlut a\u00f0 m\u00e1li. E\u00f0a eins og l\u00f6greglustj\u00f3ri og saks\u00f3knari komust a\u00f0 or\u00f0i af sama tilefni, a\u00f0 \u00feess v\u00e6ri enginn kostur a\u00f0 rannsaka sannleiksgildi vitna, sem ekki k\u00e6mu fram undir nafni. Sl\u00edkur s\u00f6gubur\u00f0ur v\u00e6ri \u201e\u00f3markt\u00e6kur\u201c.<\/strong><\/p>\n Bo\u00f0flenna \u00ed R\u00e1\u00f0herrab\u00fasta\u00f0?<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00de\u00e1 er komi\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00f6gu kvennalistaframbj\u00f3\u00f0andans, sem \u00e1 a\u00f0 hafa gerst \u00ed R\u00e1\u00f0herrab\u00fasta\u00f0num vi\u00f0 Tjarnarg\u00f6tu \u00e1ri\u00f0 1996. \u00c9g er sag\u00f0ur haf veri\u00f0 sau\u00f0drukkinn og s\u00ed\u00f0b\u00fainn veilsugestur. Undir lokin er \u00e9g sag\u00f0ur hafa kalla\u00f0 yfir salinn: \u201eMig mig vantar kvenmann\u201c. \u00deegar ekki var or\u00f0i\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00feessum \u00f3skum, \u00e1 \u00e9g a\u00f0 hafa ru\u00f0st fram \u00ed eldh\u00fas og \u00e1reitt \u00fear unga st\u00falku undir l\u00f6galdri. Yfirma\u00f0ur sta\u00f0arins \u00e1 a\u00f0 lokum a\u00f0 hafa skorist \u00ed leikinn og v\u00edsa\u00f0 m\u00e9r \u00e1 dyr.<\/p>\n \u00c9g vissi fyrir v\u00edst, a\u00f0 \u00e9g haf\u00f0i ekki stigi\u00f0 f\u00e6ti inn fyrir dyr \u00e1 R\u00e1\u00f0herrab\u00fasta\u00f0num \u00e1rum saman, eftir a\u00f0 \u00e9g l\u00e9t af st\u00f6rfum utanr\u00edkisr\u00e1\u00f0aherra fyrir mitt \u00e1r 1995. \u00c9g spur\u00f0i \u00fev\u00ed veisluh\u00f6ld r\u00edkisins, sem anna\u00f0ist veitingar \u00fear \u00e1 \u00feessum \u00e1rum, hvort hann g\u00e6ti sta\u00f0fest \u00feetta. Vottfest svar hans hlj\u00f3\u00f0ar svo:<\/p>\n \u201eA\u00f0 gefnu tilefni vil \u00e9g undirrita\u00f0ur veisluh\u00f6ldur r\u00edkisins \u00ed Borgart\u00fani og R\u00e1\u00f0herrab\u00fasta\u00f0 taka fram eftirfarandi:<\/em><\/p>\n Sagan vi\u00f0ist \u00fev\u00ed vera uppspuni fr\u00e1 r\u00f3tum.<\/em><\/p>\n Vi\u00f0 \u00feetta m\u00e1 svo b\u00e6ta eftirfarandi:<\/p>\n El\u00edas Einarsson stendur vi\u00f0 s\u00edna vottfestu yfirl\u00fdsingu.<\/p>\n Sj\u00e1lfur veit \u00e9g, a\u00f0 \u00e9g kom ekki inn fyrir dyr \u00ed R\u00e1\u00f0herrab\u00fasta\u00f0num, eftir a\u00f0 \u00e9g kvaddi Utanr\u00edkisr\u00e1\u00f0uneyti\u00f0 \u00ed apr\u00edl\/ma\u00ed 1995, fyrr en a\u00f0 lokinni \u00e1tta \u00e1ra dv\u00f6l erlendis. \u00dea\u00f0 var af \u00fev\u00ed tilefni, a\u00f0 utanr\u00edkisr\u00e1\u00f0herra Eistlands, sem \u00fe\u00e1 var h\u00e9r \u00ed opinberri heims\u00f3kn, \u00f3ska\u00f0i eftir fundi me\u00f0 m\u00e9r. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00ed besta falli misskilningur hj\u00e1 R\u00f6gnu, a\u00f0 engir gestalistar s\u00e9u til um \u00fe\u00e1 sem s\u00e6kja veislur \u00ed R\u00e1\u00f0herrab\u00fasta\u00f0. R\u00e1\u00f0uneyti leggja fram s\u00edna gestalista. Utanr\u00edkisr\u00e1\u00f0uneyti\u00f0 hefur m.a.s. \u00ed sinni \u00fej\u00f3nustu s\u00e9rstakan \u201epr\u00f3t\u00f3koll-meistara\u201c, sem ra\u00f0ar gestum til bor\u00f0s.<\/p>\n Meira hef \u00e9g ekki a\u00f0 segja um \u00feessa aldarfj\u00f3r\u00f0ungsg\u00f6mlu gr\u00f3us\u00f6gu.<\/p>\n Afvegaleidd umr\u00e6\u00f0a<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00cd svari m\u00ednu til bla\u00f0amanns Helgarbla\u00f0s Fb. fylgdi s\u00ed\u00f0an r\u00f6kstu\u00f0ningur fyrir \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 ellefu a\u00f0rar s\u00f6gur eftir nafnlausum heimildakonum, sem birtar eru undir v\u00f6rumerki Metoo-hreyfingarinnar, eru undir s\u00f6mu s\u00f6k seldar: \u00de\u00e6r eru \u00fdmist hreinn tilb\u00faningur e\u00f0a f\u00e1 ekki sta\u00f0ist \u201eaf \u00fear til greindum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um\u201c. \u00c9g sleppi \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 svo st\u00f6ddu, a\u00f0 bi\u00f0ja ritstj\u00f3ra Fb. a\u00f0 birta \u00feessi sv\u00f6r.<\/p>\n \u00c9g hef \u00e1\u00f0ur greint fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, hvers vegna \u00fe\u00e6r fj\u00f3rar s\u00f6gur sem eftir standa, og haf\u00f0ar eru eftir nafnleysingjum, teljast \u00f3markt\u00e6kar, a\u00f0 mati saks\u00f3knara. S\u00f6gum hinna, sem taka \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 or\u00f0um s\u00ednum undir nafni, hef \u00e9g fyrir l\u00f6ngu svara\u00f0 (sj\u00e1 www.jbh.is<\/a> – S\u00f6gubur\u00f0ur<\/a>).<\/p>\n Lokaor\u00f0in \u00ed svari m\u00ednu til bla\u00f0amanns helgarbla\u00f0s Fb., sem h\u00fan ekki birti, eru \u00feessi:<\/p>\n \u201eHva\u00f0 stendur \u00fe\u00e1 eftir? A\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed er var\u00f0ar me\u00f0fer\u00f0 sta\u00f0reynda og sannleiksgildi stendur ekki eftir steinn yfir steini. En af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 lj\u00fagvitnin koma fram undir merkjum Metoo-hreyfingarinnar hafa \u00feau unni\u00f0 m\u00e1lsta\u00f0 hreyfingrinnar \u00f3b\u00e6tanlegt tj\u00f3n me\u00f0 \u00feessum v\u00edtaver\u00f0u vinnubr\u00f6g\u00f0um. Og \u00fea\u00f0 sem verra er: \u00dea\u00f0 er veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 grafa undan tr\u00faver\u00f0ugleik \u00feeirra kvenna, sem hafa or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir raunverulegu kynfer\u00f0isofbeldi (nau\u00f0ganir, heimilisofbeldi e\u00f0a k\u00fagun \u00e1 vinnust\u00f6\u00f0um).<\/p>\n Um l\u00edkt leyti og fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0laherfer\u00f0in gegn okkur Brynd\u00edsi st\u00f3\u00f0 sem h\u00e6st \u00ed \u00e1rsbyrjun 2019, birti St\u00edgam\u00f3t \u00e1rssk\u00fdrslu s\u00edna um \u00feolendur kynfer\u00f0isofbeldis, sem til \u00feeirra h\u00f6f\u00f0u leita\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00e1rinu 2018. \u00dear kom m.a. fram, a\u00f0 321 kona kva\u00f0st hafa or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir nau\u00f0gun e\u00f0a nau\u00f0gunartilraun, og 127 s\u00f6g\u00f0ust vera \u00feolendur sifjaspells. Me\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum or\u00f0um: 448 konur leitu\u00f0u s\u00e9r hj\u00e1lpar vegna gr\u00f3fra ofbeldisverka, sem \u00fe\u00e6r h\u00f6f\u00f0u or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir, a\u00f0 eigin s\u00f6gn.<\/p>\n \u00deetta n\u00e1\u00f0i \u00ed fr\u00e9ttir \u00feann daginn. En s\u00ed\u00f0an ekki s\u00f6guna meir. Segir \u00feetta ekki allt sem segja \u00fearf um afvegaleidda fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0laumr\u00e6\u00f0u? Upplognar s\u00f6gur og \u00f3hr\u00f3\u00f0ur um \u00feekkta einstaklinga kunna a\u00f0 vera f\u00edn s\u00f6luvara. En \u00feegar \u00fe\u00e6r reynast ekki vera \u00e1 r\u00f6kum reistar, er enn og aftur veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 grafa undan tr\u00faver\u00f0ugleik \u00feeirra, sem eru \u00feolendur raunverulegs kynfer\u00f0isofbeldis.<\/p>\n Er svo komi\u00f0 m\u00e1lum \u00ed okkar \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagi, a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 st\u00f6ndum uppi varnarlaus frammi fyrir skipulag\u00f0ri a\u00f0f\u00f6r a\u00f0 \u00e6ru og hei\u00f0ri, af h\u00e1lfu f\u00f3lks, sem af \u00fdmsum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um er helteki\u00f0 af hatri og hefndarhug? M\u00ednu mannor\u00f0i \u00ed \u00feetta sinn, \u00fe\u00ednu kannski \u00e1 morgun.<\/p>\n \u00c6tlum vi\u00f0 virkilega a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00feetta yfir okkur ganga? E\u00f0a lifir enn vonin \u2013 \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e1 veiku skari s\u00e9 \u2013 um a\u00f0 leita megi r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tis frammi fyrir \u00f3h\u00e1\u00f0um d\u00f3mst\u00f3lum?<\/p>\n J\u00f3n Baldvin Hannibalsson<\/p>\n (h\u00f6fundur er m.a. fyrrverandi kennari og sk\u00f3lameistari, bla\u00f0ama\u00f0ur og ritstj\u00f3ri, al\u00feingisma\u00f0ur og r\u00e1\u00f0herra, sendiherra og h\u00e1sk\u00f3lakennari).<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00cd tilefni af helgarbla\u00f0svi\u00f0tali Fb. 16. jan.vi\u00f0 R\u00f6gnu B. Bj\u00f6rnsd\u00f3ttur, sem kynnt er til s\u00f6gunnar sem fyrrv. frambj\u00f3\u00f0andi Kvennalistans, vil \u00e9g taka fram eftirfarandi: Bla\u00f0ama\u00f0ur beindi nokkrum fyrirspurnum til m\u00edn um efni\u00f0, sem var \u00f3hr\u00f3\u00f0ur um m\u00edna pers\u00f3nu, og kraf\u00f0ist svara \u00ed t\u00edmapressu. 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