{"id":2979,"date":"2021-02-09T20:07:11","date_gmt":"2021-02-09T20:07:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/?p=2979"},"modified":"2021-02-09T21:30:24","modified_gmt":"2021-02-09T21:30:24","slug":"um-mannrettindi-og-misnotkun-theirra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/?p=2979","title":{"rendered":"UM MANNR\u00c9TTINDI OG MISNOTKUN \u00deEIRRA"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>Eftir Kolfinnu Baldvinsd\u00f3ttur<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>HVA\u00d0 ER TIL R\u00c1\u00d0A,<\/strong> \u00feegar sj\u00e1lfskipa\u00f0ur ritd\u00f3mari (sj\u00e1 Ingi Freyr Vilhj\u00e1lmsson, Stundin, 13. n\u00f3v \u2013 3.des., 2020) leyfir s\u00e9r a\u00f0 fara rangt me\u00f0 allar lykilsta\u00f0reyndir \u00ed umfj\u00f6llun sinni um n\u00fd\u00fatkomna b\u00f3k m\u00f3\u00f0ur minnar \u201e<strong>Brosa\u00f0 gegnum t\u00e1rin\u201c?<\/strong> Og \u00e1lyktanir hans eru eftir \u00fev\u00ed \u2013 \u00fat\u00farsn\u00faningur og \u00f6fugm\u00e6li. Freistandi v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 lei\u00f0a \u00feetta hj\u00e1 s\u00e9r \u00ed von um a\u00f0 athugulir lesendur sj\u00e1i \u00ed gegnum&nbsp; blekkingarnar. En \u00fea\u00f0 er valt a\u00f0 treysta \u00fev\u00ed. Hrekklausir lesendur g\u00e6tu glapist til a\u00f0 tr\u00faa, og \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ri tilgangi ni\u00f0runarinnar n\u00e1\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Af tvennu illu er tr\u00falega sk\u00e1rra a\u00f0 hafa fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 lei\u00f0r\u00e9tta helstu rangf\u00e6rslurnar, fremur en a\u00f0 leyfa \u00feeim a\u00f0 standa athugasemdalaust. Og ver\u00f0ur ma\u00f0ur ekki a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00e1 hi\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0a \u00ed manninum? Vonandi l\u00e6tur ritd\u00f3marinn s\u00e9r \u00feetta a\u00f0 kenningu ver\u00f0a og reynir a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta r\u00e1\u00f0 sitt framvegis. Er \u00fea\u00f0 til of mikils m\u00e6lst?<\/p>\n\n\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n\n\n<p>H\u00e9r koma \u00fe\u00e1 helstu lei\u00f0r\u00e9ttingarnar:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MISHEPPNU\u00d0 SAML\u00cdKING.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ritd\u00f3marinn ver meginm\u00e1li s\u00ednu \u00ed a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 sannf\u00e6ra lesandann um, a\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0ur minni s\u00e9 l\u00edkt fari\u00f0 og hinni s\u00e6nsku \u201edrottningu lj\u00f3\u00f0sins\u201c, <strong>Katarinu Frostenson<\/strong>, \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00e9 staurblind \u00e1 meintar \u00e1vir\u00f0ingar manns s\u00edns, en eiginma\u00f0ur hinnar s\u00ed\u00f0arnefndu var fyrir sk\u00f6mmu saka\u00f0ur um kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni vi\u00f0 konur \u00ed kringum s\u00e6nsku akadem\u00eduna. En \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fearf ekki a\u00f0 lesa lengi til a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sta\u00f0fest,&nbsp; a\u00f0 Sv\u00edinn var, a\u00f0 lokinni l\u00f6gregluranns\u00f3kn, d\u00e6mdur til \u201efangelsisd\u00f3ms fyrir tv\u00e6r nau\u00f0ganir\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00dear me\u00f0 fellur saml\u00edkingin um sj\u00e1lfa sig. Fa\u00f0ir minn hefur aldrei veri\u00f0 d\u00e6mdur fyrir sl\u00edkan gl\u00e6p. A\u00f0f\u00f6rin a\u00f0 mannor\u00f0i foreldra minna er rekin \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum,&nbsp; einmitt vegna \u00feess, a\u00f0 k\u00e6rum til l\u00f6greglu og saks\u00f3knara hefur jafnhar\u00f0an veri\u00f0 v\u00edsa\u00f0 fr\u00e1 \u2013 reyndar alls fimm sinnum \u00e1 n\u00e6stum 20 \u00e1rum. \u00dear me\u00f0 er botninn dottinn \u00far saml\u00edkingunni, sem \u00e1tti a\u00f0 gefa ritd\u00f3mnum al\u00fej\u00f3\u00f0lega v\u00eddd. Samanbur\u00f0urinn stenst ekki \u2013 hann er \u00fat \u00ed h\u00f6tt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>SAKARGIFTUM SVARA\u00d0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ritd\u00f3marinn sj\u00e1lfskipa\u00f0i fullyr\u00f0ir, oftar en einu sinni, a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 standi upp \u00e1 f\u00f6\u00f0ur minn sj\u00e1lfan og m\u00f3\u00f0ur \u00ed b\u00f3k sinni a\u00f0 svara framkomnum sakargiftum. Manni ver\u00f0ur or\u00f0a vant. Veit ma\u00f0urinn virkilega ekki betur? E\u00f0a skipta sta\u00f0reyndir m\u00e1lsins, sem hann \u00feykist vera a\u00f0 uppl\u00fdsa a\u00f0ra um, engu m\u00e1li?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cd b\u00f3k m\u00f3\u00f0ur minnar (sj\u00e1 bls. 205) segir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;\u201eJ\u00f3n Baldvin hefur \u00feegar svara\u00f0 \u00f6llum \u00feeim, sem bori\u00f0 hafa hann s\u00f6kum undir nafni (sj\u00e1 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jbh.is\">www.jbh.is<\/a>). \u00dear me\u00f0 getur hver og einn d\u00e6mt fyrir sig.\u201c&nbsp; \u00dear er m.a. a\u00f0 finna n\u00fdlegt br\u00e9f fr\u00e1 fyrrverandi nemanda \u00ed M\u00cd, sem hrekur afdr\u00e1ttarlaust gr\u00f3us\u00f6gur vinkonu Ald\u00edsar um sk\u00f3lameistarann fyrrverandi. \u00dear er l\u00edka a\u00f0 finna ei\u00f0svarinn vitnisbur\u00f0 eina \u00f3hlutdr\u00e6ga vitnisins,sem var vi\u00f0statt\u201c veisluna \u00e1 \u00feakinu\u201c \u00ed Salobre\u00f1a, sem segir, a\u00f0 \u00e1sakanir um kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni \u00fear og \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00e9u: \u201e<strong>Hreinn tilb\u00faningur og t\u00f3mt rugl\u201c.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>MEI\u00d0YR\u00d0AM\u00c1L<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00dea\u00f0 hefur \u00fe\u00e1 l\u00edka fari\u00f0 framhj\u00e1 ritd\u00f3maranum, a\u00f0 fa\u00f0ir minn hefur leita\u00f0 til Vilhj\u00e1lms H.Vilhj\u00e1lmssonar, hrl. um a\u00f0 stefna R\u00daV, fr\u00e9ttam\u00f6nnum \u00feess \u2013 og Ald\u00edsi Schram til vara sem heimildarmanni \u2013&nbsp; fyrir mei\u00f0yr\u00f0i. \u00dear er um a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a h\u00e1punktinn \u00e1 a\u00f0f\u00f6r Ald\u00edsar Schram a\u00f0 mannor\u00f0i f\u00f6\u00f0ur okkar, en \u00ed vi\u00f0talinu \u2013 sem fr\u00e9ttamenn birtu athugasemdalaust \u2013 saka\u00f0i h\u00fan hann m.a. um a\u00f0 hafa misnota\u00f0 d\u00e6tur s\u00ednar \u00ferj\u00e1r \u00ed \u00e6sku. Og a\u00f0 hafa frami\u00f0 sifjaspell me\u00f0 henni sj\u00e1lfri, \u00feegar h\u00fan var vistu\u00f0 \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c1\u00f0ur en stefnu var l\u00fdst, var Ald\u00edsi skriflega bo\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 stefnan yr\u00f0i l\u00e1tin ni\u00f0ur falla, ef h\u00fan dr\u00e6gi \u00feessar \u00f3s\u00f6nnu og \u00e6rumei\u00f0andi fullyr\u00f0ingar til baka og b\u00e6\u00f0ist afs\u00f6kunar. Vitnin eru \u00ferj\u00fa: Vi\u00f0 d\u00e6turnar \u00ferj\u00e1r <strong>Ald\u00eds, Sn\u00e6fr\u00ed\u00f0ur og \u00e9g<\/strong>. Af okkur \u00feremur hefur engin okkar fari\u00f0 jafn lofsamlegum or\u00f0um um f\u00f6\u00f0ur sinn og elsta systir m\u00edn Ald\u00eds. \u201e\u00c9g \u00feekki ekki f\u00f6\u00f0ur minn \u00ed \u00feeirri mynd, sem fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0larnir draga upp af honum: refur, \u00f3hei\u00f0arlegur, hrokagikkur&#8230;akk\u00farat \u00fea\u00f0 sem hann er ekki, hann er hl\u00fdr, skilningsr\u00edkur&#8230;.\u201c sag\u00f0i h\u00fan eitt sinn \u00ed vi\u00f0tali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u00fa er \u00fea\u00f0 h\u00fan sj\u00e1lf sem dregur upp \u00feessa mynd af f\u00f6\u00f0ur s\u00ednum, sem h\u00fan \u00e1\u00f0ur d\u00e1\u00f0i svo miki\u00f0. Sn\u00e6fr\u00ed\u00f0ur sendi Ald\u00edsi br\u00e9f&nbsp; (bls.197 \u2013 98) sem tekur af \u00f6ll tv\u00edm\u00e6li um \u00feann sj\u00faklega r\u00f3gbur\u00f0 hennar. \u00dear segir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201e\u00c1\u00f0ur en \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 reynir, getur \u00fe\u00fa reynt a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta fyrir \u00feann ska\u00f0a, sem \u00fe\u00fa hefur \u00feegar valdi\u00f0 saklausum einstaklingum, me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 bi\u00f0jast fyrirgefningar. Og lofa upp \u00e1 \u00e6ru og tr\u00fa, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa munir framvegis og h\u00e9r me\u00f0 l\u00e1ta af \u00feessari i\u00f0ju. \u00de\u00e1 v\u00e6rir \u00fe\u00fa ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 meiri\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Af einhverjum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um hafa fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lar aldrei s\u00e9\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u til a\u00f0 leita \u00e1lits annarra fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0lima \u00e1 \u00feessum sv\u00edvir\u00f0ilegu \u00e1s\u00f6kunum. \u00c9g hef ekki fengi\u00f0 eitt einasta s\u00edmtal fr\u00e1 \u00feeim bla\u00f0am\u00f6nnum sem veigra s\u00e9r ekki vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 fella d\u00f3ma \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0um bla\u00f0a \u00feeirra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201eUPPSPUNI FR\u00c1 R\u00d3TUM\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Samt fer \u00fev\u00ed v\u00ed\u00f0s fjarri, a\u00f0 fa\u00f0ir minn hafi l\u00e1ti\u00f0 s\u00f6gubur\u00f0i hinna \u00f3nafngreindu kvenna \u00f3svara\u00f0. A\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed er viki\u00f0 \u00ed b\u00f3k m\u00f3\u00f0ur minnar (sj\u00e1 bls. 205), en sj\u00e1lfur hefur fa\u00f0ir minn svara\u00f0 hinum \u00f3nafngreindu \u00ed bla\u00f0agrein (Mbl. 070920). \u00dear segir hann:\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201e\u00cd upphafi taldi \u00e9g mig vera varnarlausan, l\u00edkt og jafnan er um \u00fe\u00e1, sem vegi\u00f0 er a\u00f0 \u00far launs\u00e1tri. En vi\u00f0 n\u00e1nari sko\u00f0un kom \u00e1 daginn, a\u00f0 unnt var a\u00f0 sannreyna eina s\u00f6guna \u00fat fr\u00e1 stund og sta\u00f0. S\u00fa saga reyndist vera hreinn sk\u00e1ldskapur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u00f6gusvi\u00f0i\u00f0 var sagt vera R\u00e1\u00f0herrab\u00fasta\u00f0urinn vi\u00f0 Tjarnag\u00f6tu. \u00c1ri\u00f0 var tilgreint 1996. Sakborningur var sag\u00f0ur hafa veri\u00f0 sau\u00f0drukkinn. Undir veislulok er hann sag\u00f0ur hafa kalla\u00f0 yfir salinn: \u201eMig vantar kvenmann\u201c (gott a\u00f0 hann sag\u00f0i ekki \u201em\u00e9r vantar\u201c!) \u00deegar ekki var or\u00f0i\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00feessum \u00f3skum, \u00e1 hann a\u00f0 hafa ru\u00f0st fram \u00ed eldh\u00fas og \u00e1reitt \u00fear unga st\u00falku undir l\u00f6galdri. Yfirma\u00f0ur sta\u00f0arins \u00e1 a\u00f0 lokum a\u00f0 hafa skorist \u00ed leikinn og v\u00edsa\u00f0 d\u00f3lgnum \u00e1 dyr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c9g vissi fyrir v\u00edst, a\u00f0 \u00e9g haf\u00f0i ekki stigi\u00f0 f\u00e6ti inn fyrir dyr \u00e1 R\u00e1\u00f0herrab\u00fasta\u00f0num \u00e1rum saman, eftir a\u00f0 \u00e9g l\u00e9t af st\u00f6rfum sem utanr\u00edkisr\u00e1\u00f0herra \u00e1ri\u00f01995. \u00c9g spur\u00f0i veisluh\u00f6ld r\u00edkisins, sem anna\u00f0ist veitingar \u00fear \u00e1 \u00feessum \u00e1rum, hvort hann g\u00e6ti sta\u00f0fest \u00feetta.Vottfest svar hans hlj\u00f3\u00f0ar svo:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eA\u00f0 gefnu tilefni vil \u00e9g, undirrita\u00f0ur veisluh\u00f6ldur r\u00edkisins&nbsp; \u00ed Borgart\u00fani og R\u00e1\u00f0herrab\u00fasta\u00f0, taka fram eftirfarandi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>J\u00f3n Baldvin Hannibalsson var aldrei gestur \u00ed R\u00e1\u00f0herrab\u00fasta\u00f0 \u00e1 umr\u00e6ddu \u00e1ri og \u00fear af lei\u00f0andi aldrei v\u00edsa\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0an \u00fat.<\/em><\/li><li><em>Enginn starfsmanna minna kannast vi\u00f0 umr\u00e6dda fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn.<\/em><\/li><li><em>Enginn \u00ed starfsli\u00f0i m\u00ednu var undir l\u00f6galdri.<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Sagan vir\u00f0ist \u00fev\u00ed vera uppspuni fr\u00e1 r\u00f3tum.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>11.02.19<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>El\u00edas Einarsson (sign.)\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u00de\u00e1 vitum vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00deetta vekur upp \u00fdmsar \u00e1leitnar spurningar: Hefur MeToo-hreyfingin lagt nafn sitt vi\u00f0 \u00e6rumei\u00f0andi uppspuna af \u00feessu tagi? Hver hefur umbo\u00f0 hreyfingarinnar til a\u00f0 tala \u00ed hennar nafni? Er \u00fea\u00f0 Ald\u00eds Schram, sem stefnt hefur veri\u00f0 fyrir d\u00f3m fyrir \u00e6rumei\u00f0andi \u00f3sannindi? Er \u00fea\u00f0 Carmen J\u00f3hannsd\u00f3ttir, sem \u00f3hlutdr\u00e6gt vitni segir a\u00f0 fari me\u00f0 \u201ehreinan tilb\u00faning og t\u00f3mt rugl\u201c. L\u00f6gma\u00f0ur okkar tj\u00e1ir okkur, a\u00f0 \u00feegar hann reyndi a\u00f0 n\u00e1 sambandi vi\u00f0 \u00feann #metoo-h\u00f3p sem Ald\u00eds stendur fyrir, hafi Carmen \u00feessi veri\u00f0 til svara. Loks hl\u00fdtur ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 spyrja sj\u00e1lfan sig: gegnir sama m\u00e1li um allar hinar \u00f3nafngreindu? Svari\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00feeirri spurningu er \u00feetta:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Vandleg sko\u00f0un og k\u00f6nnun \u00e1 sta\u00f0reyndum og sannleiksgildi fullyr\u00f0inga lei\u00f0ir \u00ed lj\u00f3s, a\u00f0 t\u00f3lf af sext\u00e1n \u00feessara fr\u00e1sagna eru<strong> sannanlega<\/strong> uppspuni e\u00f0a f\u00e1 ekki sta\u00f0ist af \u00f6\u00f0rum \u00fear til greinum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hinar fj\u00f3rar, sem eftir standa, eiga \u00fea\u00f0 sammerkt, a\u00f0 \u00fear er ekkert sem h\u00f6nd \u00e1 festir, hvorki hvar n\u00e9 hven\u00e6r e\u00f0a hverjar eigi \u00ed hlut. Um \u00fea\u00f0 gildir hi\u00f0 sama og sag\u00f0i \u00ed fr\u00e1v\u00edsun l\u00f6greglustj\u00f3raemb\u00e6ttisins \u00ed okt\u00f3ber &nbsp;2013, a\u00f0 s\u00f6gubur\u00f0ur af \u00feessu tagi er \u201e<strong>\u00f3markt\u00e6kur\u201c.<\/strong> En \u00fea\u00f0 er l\u00edka ekkert, sem gefur \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u til a\u00f0 \u00e6tla, a\u00f0 sannleiksgildi\u00f0 s\u00e9 anna\u00f0 og meira en hj\u00e1 hinum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Hva\u00f0 stendur \u00fe\u00e1 eftir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Svar:HATUR OG HEFNIGIRNI.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eftir \u00f3tal s\u00e1ttatilraunir sneri m\u00f3\u00f0urbr\u00f3\u00f0ir minn til baka me\u00f0 \u00feessi skilabo\u00f0: \u201eS\u00e1ttatilraunir \u2013 \u00fei\u00f0 geti\u00f0 gleymt \u00fev\u00ed. Ykkur m\u00e6tir ekkert nema svartn\u00e6tti af hatri\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0a<\/strong>: \u00d6fugt vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0, sem ritd\u00f3marinn fullyr\u00f0ir hefur \u00f6llum sakargiftum, nafngreindum jafnt sem nafnlausum, veri\u00f0 svara\u00f0, utan fj\u00f3rum, sem Ranns\u00f3knarl\u00f6greglan \u00farskur\u00f0a\u00f0i \u00e1 s\u00ednum t\u00edma \u00f3markt\u00e6kar og v\u00edsa\u00f0i fr\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>#METOO OG MANNR\u00c9TTINDIN.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Metoo-hreyfingin spratt upp \u00e1 s\u00ednum t\u00edma sem mennr\u00e9ttindahreyfing. H\u00fan f\u00f3r sem sl\u00edk sigurf\u00f6r um heiminn. Konur, sem h\u00f6f\u00f0u m\u00e1tt s\u00e6ta k\u00fagun og ofbeldi, andm\u00e6ltu \u00fe\u00f6ggun og s\u00f6g\u00f0u kv\u00f6lurum s\u00ednum t\u00edl syndanna. M\u00e1lsta\u00f0ur \u00feeirra fann dj\u00fapan hlj\u00f3mgrunn. \u00deetta var mannr\u00e9ttindabar\u00e1tta, sem sk\u00edrskota\u00f0i til r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tiskenndar allra \u2013&nbsp; karla ekki s\u00ed\u00f0ur en kvenna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Um l\u00edkt leyti og ritstj\u00f3ri Stundarinnar, Ingibj\u00f6rg D\u00f6gg Kjartansd\u00f3ttir, h\u00f3f a\u00f0f\u00f6r s\u00edna a\u00f0 mannor\u00f0i foreldra minna, og m.a.s. fr\u00e9ttamenn R\u00edkis\u00fatvarpsins t\u00f3ku undir athugasemdalaust, birtu St\u00edgam\u00f3t s\u00edna \u00e1rlegu sk\u00fdrslu um \u00feolendur kynfer\u00f0irofbeldis, sem til \u00feeirra h\u00f6f\u00f0u leita\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00e1rinu 2018. \u00dear kom m.a. fram eftirfarandi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201e<em>321 kona sag\u00f0ist hafa or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir nau\u00f0gun e\u00f0a nau\u00f0gunartilraun og 127 s\u00f6g\u00f0ust vera \u00feolendur sifjaspella. M.\u00f6.o. 448 konur leitu\u00f0u s\u00e9r hj\u00e1lpar vegna gr\u00f3fra ofbeldisverka, sem \u00fe\u00e6r h\u00f6f\u00f0u or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir, a\u00f0 eigin s\u00f6gn\u201c. <\/em>\u00dea\u00f0 n\u00e1\u00f0i \u00ed fr\u00e9ttirnar \u00feann daginn \u2013 en s\u00ed\u00f0an ekki s\u00f6guna meir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>St\u00f6ldrum vi\u00f0. \u00deessar t\u00f6lur um st\u00f6\u00f0u <strong>raunverulegra \u00feolenda kynfer\u00f0irofbeldis<\/strong> segja okkur meira en m\u00f6rg or\u00f0 um grafalvarlega \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagsmeinsemd,&nbsp; sem \u00fearf a\u00f0 uppr\u00e6ta me\u00f0 \u00f6llum tilt\u00e6kum r\u00e1\u00f0um \u2013 \u00ed nafni mannr\u00e9ttinda.En ef \u00fe\u00e6r sem ganga fram undir merkjum #metoo-hreyfingarinnar, gera sig sekar um a\u00f0 lj\u00faga upp s\u00f6gum um saklaust f\u00f3lk \u2013 eins og h\u00e9r hafa veri\u00f0 nefnd <strong>vottfest <\/strong>d\u00e6mi um \u2013&nbsp; \u00fe\u00e1 eru \u00fe\u00e6r ekki einungis a\u00f0 grafa undan m\u00e1lsta\u00f0 raunverulegra \u00feolenda kynfer\u00f0isofbeldis; \u00fe\u00e6r eru sj\u00e1lfar or\u00f0nar a\u00f0 \u00f3gn vi\u00f0 m\u00e1lsta\u00f0 mannr\u00e9ttinda \u00ed r\u00e9ttarr\u00edki, einatt me\u00f0 skelfilegum aflei\u00f0ingum:&nbsp; \u00e6rumissi saklauss f\u00f3lks, atvinnubanni og f\u00e9lagslegri \u00fatsk\u00fafun a\u00f0 \u00f3sekju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;\u00dea\u00f0 er kominn t\u00edmi til, a\u00f0 \u00e1k\u00e6ruvaldi\u00f0 gr\u00edpi \u00ed taumana til varnar mannr\u00e9ttindum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;\u00cd b\u00f3k m\u00f3\u00f0ur minnar segir (bls. 214):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201eM\u00e9r finnst \u00fea\u00f0 reyndar grafalvarlegt m\u00e1l, a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lar yfir h\u00f6fu\u00f0 taki s\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 vald a\u00f0 d\u00e6ma \u00ed m\u00e1lum fyrirfram, sem \u00feeir hafa enga \u00feekkingu \u00e1. S\u00e9rstaklega \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 ofurvi\u00f0kv\u00e6mum forr\u00e6\u00f0isdeilum, \u00fear sem heill og hamingja barna og fj\u00f6lskyldna er \u00ed h\u00fafi\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 heldur, \u00feegar m\u00e1li\u00f0 \u00e1 r\u00e6tur a\u00f0 rekja til ge\u00f0r\u00e6nna vandam\u00e1la, sem kynda undir eldum haturs og hefnigirni. Um \u00fea\u00f0 segir \u00ed b\u00f3kinni (bls. 193):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201e<em>\u00de\u00e6r fj\u00f6lskyldur eru \u00f3f\u00e1ar \u00ed okkar samf\u00e9lagi, sem hafa m\u00e1tt \u00feola \u00fea\u00f0 sama og vi\u00f0: Einhver me\u00f0limur fj\u00f6lskyldunnar \u00e1 vi\u00f0 andleg veikindi a\u00f0 str\u00ed\u00f0a, kennir s\u00ednum n\u00e1nustu um og beinir hatri s\u00ednu og \u00f3vild a\u00f0 \u00feeim\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c9g geri eftirfarandi or\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0ur minnar a\u00f0 lokaor\u00f0um m\u00ednum:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201e\u00c9g vi\u00f0urkenni, a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e1 erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00f3lk r\u00e9ttu auga, sem er rei\u00f0ub\u00fai\u00f0 a\u00f0 notf\u00e6ra s\u00e9r fj\u00f6lskylduharmleik af \u00feessu tagi \u00ed eiginhagasmunaskyni e\u00f0a til a\u00f0 koma fram p\u00f3lit\u00edskum hefndum. Ef \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki n\u00ed\u00f0ingsverk, \u00fe\u00e1 veit \u00e9g ekki hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Er nokkru vi\u00f0 \u00feetta a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Kolfinna Baldvinsd\u00f3ttir er framkv\u00e6mdastj\u00f3ri HB-\u00fatg\u00e1fu, sem gefur \u00fat b\u00f3k Brynd\u00edsar \u201eBrosa\u00f0 gegnum t\u00e1rin\u201c. H\u00fan hefur MA gr\u00e1\u00f0u \u00ed samt\u00edmas\u00f6gu fr\u00e1 the American University \u00ed Washington D.C. og LLM-gr\u00e1\u00f0u \u00ed mannr\u00e9ttindal\u00f6gum fr\u00e1 H\u00e1sk\u00f3lanum \u00ed Kent, Canterbury)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Eftir Kolfinnu Baldvinsd\u00f3ttur HVA\u00d0 ER TIL R\u00c1\u00d0A, \u00feegar sj\u00e1lfskipa\u00f0ur ritd\u00f3mari (sj\u00e1 Ingi Freyr Vilhj\u00e1lmsson, Stundin, 13. n\u00f3v \u2013 3.des., 2020) leyfir s\u00e9r a\u00f0 fara rangt me\u00f0 allar lykilsta\u00f0reyndir \u00ed umfj\u00f6llun sinni um n\u00fd\u00fatkomna b\u00f3k m\u00f3\u00f0ur minnar \u201eBrosa\u00f0 gegnum t\u00e1rin\u201c? Og \u00e1lyktanir hans eru eftir \u00fev\u00ed \u2013 \u00fat\u00farsn\u00faningur og \u00f6fugm\u00e6li. 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