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Hausti\u00f0 2013 birti DV (helgarbla\u00f0 27.-29. sept) k\u00e6ru Ald\u00edsar Schram \u00e1 hendur JBH til kynfer\u00f0isbrotadeildar l\u00f6greglunnar \u00e1 h\u00f6fu\u00f0borgarsv\u00e6\u00f0inu. \u00dear er a\u00f0 finna allar s\u00f6mu s\u00f6gurnar sem Stundin og a\u00f0rir fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lar hafa n\u00fa rifja\u00f0 upp sex \u00e1rum s\u00ed\u00f0ar. S\u00f6mu n\u00f6fn \u2013 s\u00f6mu s\u00f6gur. Eina undantekningin er svi\u00f0setning Carmenar J\u00f3hannsd\u00f3ttur \u201e\u00e1 \u00feakinu\u201c sem fjalla\u00f0 er um \u00ed upphafi. Hinar s\u00f6gurnar fj\u00f3rar eru sag\u00f0ar af h\u00f6fundi k\u00e6runnar, Ald\u00edsi Schram. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vekja athygli athugulla lesenda a\u00f0 \u00fearna er hvergi a\u00f0 finna k\u00e6rur vegna \u00e1reitni vi\u00f0 hana sj\u00e1lfa e\u00f0a d\u00f3ttur hennar, systur hennar, m\u00f3\u00f0ursystur n\u00e9 vinkonur sem \u00e1\u00f0ur voru \u00e1 hennar sakaskr\u00e1.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00f6greglan endursendi Ald\u00edsi, l\u00f6gfr\u00e6\u00f0ingi, skjali\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00feeim umm\u00e6lum a\u00f0 s\u00f6gur \u00f3nafngreindra a\u00f0ila v\u00e6ru \u00f3markt\u00e6kar, \u00fear sem ekki v\u00e6ri unnt a\u00f0 kanna sannleiksgildi nafnlausra fr\u00e1sagna. \u00dea\u00f0 eina sem er n\u00fdtt er a\u00f0 \u00ed upphafi \u00e1rs 2019 komu s\u00f6mu konur loks fram undir nafni \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum. \u00dear voru s\u00f6gurnar birtar, \u00e1n athugasemda, gagnr\u00fdninna spurninga e\u00f0a sannpr\u00f3funar af neinu tagi og \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 vir\u00f0a andm\u00e6lar\u00e9tt hins meinta s\u00f6kud\u00f3lgs.  \u00cd kaflanum sem h\u00e9r fer \u00e1 eftir birtast sv\u00f6r m\u00edn vi\u00f0 \u00feessum s\u00f6gubur\u00f0i.   <\/em><\/p><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n

  1. VEISLAN \u00c1 \u00deAKINU<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Laufey \u00d3sk  Arn\u00f3rsd\u00f3ttir er bernskuvinkona Ald\u00edsar fr\u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i. H\u00fan er ein af \u00feeim fj\u00f6lm\u00f6rgu konum, sem \u00e1tti a\u00f0 hafa or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir \u00e1reitni JB a\u00f0 s\u00f6gn Ald\u00edsar. \u00deegar Laufey fr\u00e9tti \u00feennan \u00f3hr\u00f3\u00f0ur, sleit h\u00fan vinfengi vi\u00f0 Ald\u00edsi. Laufey, sem n\u00fa er b\u00fasett \u00e1 Sp\u00e1ni, hefur hins vegar hinga\u00f0 til haldi\u00f0 vinfengi vi\u00f0 okkar fj\u00f6lskyldu, \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir \u00f3vild Ald\u00edsar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Laufey sendi Brynd\u00edsi n\u00fd\u00e1rskve\u00f0jur \u00ed upphafi \u00e1rs, \u00feann 1. jan.2018. Br\u00e9fi\u00f0 byrjar svona:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u201eK\u00e6ra Brynd\u00eds  \u2013 \u00fea\u00f0 gaf m\u00e9r mikinn l\u00edfsstyrk a\u00f0 f\u00e1 a\u00f0 kynnast ykkur sem unglingur. F\u00e1 a\u00f0 eiga ykkur a\u00f0 \u00ed huga og hjarta var svo sannarlega gott a\u00f0 hafa \u00ed farteskinu, \u00feegar lagt var af sta\u00f0 fr\u00e1 litla \u00feorpinu, \u00cdsafir\u00f0i (svo) \u2013 \u00fat \u00ed heim. \u00c9g gat \u00fev\u00ed bori\u00f0 h\u00f6fu\u00f0 h\u00e1tt og veri\u00f0 stolt, \u00fev\u00ed innst inni vissi \u00e9g, a\u00f0 ykkur \u00fe\u00e6tti v\u00e6nt um mig.\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    S\u00ed\u00f0an segir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u201eTakk fyrir a\u00f0 kenna m\u00e9r a\u00f0 dansa, a\u00f0 lesa upp lj\u00f3\u00f0, a\u00f0 pota \u00ed baki\u00f0 og segja \u201ebein \u00ed baki\u201c. Takk fyrir a\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0 m\u00f6mmu, \u00feegar \u00e9g h\u00e6tti \u00ed sk\u00f3lanum og f\u00f3r a\u00f0 vinna! Takk fyrir a\u00f0 vera fyrirmynd, flott kona, feministi og \u00f3endanlega dugleg og kl\u00e1r, a\u00f0 ry\u00f0ja brautina fyrir okkur \u201ehinar\u201c\u2026. mest af \u00f6llu \u00fe\u00f3, elsku Brynd\u00eds og J\u00f3n, takk fyrir Ald\u00edsi og a\u00f0 VERA til!  Hlakka til a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 ykkur.\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ykkar \u00e6vinlega, Laufey\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u00cd j\u00fan\u00ed s.l. bo\u00f0a\u00f0i Laufey komu s\u00edna til okkar Brynd\u00edsar \u00ed Salobrena, litlu \u00feorpi \u00ed Andal\u00fas\u00edu. H\u00fan kom me\u00f0 d\u00e6tur s\u00ednar tv\u00e6r. Vi\u00f0 bu\u00f0um \u00fe\u00e6r hjartanlega velkomnar. \u00de\u00e6r gistu hj\u00e1 okkur um n\u00f3ttina. Daginn eftir f\u00f3rum vi\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feorpskr\u00e1na til a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 vi\u00f0ureign \u00cdslands og Argent\u00ednu \u00e1 st\u00f3rum skj\u00e1. A\u00f0 leik loknum h\u00e9ldum vi\u00f0 aftur heim \u00e1 lei\u00f0, \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 Brynd\u00eds h\u00f6f\u00f0um undirb\u00fai\u00f0 veislu \u201e\u00e1 \u00feakinu\u201c. \u00dear hefur l\u00f6ngum veri\u00f0 gestkv\u00e6mt. Vi\u00f0 Brynd\u00eds vorum \u00e1 \u00fe\u00f6num a\u00f0 elda og \u00fatb\u00faa veislubor\u00f0 og bera upp matf\u00f6ng. Carmen, d\u00f3ttir Laufeyjar, hj\u00e1lpa\u00f0i til. Brynd\u00eds l\u00fdsir \u00fev\u00ed sem \u00fear n\u00e6st ger\u00f0ist me\u00f0 \u00feessum or\u00f0um: \u201e\u00c9g gekk upp tr\u00f6ppurnar \u00e1 eftir Carmen. \u00deegar h\u00fan kemur upp  \u00e1 \u00feaki\u00f0, leggur h\u00fan fr\u00e1 s\u00e9r fati\u00f0 vi\u00f0 endann \u00e1 bor\u00f0inu \u00e1 milli J\u00f3ns Baldvins og Hugr\u00fanar, n\u00e1grannakonu okkar, sem var me\u00f0al gesta og sat vi\u00f0 hli\u00f0ina \u00e1 JB. \u00c9g heyri J\u00f3n Baldvin segja: \u201e\u00deakka \u00fe\u00e9r fyrir hj\u00e1lpina\u201c. Hugr\u00fan fullyr\u00f0ir, a\u00f0 hann hafi ekki snert hana \u2013 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 rugl. H\u00fan hef\u00f0i ekki komist hj\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fear sem h\u00fan sat vi\u00f0 hli\u00f0in \u00e1 JBH<\/em><\/strong>.<\/em>\u00c9g haf\u00f0i varla sleppt or\u00f0inu til a\u00f0 segja \u201egj\u00f6ri\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 svo vel\u201c \u2013  \u00feegar Laufey \u00e6pir upp: \u201eJ\u00f3n Baldvin, \u00fe\u00fa k\u00e1fa\u00f0ir \u00e1 henni, \u00e9g s\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Kynfer\u00f0isleg \u00e1reitni fer alla jafna ekki fram fyrir opnum tj\u00f6ldum og \u00ed augs\u00fdn vitna. En \u00fearna eru einfaldlega tr\u00faver\u00f0ug vitni \u00fev\u00ed til sta\u00f0festingar, a\u00f0 \u00e1s\u00f6kunin var \u00far lausu lofti gripin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Er einhver sk\u00fdring til \u00e1 svona framkomu? Eina tr\u00faver\u00f0uga sk\u00fdringin er s\u00fa, a\u00f0 \u00feetta hafi veri\u00f0 \u201eset-up<\/em>\u201c \u2013 svi\u00f0setning af \u00e1settu r\u00e1\u00f0i.  En hv\u00edl\u00edk heilindi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    • VEISLAN \u00c1 \u00deAKINU \u2013  SEM ALDREI VAR\u00d0.<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

      Allir sem \u00feekkja okkur J\u00f3n Baldvin, vinir og kunningjar, vita, a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 erum hvorki ruddar n\u00e9 d\u00f3nakallar. Vi\u00f0 erum mannvinir, og umg\u00f6ngumst f\u00f3lk af vir\u00f0ingu og v\u00e6ntum\u00feykju \u2013 kannski forvitni, en aldrei \u00f3\u00fearfa \u00e1gengni. Hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1, ef vi\u00f0 \u00feekkjum f\u00f3lk ekki neitt og h\u00f6fum aldrei s\u00e9\u00f0  \u00e1\u00f0ur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u00deannig var \u00fea\u00f0 me\u00f0 hana Carmen, sem \u00e9g haf\u00f0i a\u00f0eins hitt einu sinni e\u00f0a tvisvar \u00e1\u00f0ur og \u00feekkti l\u00edti\u00f0. N\u00fa var h\u00fan komin \u00ed heims\u00f3kn til okkar \u00ed Salobre\u00f1a \u00ed fylgd m\u00f3\u00f0ur sinnar, Laufeyjar. Laufeyju hef \u00e9g hins vegar \u00feekkt \u00ed m\u00f6rg \u00e1r. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i n\u00e1in samskipti vi\u00f0 hana \u00e1 \u00e1runum okkar \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i i den. \u00de\u00e1 var h\u00fan vinkona elstu d\u00f3ttur okkar, Ald\u00edsar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Litla systir Carmenar var l\u00edka me\u00f0 \u00ed f\u00f6r, en h\u00fan haf\u00f0i sig l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00ed frammi, \u00feessi elska, kannski bara feimin. \u00dea\u00f0 var varla a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 s\u00e6jum hana \u00feessa einu n\u00f3tt sem \u00fe\u00e6r m\u00e6\u00f0gur gistu hj\u00e1 okkur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Vi\u00f0 Laufey h\u00f6f\u00f0um skrifast \u00e1 \u00ed m\u00f6rg \u00e1r, og \u00fea\u00f0 haf\u00f0i lengi sta\u00f0i\u00f0 til, a\u00f0 h\u00fan k\u00e6mi \u00ed heims\u00f3kn. H\u00fan hefur veri\u00f0 b\u00fasett \u00e1 Sp\u00e1ni \u00ed nokkur \u00e1r, \u00ed austurhlutanum, n\u00e6rri Alicante. \u00deetta sumar \u00e1tti \u00e9g st\u00f3rafm\u00e6li og \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 halda upp \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 hj\u00e1 vini okkar hinum megin \u00e1 hnettinum, svo a\u00f0 n\u00fa var lag, \u00e1\u00f0ur en vi\u00f0 leg\u00f0um \u00ed \u00b4ann. H\u00fan spur\u00f0i, hvort hundurinn v\u00e6ri l\u00edka velkominn. J\u00e1, \u00fev\u00ed ekki, svara\u00f0i \u00e9g \u2013 enda kom \u00e1 daginn, a\u00f0 hann var s\u00e1 eini, sem s\u00fdndi okkur vir\u00f0ingu og kom fram vi\u00f0 okkur af kurteisi \u00feennan undarlega dag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

       Vi\u00f0 b\u00faum \u00ed \u00e6vag\u00f6mlu M\u00e1ra\u00feorpi, \u00fear sem \u00fe\u00f6kin eru \u00f6ll fl\u00f6t. Heimamenn, sem eru yfirleitt \u00e1 fl\u00f3tta undan brennheitri s\u00f3linni, nota \u00fe\u00f6kin a\u00f0allega til \u00feess a\u00f0 hengja upp \u00fevott \u2013 e\u00f0a hugsanlega til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feurrka t\u00f3mata. Vi\u00f0 notum okkar \u00feak til veisluhalda og sk\u00fdlum okkur fyrir s\u00f3linni me\u00f0 nokkrum laufl\u00e9ttum str\u00e1mottum, sem mynda \u00feak yfir \u00feakinu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u00dea\u00f0an er \u00fats\u00fdni til allra \u00e1tta. Hafi\u00f0 bl\u00e1a hafi\u00f0 framundan og Sierra Nevada, h\u00e6sta fjalla Sp\u00e1nar, r\u00eds upp \u00far ey\u00f0im\u00f6rkinni \u00ed nokkurra k\u00edl\u00f3metra fjarl\u00e6g\u00f0. Skvaldri\u00f0 af g\u00f6tunni, sem  rennur saman vi\u00f0 tragiskt \u00e1starv\u00e6l s\u00edgaunans \u00ed n\u00e6sta h\u00fasi, berst upp til okkar, \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 sitjum me\u00f0 heita goluna \u00ed fangi\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u00c9g haf\u00f0i lagt hv\u00edtan d\u00fak \u00e1 bor\u00f0i\u00f0 og teki\u00f0 fram m\u00edn bestu gl\u00f6s  – veisla framundan. \u00c9g elska a\u00f0 halda veislur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      A\u00f0 venju var \u00fea\u00f0 J\u00f3n Baldvin, sem s\u00e1 um a\u00f0 krydda kj\u00faklinginn \u2013 hann er snillingur \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed, satt a\u00f0 segja. Mj\u00f6g hrifinn af kanel! \u00dev\u00ed n\u00e6st var kj\u00faklingnum stungi\u00f0 inn \u00ed ofn \u00ed loku\u00f0um potti \u00e1 l\u00e1gum hita. \u00dear \u00e1tti hann a\u00f0 d\u00fasa, \u00fear til vi\u00f0 k\u00e6mum til baka a\u00f0 leik loknum. A\u00f0 h\u00e6tti Sp\u00e1nverja \u00e6tlu\u00f0um vi\u00f0 svo a\u00f0 setjast a\u00f0 bor\u00f0um s\u00ed\u00f0degis. Vi\u00f0 vorum nefnilega \u00e1 lei\u00f0 \u00fat \u00e1 \u00feorpstorgi\u00f0, sem er steinsnar fr\u00e1 h\u00fasinu okkar, til a\u00f0 fylgjast  me\u00f0  l\u00f6ndum vorum berjast vi\u00f0 Argent\u00ednumenn \u00ed HM keppninni. \u00dear voru allir \u00feorpsb\u00faar  saman komnir a\u00f0 venju, enda laugardagur og l\u00f6ng helgi framundan. St\u00f3rum skermi haf\u00f0i veri\u00f0 komi\u00f0 fyrir \u00e1 torginu, svo a\u00f0 allir s\u00e1u, \u00feegar Hannes \u00de\u00f3r var\u00f0i v\u00edti\u00f0 fr\u00e1 Messi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Allt \u00ed einu var svo gaman a\u00f0 vera \u00cdslendingur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u00deegar vi\u00f0 snerum heim eftir leikinn, fann \u00e9g strax af ilminum \u00ed eldh\u00fasinu, a\u00f0 steikin v\u00e6ri tilb\u00fain. J\u00f3n Baldvin f\u00f3r \u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 bera bor\u00f0b\u00fana\u00f0 og matf\u00f6ng upp \u00e1 \u00feak, \u00fear sem gestirnir voru a\u00f0 d\u00e1st a\u00f0 \u00fats\u00fdninu. Hann \u00e1tti s\u00ed\u00f0an a\u00f0 v\u00edsa \u00feeim til s\u00e6tis, svo a\u00f0 allir v\u00e6ru sestir, \u00feegar \u00e9g k\u00e6mi upp me\u00f0 fangi\u00f0 fullt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Konurnar voru reyndar \u00ferj\u00e1, \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g haf\u00f0i bo\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00edslenskri grannkonu okkar, sem hefur veri\u00f0 b\u00fasett \u00ed Salobre\u00f1a \u00e1rum saman, a\u00f0 sn\u00e6\u00f0a me\u00f0 okkur. H\u00e9lt \u00e9g, a\u00f0 h\u00fan hef\u00f0i gaman af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hitta landa s\u00edna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      H\u00fan sag\u00f0i m\u00e9r reyndar eftir \u00e1, a\u00f0 Laufey hef\u00f0i or\u00f0i\u00f0 mj\u00f6g hvumsa vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 hana, eiginlega rei\u00f0: \u201eHva\u00f0 ert \u00fe\u00fa a\u00f0 gera h\u00e9r?\u201c spur\u00f0i h\u00fan hryssingslega. Henni \u00fe\u00f3ttu \u00feessi vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 strax grunsamleg. \u00cd stuttu samtali haf\u00f0i Laufey sagt henni, a\u00f0 h\u00fan v\u00e6ri \u00f6ryrki og \u00e1 mj\u00f6g sterkum lyfjum sem h\u00fan m\u00e6tti ekki drekka ofan \u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Eftir \u00e1 a\u00f0 hyggja sk\u00fdrir \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fdmislegt sem \u00e1 eftir f\u00f3r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Nema hva\u00f0, n\u00fa var bara eftir a\u00f0 bera matinn upp \u00e1 \u00feaki\u00f0. Allt \u00ed einu st\u00f3\u00f0 Carmen vi\u00f0 hli\u00f0 m\u00e9r og bau\u00f0st til a\u00f0 a\u00f0sto\u00f0a mig. H\u00fan haf\u00f0i veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00fdsla eitthva\u00f0 ni\u00f0ri \u00ed herbergi s\u00ednu. \u00c9g gekk \u00e1 eftir henni upp tr\u00f6ppurnar me\u00f0 kj\u00faklinginn \u00e1 st\u00f3ru fati. H\u00fan bar grj\u00f3nin og salati\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Hin \u00ferj\u00fa voru sest. J\u00f3n Baldvin sat vi\u00f0 endann \u00e1 bor\u00f0inu, n\u00e6st okkur, \u00feegar vi\u00f0 komum upp tr\u00f6ppurnar. Vi\u00f0 mi\u00f0ju bor\u00f0s, sem er tveir metrar \u00e1 lengd og einn og h\u00e1lfur \u00e1 breidd, s\u00e1tu hinar \u00edslensku konur, hvor \u00e1 m\u00f3ti annarri. M\u00e9r var \u00e6tla\u00f0 s\u00e6ti vi\u00f0 hinn enda bor\u00f0sins, beint \u00e1 m\u00f3ti manni m\u00ednum. Carmen \u00e1tti a\u00f0 sitja vi\u00f0 hli\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0ur sinnar, sem haf\u00f0i reyndar f\u00e6rt sinn st\u00f3l n\u00e6r m\u00e9r vi\u00f0 endann. \u00c9g veit ekki enn af hverju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Carmen gekk \u00e1 undan m\u00e9r, og \u00e9g st\u00f3\u00f0 fyrir aftan hana \u00e1 me\u00f0an h\u00fan lag\u00f0i grj\u00f3nin og salati\u00f0 \u00e1 mitt bor\u00f0i\u00f0. S\u00ed\u00f0an settist h\u00fan vi\u00f0 hli\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0ur sinnar. \u00dea\u00f0 var samt \u00fe\u00f3 nokku\u00f0 bil \u00e1 milli \u00feeirra, \u00fear sem Laufey haf\u00f0i  f\u00e6rt sig til. \u00deegar \u00e9g haf\u00f0i lagt kj\u00faklinginn \u00e1 bor\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir framan h\u00fasb\u00f3ndann, sem \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 skammta \u00e1 diska gesta, settist \u00e9g \u00ed mitt s\u00e6ti me\u00f0 \u00feessum or\u00f0um: \u201eVelkomin, og ver\u00f0i ykkur a\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0u\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u00c9g haf\u00f0i ekki fyrr sleppt or\u00f0inu en Laufey \u00e6pir alveg upp \u00ed eyra\u00f0 \u00e1 m\u00e9r: \u201eJ\u00f3n Baldvin, \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tt a\u00f0 bi\u00f0ja d\u00f3ttur m\u00edna afs\u00f6kunar, \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e1, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa k\u00e1fa\u00f0ir \u00e1 henni\u201c! M\u00e9r rann kalt vatn milli skinns og h\u00f6runds. \u00dea\u00f0 fer enn um mig hrollur, \u00feegar \u00e9g minnist \u00feessara or\u00f0a. Illskan \u00ed or\u00f0um Laufeyjar kom m\u00e9r svo \u00e1 \u00f3vart. H\u00fan var svo heift\u00fa\u00f0ug og n\u00edstingsk\u00f6ld.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

       Kv\u00f6ldi\u00f0 \u00e1\u00f0ur haf\u00f0i \u00feessi sama kona seti\u00f0 vi\u00f0 hli\u00f0 m\u00e9r \u00ed s\u00f3fanum og fari\u00f0 f\u00f6grum or\u00f0um um mig og manninn minn. Vi\u00f0 v\u00e6rum st\u00f3rkostlegar manneskjur, sem hef\u00f0um alltaf reynst henni svo vel, veri\u00f0 henni hl\u00fd og r\u00e1\u00f0ag\u00f3\u00f0. Hvernig gat sama konan umhverfst svona? H\u00fan tr\u00fa\u00f0i m\u00e9r l\u00edka fyrir \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 h\u00fan v\u00e6ri alvarlega veik og g\u00e6ti ekki lifa\u00f0 af \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 taka inn lyf \u00e1 degi hverjum. H\u00fan m\u00e6tti alls ekki drekka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      En \u00fearna vi\u00f0 matarbor\u00f0i\u00f0 degi seinna horf\u00f0i \u00e9g \u00e1 allt a\u00f0ra manneskju. Hva\u00f0 haf\u00f0i gerst?  Or\u00f0 hennar voru hatursfull, og \u00e9g sat sem l\u00f6mu\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

       \u201eMamma, \u00e9g get alveg s\u00e9\u00f0 um mig sj\u00e1lf\u201c \u00e6pti Carmen, um lei\u00f0 og h\u00fan strunsa\u00f0i ni\u00f0ur tr\u00f6ppurnar. En m\u00f3\u00f0ir hennar h\u00e9lt \u00e1fram a\u00f0 hella \u00far sk\u00e1lum rei\u00f0i sinnar. \u00c9g var gersamlega r\u00e1\u00f0\u00ferota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u00c9g t\u00f3k eftir \u00fev\u00ed, \u00feegar \u00e9g renndi augum yfir l\u00f6greglusk\u00fdrslur fr\u00e1  yfirheyrslum s\u00ed\u00f0ar, a\u00f0 Carmen segist \u00fear hafa risi\u00f0 aftur \u00far s\u00e6ti s\u00ednu til \u00feess a\u00f0 skenkja f\u00f3lki v\u00edn, og \u00fe\u00e1 hafi h\u00fasb\u00f3ndinn nota\u00f0 t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri\u00f0 til a\u00f0 \u201estrj\u00faka rass utan kl\u00e6\u00f0a\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u00deetta er ekki r\u00e9tt. H\u00fan st\u00f3\u00f0 ekki upp aftur til \u00feess a\u00f0 skenkja v\u00edn, \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00ed fyrsta lagi, \u00fe\u00e1 var h\u00fasb\u00f3ndinn n\u00fdb\u00fainn a\u00f0 hella \u00ed gl\u00f6sin, og \u00ed \u00f6\u00f0ru lagi er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki til si\u00f0s, a\u00f0 gestir taki upp \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 skenkja \u00f6\u00f0rum v\u00edn, sem \u00feeir ekki eiga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u00c9g man, a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 snertum ekki matinn, sem vi\u00f0 h\u00f6f\u00f0um \u00fe\u00f3 lagt svo mikla al\u00fa\u00f0 \u00ed. Bor\u00f0haldi\u00f0 var \u00ed uppn\u00e1mi, og innan skamms vorum vi\u00f0 \u00f6ll komin ni\u00f0ur. J\u00f3n Baldvin var rei\u00f0ur, \u00e9g algerlega mi\u00f0ur m\u00edn, og grannkonan horf\u00f0i \u00e1 mig spurnaraugum, gapandi af undrun. H\u00fan hristi bara h\u00f6fu\u00f0i\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u00datidyrnar st\u00f3\u00f0u opnar, og \u00e9g s\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e6r systurnar standa \u00fati vi\u00f0 b\u00edlinn, tilb\u00fanar til brottfarar.  Jafnvel hundurinn var kominn \u00ed afturs\u00e6ti\u00f0. \u00de\u00e6r voru a\u00f0 b\u00ed\u00f0a eftir m\u00f6mmu. \u00dea\u00f0 hvarfla\u00f0i a\u00f0 m\u00e9r \u00e1 \u00feessu augnabliki, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r hef\u00f0u aldrei \u00e6tla\u00f0 vera lengur \u2013 erindinu v\u00e6ri loki\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Enda gat grannkonan ekki sta\u00f0ist freistinguna: \u201e\u00de\u00fa ert allt of gestrisin, Brynd\u00eds. \u00de\u00fa ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 vanda betur val \u00e1 gestum \u00fe\u00ednum\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u00cd millit\u00ed\u00f0inni haf\u00f0i J\u00f3n Baldvin l\u00e1ti\u00f0 sig hverfa inn \u00ed svefnherbergi og loka\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00e9r. Laufey var enn \u00f3\u00f0am\u00e1la og ruddist inn til hans, \u00fear sem h\u00fan \u00e6pti \u00f3kv\u00e6\u00f0isor\u00f0 a\u00f0 honum. \u00deegar h\u00e9r var komi\u00f0 s\u00f6gu, var J\u00f3ni Baldvini gersamlega misbo\u00f0i\u00f0. Hann var \u00f6skurei\u00f0ur og skipa\u00f0i Laufeyju a\u00f0 snauta burt, hypja sig \u00fat.  H\u00fan h\u00e9lt \u00e1fram a\u00f0 atyr\u00f0a hann, um lei\u00f0 og h\u00fan greip farangur sinn og \u00e6ddi \u00fat \u00ed \u00e1tt a\u00f0 b\u00edlnum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u00c9g haf\u00f0i hins vegar mestar \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r f\u00e6ru s\u00e9r a\u00f0 vo\u00f0a \u00e1 hra\u00f0brautunum, b\u00fanar a\u00f0 sitja heilan f\u00f3tboltaleik \u00e1 torginu fyrr um daginn, \u00fear sem Laufey haf\u00f0i, a\u00f0 s\u00f6gn sj\u00f3narvotta, drukki\u00f0 \u00f3t\u00e6pilega, \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 mega ekki, a\u00f0 eigin s\u00f6gn, drekka ofan \u00ed lyfin s\u00edn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Kannski \u00fea\u00f0 sk\u00fdri a\u00f0 einhverju leyti \u00feessa \u00f3tr\u00falegu \u2013  og satt a\u00f0 segja \u2013  \u00f3skiljanlegu framkomu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Brynd\u00eds Schram<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      • \u00d3VINAFAGNA\u00d0UR<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

        Veruleiki e\u00f0a svi\u00f0ssetning? S\u00f6nnunarbyr\u00f0i.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

        \u00cd \u00feessu m\u00e1li stendur, sem kunnugt er, fullyr\u00f0ing gegn fullyr\u00f0ingu. M\u00f3\u00f0ir k\u00e6rua\u00f0ila fullyr\u00f0ir, a\u00f0 meintur sakborningur hafi stroki\u00f0 rass d\u00f3ttur hennar \u2013 fyrir opnum tj\u00f6ldum og \u00ed allra augs\u00fdn. Hinn k\u00e6r\u00f0i fullyr\u00f0ir, \u00fevert \u00e1 m\u00f3ti, a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 fjarst\u00e6\u00f0a og eigi s\u00e9r enga sto\u00f0 \u00ed veruleikanum. \u00dea\u00f0 er svo athyglisvert, a\u00f0 \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 l\u00fdsingu \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, sem \u00e1 a\u00f0 hafa gerst, skv. \u00fatskrift \u00e1 yfirheyrslum, ber m\u00f3\u00f0ur og d\u00f3ttur \u00ed m\u00f6rgum atri\u00f0um ekki saman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        \u00cd sl\u00edkum tilvikum eiga vitni a\u00f0 geta skori\u00f0 \u00far. Tv\u00f6 vitni, sj\u00e1lfur gestgjafinn (eiginkona hins k\u00e6r\u00f0a) og gestkomandi kona, \u00f3hlutdr\u00e6g <\/strong>samkv\u00e6mt skilgreiningu \u00ed \u00feessu m\u00e1li, bera vitni um, a\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0irin fari me\u00f0 fleipur. Ekkert sl\u00edkt hafi gerst. Hi\u00f0 \u00f3hlutdr\u00e6ga vitni kve\u00f0ur fast a\u00f0 or\u00f0i: \u201eHreinn tilb\u00faningur og t\u00f3mt rugl\u201c.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

        M\u00f3\u00f0irin vitnar hins vegar me\u00f0 d\u00f3ttur sinni. Vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00fdmislegt a\u00f0 athuga. \u00dea\u00f0 var m\u00f3\u00f0irin, sem bar upp \u00e1k\u00e6runa vi\u00f0 upphaf bor\u00f0halds \u2013 en ekki d\u00f3ttirin. Getur m\u00f3\u00f0irin veri\u00f0 hvort tveggja \u00ed senn k\u00e6rua\u00f0li og vitni? Getur m\u00f3\u00f0irin yfirleitt talist vera tr\u00faver\u00f0ugt vitni vi\u00f0 \u00feessar kringumst\u00e6\u00f0ur?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        \u00c6tla m\u00e6tti vi\u00f0 \u00feessar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur, a\u00f0 vitnisbur\u00f0ur hinnar \u00f3hlutdr\u00e6gu gestkomandi konu, mundi skera \u00far. \u00c1k\u00e6ruvaldi\u00f0 vir\u00f0ist \u00fevert \u00e1 m\u00f3ti tortryggja vitnisbur\u00f0 eiginkonu k\u00e6r\u00f0a og hins \u00f3hlutdr\u00e6ga gests (eru \u00fe\u00e6r taldar bera lj\u00fagvitni?), en byggja m\u00e1l sitt fyrst og fremst \u00e1 m\u00f3\u00f0ur k\u00e6rua\u00f0ila, \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir \u00e1\u00f0urgreinda annmarka. M\u00e1li\u00f0 vir\u00f0ist \u00fev\u00ed sn\u00faast a\u00f0 verulegu leyti um tr\u00faver\u00f0ugleik m\u00f3\u00f0urinnar sem vitnis.Vi\u00f0 mat \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed er r\u00e9tt a\u00f0 hafa eftirfarandi \u00ed huga:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        1. \u00d3samr\u00fdmanlegt: <\/strong>Eins og \u00e1\u00f0ur segir fer \u00fea\u00f0 ekki saman a\u00f0 vera hvort tveggja \u00ed senn  \u00e1k\u00e6randi og vitni.<\/li>
        2. Tv\u00edsaga:<\/strong> Laufey og Ald\u00eds, elsta d\u00f3ttir okkar Brynd\u00edsar, voru \u00e6skuvinkonur. Eftir \u00edtreka\u00f0a nau\u00f0ungarvistun \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild a\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0i ge\u00f0l\u00e6kna og me\u00f0 sam\u00feykki f\u00f6\u00f0ur, kenndi Ald\u00eds f\u00f6\u00f0ur s\u00ednum og fj\u00f6lskyldu um \u00f3g\u00e6funa. M.a. saka\u00f0i h\u00fan f\u00f6\u00f0ur sinn um kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni vi\u00f0 n\u00e6r allt kvenkyns \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldunni \u2013 og vinkonur s\u00ednar a\u00f0 auki. \u00deeirra \u00e1 me\u00f0al var Laufey. \u00deegar Laufey dr\u00f3 \u00feetta til baka sem tilb\u00faining, ur\u00f0u vinslit me\u00f0 \u00feeim. \u00dear me\u00f0 er Laufey or\u00f0in tv\u00edsaga \u00ed samb\u00e6rilegum m\u00e1lum.<\/li>
        3. Umskiptingur: <\/strong>Eftir \u00feetta r\u00e6kta\u00f0i Laufey vin\u00e1ttu vi\u00f0 okkur Brynd\u00edsi, allt \u00fear til kv\u00f6ldi\u00f0 \u00e1\u00f0ur en h\u00fan bar upp \u00e1k\u00e6ru s\u00edna \u00ed \u00feessu m\u00e1li (sbr.fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn Brynd\u00edsar: \u201eVeislan \u00e1 \u00feakinu \u2013 sem aldrei var\u00f0\u201c). Daginn eftir var h\u00fan or\u00f0in a\u00f0 \u201eumskiptingi\u201c. \u00deetta \u00fearfnast sk\u00fdringa. Hva\u00f0 olli \u00feessum skyndilegu sinnaskiptum?<\/li>
        4. Sinnaskipti: <\/strong>Hver eru tengsl \u00feeirra m\u00e6\u00f0gna vi\u00f0 Ald\u00edsi, sem vita\u00f0 er a\u00f0 hefur \u00e1tt frumkv\u00e6\u00f0i a\u00f0, e\u00f0a sta\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 baki, k\u00e6rum \u00e1 hendur f\u00f6\u00f0ur s\u00ednum um kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni \u00ed n\u00e6stum tuttugu \u00e1r, sem \u00f6llum hefur veri\u00f0 v\u00edsa\u00f0 fr\u00e1 af \u00e1k\u00e6ruvaldinu hinga\u00f0 til? Afsta\u00f0a Laufeyjar til k\u00e6rum\u00e1la Ald\u00edsar er sta\u00f0fest \u00ed br\u00e9fum hennar til Brynd\u00edsar,(5. Okt. 2011) sbr. :<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

          \u201eK\u00e6ru hj\u00f3n! Komi\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 s\u00e6l, n\u00fa er \u00e9g b\u00fain a\u00f0 lesa yfir \u00feessi<\/strong> br\u00e9f, og mig langar til a\u00f0 benda ykkur \u00e1, a\u00f0 Ald\u00eds er fyrst og fremst a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 grafa undan ykkar sambandi, \u00fe.e.a.s., \u00e1st og tr\u00fana\u00f0i, \u00e1samt mannor\u00f0i. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf ekkert a\u00f0 spyrja hana a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed, hvort h\u00fan hafi  skrifa\u00f0 \u00feetta br\u00e9f, \u00fea\u00f0 er auglj\u00f3st!!! Mitt mat er \u00feetta; ekki hafa neitt samband vi\u00f0 hana, \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 hvetur hana bara \u00e1fram \u00e1 \u00feessari lei\u00f0. Reyni\u00f0 frekar a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra fyrir \u00feeim a\u00f0ilum, sem fengu \u00feetta br\u00e9f (ath. Br\u00e9f Ald\u00edsar til Marcos me\u00f0 dylgjum um kynfer\u00f0irlega \u00e1reitni JBH vi\u00f0 d\u00e6tur og d\u00f3tturd\u00f3ttur) a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00e9 mj\u00f6g veik og haldin miklum ranghugmyndum. \u00deetta er svo sorglega lj\u00f3t og grimm a\u00f0f\u00f6r a\u00f0 ykkur, a\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 eigi\u00f0 engan annan kost en a\u00f0 standa \u00fe\u00e9tt saman og verjast af h\u00f6rku!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          Me\u00f0 innilegri sam\u00fa\u00f0arkve\u00f0ju,  Laufey \u00d3sk\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          \u00dea\u00f0 sem \u00fearfnast sk\u00fdringa h\u00e9r eru hin sn\u00f6ggu sinnaskipti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

          • Ekki sj\u00e1lfr\u00e1tt?<\/strong> Athygli vekur, a\u00f0 Laufey \u00fearf a\u00f0 eigin s\u00f6gn, a\u00f0 taka lyf, sem h\u00fan m\u00e1 ekki drekka ofan\u00ed, samkv\u00e6mt fyrirm\u00e6lum l\u00e6kna. A\u00f0 s\u00f6gn sj\u00f3narvotta drakk h\u00fan \u00f3t\u00e6pilega \u00ed umr\u00e6ddri heims\u00f3kn. A\u00f0 s\u00f6gn Brynd\u00edsar var h\u00fan ekki sj\u00e1lfri s\u00e9r l\u00edk vi\u00f0 upphaf bor\u00f0haldsins \u2013 n\u00e1nast eins og umskiptingur.<\/li>
          • \u00d3sannindi:<\/strong> Carmen hefur haldi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed fram, a\u00f0 h\u00fan \u00feekki Ald\u00edsi n\u00e1nast ekki neitt. \u00deegar l\u00f6gma\u00f0ur minn, VHV, haf\u00f0i s\u00edmasmband vi\u00f0 MeToo-h\u00f3pinn til stu\u00f0nings Ald\u00edsi, var Carmen til svara. Er \u00fea\u00f0 tr\u00faver\u00f0ugt, a\u00f0 talsma\u00f0ur h\u00f3psins hafi ekkert samband vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 pers\u00f3nu, sem hann er beinlinis mynda\u00f0ur til a\u00f0 sty\u00f0ja?<\/li>
          • Fyrirfram ger\u00f0 \u00e1\u00e6tlun?  <\/strong>Hugr\u00fan Au\u00f0ur J\u00f3nsd\u00f3ttir segir fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 Laufey hafi spurt hana hryssingslega fyrir upphaf bor\u00f0halds:\u201eHva\u00f0 ert \u00fe\u00fa a\u00f0 gera h\u00e9r?\u201c Var henni brug\u00f0i\u00f0 vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00f3hlutdr\u00e6gt vitni var \u00fear me\u00f0 komi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 bor\u00f0haldi\u00f0?<\/li>
          • Vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 skv. lei\u00f0beiningum: <\/strong>Carmen segir, a\u00f0 h\u00fan hafi haft samband vi\u00f0 fyrrverandi samb\u00fdlismann sinn, Dan\u00edel \u00c1g\u00fast Haraldsson, eftir a\u00f0 h\u00fan yfirgaf bor\u00f0haldi\u00f0. Skv. lei\u00f0beiningum St\u00edgam\u00f3ta<\/em> er \u00fea\u00f0 einmitt \u00fea\u00f0 sem ber a\u00f0 gera til a\u00f0 styrkja m\u00e1lflutning s\u00ed\u00f0ar meir. Enn ein v\u00edsbending um, a\u00f0 allt hafi \u00feetta veri\u00f0 svi\u00f0sett samkv\u00e6mt fyriframger\u00f0ri \u00e1\u00e6tlun. Hitt er svo anna\u00f0 m\u00e1l, a\u00f0  tengdam\u00f3\u00f0irin Laufey vir\u00f0ist ekki hafa veri\u00f0 mj\u00f6g \u00e1n\u00e6g\u00f0 me\u00f0 tengdasoninn skv, br\u00e9fi hennar til Brynd\u00edsar (13.01.17). \u00dear segir h\u00fan: \u201e\u00c9g er svo fegin, a\u00f0 \u00feetta ofbeldisfulla samband me\u00f0 tilheyrandi alk\u00f3h\u00f3lisma er a\u00f0 baki!\u201c<\/li>
          • Ums\u00f6gn vinnuveitanda:<\/strong> Eftir a\u00f0 JBH haf\u00f0i \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum v\u00edsa\u00f0 \u00e1s\u00f6kunum Carmenar \u00e1 bug og vaki\u00f0 upp spurninguna um, hvort \u00feetta hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 fyrirfram\u00e1\u00e6tlu\u00f0 svi\u00f0setning, haf\u00f0i vinnuveitandi \u00feeirra m\u00e6\u00f0gna samband til a\u00f0 segja, a\u00f0 hann g\u00e6ti vel tr\u00faa\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed, \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hann  hef\u00f0i aldrei haft \u00ed sinni \u00fej\u00f3nustu \u201ejafn jafn\u00f3\u00e1rei\u00f0anlegar og \u00f3hei\u00f0arlegar manneskjur og \u00feessar tv\u00e6r\u201c. Hann t\u00f3k \u00fea\u00f0 fram ,a\u00f0 hann \u00feyr\u00f0i ekki fyrir sitt litla l\u00edf a\u00f0 segja \u00feetta opinberlega. \u00dear me\u00f0 telst \u00feetta vera illm\u00e6lgi, nema \u00fea\u00f0 sannist \u00ed reynd. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf nefnilega botnlaus \u00f3heilindi og \u00f3hei\u00f0arleika til a\u00f0 setja \u00e1 svi\u00f0 svona a\u00f0f\u00f6r a\u00f0 mannor\u00f0i annarra.A\u00f0 \u201esmygla s\u00e9r\u201c inn \u00e1 heimili annarra undir f\u00f6lsku yfirskini vin\u00e1ttu, beinl\u00ednis til \u00feess a\u00f0 spilla mannor\u00f0i gestgjafanna \u2013 og heimta svo miskab\u00e6tur upp \u00e1 millj\u00f3n fyrir \u00f3d\u00e6\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feokkab\u00f3t. Hver hefur or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir miska (ska\u00f0a) af \u00feessu upp\u00e1t\u00e6ki?<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

            Ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0a: <\/strong> Allt vekur \u00feetta upp spurninguna um, hvort h\u00e9r s\u00e9 um a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a svi\u00f0setningu samkv\u00e6mt fyrirframger\u00f0ri \u00e1\u00e6tlun \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed skyni a\u00f0 styrkja st\u00f6\u00f0u MeToo-h\u00f3psins, sem mynda\u00f0ur hefur veri\u00f0 gegn JBH til stu\u00f0nings Ald\u00edsi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            Ef sta\u00f0reyndir m\u00e1lsins lei\u00f0a svo a\u00f0 lokum \u00ed lj\u00f3s, a\u00f0 \u00edslenskir d\u00f3mst\u00f3lar eigi ekki einu sinni l\u00f6gs\u00f6gu \u00ed \u00feessu m\u00e1li, sem heyrir undir sp\u00e6nska l\u00f6gs\u00f6gu<\/em>, m\u00e1 lj\u00f3st vera, a\u00f0 ranns\u00f3kn m\u00e1lsins hefur veri\u00f0 fr\u00e1 upphafi verulega \u00e1b\u00f3tavant. \u00dea\u00f0 vantar miki\u00f0 \u00e1, a\u00f0 \u00feetta geti flokkast undir r\u00e9ttl\u00e1ta mm\u00e1lsme\u00f0fer\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

            1. \u00cd HAGASK\u00d3LA FYRIR MEIRA EN H\u00c1LFRI \u00d6LD<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

              Fyrstu sex \u00e1rin a\u00f0 loknu n\u00e1mi erlendis var \u00e9g kennari vi\u00f0 Hagask\u00f3la \u00ed Vesturb\u00e6 Reykjav\u00edkur fyrir h\u00e1degi og bla\u00f0ama\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 Frj\u00e1lsa \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0 eftir h\u00e1degi.  Enn \u00ed dag hitti \u00e9g f\u00f3lk \u00e1 f\u00f6rnum vegi sem l\u00e6tur vel af kennara s\u00ednum \u00e1 \u00feessum \u00e1rum. Lengi vel var \u00e9g bo\u00f0inn \u00e1 samkomur fyrrverandi nemenda, sem h\u00e9ldu upp \u00e1 \u00fatskriftarafm\u00e6li s\u00edn.  En n\u00fa les \u00e9g \u00fea\u00f0 eftir einum nemandanum, a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi reynst vera vondur ma\u00f0ur.  \u00c9g hafi l\u00e1ti\u00f0 hana sitja eftir og komi\u00f0 fram vi\u00f0 hana me\u00f0 \u00f3s\u00e6milegum h\u00e6tti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              Meira en h\u00e1lfri \u00f6ld s\u00ed\u00f0ar ver\u00f0 \u00e9g a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna a\u00f0 hvorki man \u00e9g eftir nemandanum n\u00e9 ber \u00e9g kennsl \u00e1 hana aftur. F\u00f3lk breytist a\u00f0 v\u00edsu \u00e1 skemmri t\u00edma en h\u00e1lfri \u00f6ld. Af \u00feessari \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u leita\u00f0i \u00e9g til sk\u00f3lastj\u00f3ra Hagask\u00f3la me\u00f0 einfalda spurningu: Geti\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 fundi\u00f0 g\u00f6gn sem sta\u00f0festa, a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi kennt \u00ed einhverri bekkjardeild \u00ed 2. bekk sk\u00f3la\u00e1ri\u00f0 1966-68?  Svari\u00f0 sem \u00e9g f\u00e9kk fr\u00e1 Borgarskjalasafni var eftirfarandi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              \u201eS\u00e6ll.                                                                                                                        22.01.19
              \u00c9g tel mig vera b\u00fain a\u00f0 fara \u00ed gegnum allar \u00fe\u00e6r \u00f6skjur, sem koma til greina \u00far Hagask\u00f3la fr\u00e1 \u00feessu t\u00edmabili. Hef \u00fev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur ekkert fundi\u00f0  sem getur sta\u00f0fest hvort \u00fe\u00fa hafir e\u00f0a ekki kennt \u00ed 2. bekk \u00e1 t\u00edmabilinu. V\u00e6ntanlega hafa \u00feessar uppl\u00fdsingar ekki var\u00f0veist og \u00feeim ekki skila\u00f0 inn til Borgarskjalasafns. \u00dear af lei\u00f0andi tel \u00e9g a\u00f0 m\u00e1linu s\u00e9 loki\u00f0 af okkar h\u00e1lfu.  \u2013 Kve\u00f0ja, Margr\u00e9t\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

              En m\u00e1linu var ekki loki\u00f0. S\u00ed\u00f0ar kom \u00e1 daginn a\u00f0 bla\u00f0amenn, sem leitu\u00f0u s\u00f6mu uppl\u00fdsinga og \u00e9g, fengu \u00f6nnur sv\u00f6r. \u00deeir fengu sta\u00f0fest a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef\u00f0i kennt \u00ed 2- X \u00fear sem umr\u00e6ddur nemandi \u00e1tti s\u00e6ti \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed sk\u00f3la\u00e1ri. \u00dea\u00f0 er svo forst\u00f6\u00f0ukonu Borgarskjalasafns a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra hvers vegna stofnunin gaf \u00f3l\u00edk sv\u00f6r vi\u00f0 s\u00f6mu spurningu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              En er sagan s\u00f6nn e\u00f0a bara tilb\u00faningur eftir \u00e1, eins og allar hinar? \u00dear er fullyr\u00f0ing gegn fullyr\u00f0ingu. \u00c9g v\u00edsa henni alfari\u00f0 \u00e1 bug<\/em>. En \u00e9g vi\u00f0urkenni, a\u00f0 \u00feessi saga s\u00e6rir mig meira en allar hinar, sem matreiddar hafa veri\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feessari herfer\u00f0 gegn mannor\u00f0i m\u00ednu. Hvers vegna? Vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fearna er \u00fev\u00ed beinl\u00ednis haldi\u00f0 fram a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi l\u00e1ti\u00f0 stj\u00f3rnast af annarlegum hv\u00f6rtum. Undir yfirskini hj\u00e1lpsemi vi\u00f0 nemanda, hafi allt anna\u00f0 vaka\u00f0 fyrir m\u00e9r. \u00deetta gengur gegn \u00f6llu \u00fev\u00ed sem m\u00e9r er beinl\u00ednis \u00ed bl\u00f3\u00f0 bori\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              \u00c9g hef alltaf fr\u00e1 blautu barnsbeini til dagsins \u00ed dag teki\u00f0 svari \u00feess sem er minni m\u00e1ttar, ef og \u00feegar \u00e1 reynir. \u00deetta hefur veri\u00f0 rau\u00f0i \u00fer\u00e1\u00f0urinn \u00ed \u00f6llum m\u00ednu l\u00edfi , einkal\u00edfi jafnt sem p\u00f3lit\u00edk. En samkv\u00e6mt \u00feessari s\u00f6gu er \u00e9g ekki bara illmenni \u2013 heldur l\u00edka hr\u00e6snari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              \u00deessi fyrirgrei\u00f0sla vi\u00f0 nemendur, sem \u00e1ttu \u00ed erfi\u00f0leikum me\u00f0 n\u00e1m, ger\u00f0ist \u00f6rsjaldan. \u00c9g man eftir \u00feremur tilvikum \u00e1 sex \u00e1rum. A\u00f0sta\u00f0an var \u00ed h\u00e1lf-opnu r\u00fdmi vi\u00f0 ganginn handan kennarastofu. Starfsf\u00f3lk skrifstofunnar, sem og kennarar, h\u00f6f\u00f0u \u00fear a\u00f0gang til a\u00f0 lj\u00f3srita\/fj\u00f6lrita  pr\u00f3f, verkefni, \u00fdtarefni o.s.sfr.. Fyrir utan a\u00f0 setja fyrir um n\u00e1msefni og \u00fatvega g\u00f6gn gat \u00e9g undir engum kringumst\u00e6\u00f0um veri\u00f0 \u00e1 sta\u00f0num, \u00fear sem \u00e9g var \u00ed fullu starfi annars sta\u00f0ar eftir h\u00e1degi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              V\u00e6ri eitthva\u00f0 h\u00e6ft \u00ed \u00feessu, tel \u00e9g vafalaust, a\u00f0 sl\u00edkt hef\u00f0i kvisast \u00fat og komi\u00f0  \u00f3or\u00f0i \u00e1 vi\u00f0komandi kennara. Svo vel \u00feykist \u00e9g \u00feekkja r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tiskennd og stj\u00f3rnsemi \u00c1rna \u00de\u00f3r\u00f0arsonar, sk\u00f3lastj\u00f3ra, a\u00f0 sl\u00edkt hef\u00f0i ekki fari\u00f0 framhj\u00e1 honum. Og hann hef\u00f0i ekki l\u00e1ti\u00f0 \u00feetta l\u00ed\u00f0ast. Hann hef\u00f0i komist a\u00f0 hinu sanna og gripi\u00f0 til vi\u00f0eigandi r\u00e1\u00f0stafana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              Einn \u00feeirra sem beittu s\u00e9r fyrir r\u00e1\u00f0ningu minni sem fyrsta sk\u00f3lameistara Menntask\u00f3lans \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i, haf\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 eftir \u00c1rna a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri \u201ef\u00e6ddur afbur\u00f0a- kennari\u201c. Og a\u00f0 \u201e\u00feeir yr\u00f0u ekki sviknir af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fela m\u00e9r brautry\u00f0jandastarfi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 stofnun Menntask\u00f3lans \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i\u201c.  \u2013 \u00c9g hef satt a\u00f0 segja ekki \u00feora\u00f0 a\u00f0 hafa \u00feetta eftir fyrr en n\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

              1. TV\u00cdSAGA \u2013 MARGSAGA<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

                Margr\u00e9t (f. 1943) er yngri systir Brynd\u00edsar.  H\u00fan var gefin \u00ed f\u00f3stur til f\u00f6\u00f0ursystur sinnar og eiginmanns hennar en \u00feeim var\u00f0 ekki barna au\u00f0i\u00f0.  Margr\u00e9t \u00f3lst \u00fev\u00ed ekki upp me\u00f0 systkinah\u00f3pnum.  \u00dea\u00f0 hefur a\u00f0 s\u00f6gn \u00feeirra, sem best til \u00feekkja, m\u00f3ta\u00f0 allt hennar l\u00edf. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

                Sumari\u00f0 1963 (fyrir 57 \u00e1rum), seinasta \u00e1ri\u00f0 mitt vi\u00f0 Edinborgarh\u00e1sk\u00f3la, starfa\u00f0i Margr\u00e9t sem flugfreyja.  H\u00fan flaug til Glasgow, haf\u00f0i samband vi\u00f0 systur s\u00edna og vildi skreppa \u00ed heims\u00f3kn.  H\u00fan var a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u velkomin, en var l\u00e1tin vita a\u00f0 Brynd\u00eds yr\u00f0i fjarverandi, \u00e1 leiklistarn\u00e1mskei\u00f0i \u00ed London.  H\u00fan l\u00e9t \u00fea\u00f0 ekki aftra s\u00e9r og gisti hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r \u00ed minni f\u00e1t\u00e6klegu st\u00fadenta\u00edb\u00fa\u00f0. Vi\u00f0 notu\u00f0um t\u00edmann \u00ed sko\u00f0unarfer\u00f0 um borgina.  Um kv\u00f6ldi\u00f0 bau\u00f0 \u00e9g henni \u00fat a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a \u00e1 veitingasta\u00f0 \u00ed grenndinni.  Daginn eftir deildum vi\u00f0 morgunver\u00f0i uppi \u00e1 King Arthur\u2018s Seat \u00ed kve\u00f0juskyni me\u00f0 \u00fats\u00fdni yfir alla borgina. A\u00f0 lokum fylgdi \u00e9g henni \u00e1 brautarst\u00f6\u00f0ina \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 kv\u00f6ddumst me\u00f0 virktum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

                40 \u00e1rum s\u00ed\u00f0ar, \u00feegar Ald\u00eds var byrju\u00f0 a\u00f0 bera \u00fat s\u00f6gur um a\u00f0 fa\u00f0ir hennar \u00e6tti vingott vi\u00f0 allt kvenkyns innan st\u00f3rfj\u00f6lskyldunnar, byrja\u00f0i h\u00fan \u00e1 s\u00f6gubur\u00f0i um a\u00f0 Margr\u00e9t m\u00f3\u00f0ursystir s\u00edn hef\u00f0i haldi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 f\u00f6\u00f0ur sinn.    Margr\u00e9t t\u00f3k \u00feessa sl\u00fa\u00f0urs\u00f6gu \u00f3stinnt upp.  H\u00fan h\u00f3ta\u00f0i Ald\u00edsi \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 ef h\u00fan h\u00e6tti ekki \u00feessu bulli \u00feegar \u00ed sta\u00f0, myndi h\u00fan l\u00f6gs\u00e6kja hana.<\/strong>  Margr\u00e9ti var fullkunnugt um veikindi Ald\u00edsar \u00e1 \u00feessum \u00e1rum.  H\u00fan \u00e1tti m.a. hlut a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vista Ald\u00edsi \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild (5. okt. 1994) skv. d\u00f3msskjali Ald\u00edsar sj\u00e1lfrar nr. 62. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

                H\u00e1lfri \u00f6ld s\u00ed\u00f0ar (2013) er sagan or\u00f0in \u00f3\u00feekkjanleg og Margr\u00e9ti or\u00f0in tv\u00edsaga \u2013 gott ef ekki margsaga.  \u00cd fyrstu \u00fatg\u00e1fu (2013) sem var a\u00f0 finna \u00ed k\u00e6ru Ald\u00edsar, \u00e1tti \u00e9g a\u00f0 hafa leita\u00f0 \u00e1 hana \u00feegar h\u00fan gisti hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r fyrir meira en h\u00e1lfri \u00f6ld.  \u00dea\u00f0 var a\u00f0 v\u00edsu \u00f3satt samkv\u00e6mt hennar eigin vitnisbur\u00f0i<\/strong>, \u00feegar h\u00fan h\u00f3ta\u00f0i Ald\u00edsi \u00f6llu illu ef h\u00fan h\u00e6tti ekki r\u00f3ginum.  \u00cd seinni \u00fatg\u00e1fu s\u00f6gunnar (br\u00e9fi til Ald\u00edsar \u00ed dskj. 41, 2019) er \u00feetta hins vegar or\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 nau\u00f0gunartilraun.  Svo her\u00f0ir h\u00fan heldur betur \u00e1 sakargiftum og sparar hvergi st\u00f3ru or\u00f0in:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                • H\u00fan segir mig kalla elstu d\u00f3ttur m\u00edna \u201efj\u00f6lskyldub\u00f6li\u00f0\u201c. – \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00f3satt.   \u00c9g hef hins vegar l\u00fdst \u00fev\u00ed hvernig ge\u00f0r\u00e6n veikindi eins fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0lims getur leiki\u00f0 a\u00f0standendur gr\u00e1tt.  \u00c9g er ekki einn um \u00fea\u00f0. Fj\u00f6lmargir a\u00f0standendur ge\u00f0sj\u00fakra eru til fr\u00e1sagnar um \u00fea\u00f0.<\/li>
                • H\u00fan v\u00edsar til m\u00edn \u201eme\u00f0 \u00f6llu hans kynfer\u00f0isofbeldi\u201c.  – \u00c9g hef aldrei beitt neina konu kynfer\u00f0isofbeldi.<\/li>
                • \u201eHvers konar ma\u00f0ur er \u00fea\u00f0, sem h\u00e6list af \u00fev\u00ed vi\u00f0 d\u00f3ttur s\u00edna a\u00f0 hafa sofi\u00f0 hj\u00e1 \u00f6mmu hennar og flest\u00f6llum konum \u00ed m\u00f3\u00f0urfj\u00f6lskyldu hennar\u201c. – H\u00e9r er \u00f6llu sn\u00fai\u00f0 \u00f6fugt.  \u00deetta \u00f3r\u00e1\u00f0stal er haft eftir Ald\u00edsi, sem hefur \u00fe\u00f3 be\u00f0ist afs\u00f6kunar \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed \u00feegar man\u00eduk\u00f6stum l\u00e9tti. <\/li>
                • \u201eOg hvers konar foreldrar eru \u00fea\u00f0 sem n\u00ed\u00f0a ni\u00f0ur mannor\u00f0 sinnar eigin d\u00f3ttur \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum\u201c. \u2013 \u00dea\u00f0 er Ald\u00eds sj\u00e1lf og vinkvennah\u00f3pur hennar \u2013 Margr\u00e9t systir \u00fear me\u00f0 talin – sem hafa leita\u00f0 til fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0la og bori\u00f0 \u00fear f\u00f6\u00f0ur Ald\u00edsar s\u00f6kum um barnan\u00ed\u00f0, sifjaspell og \u00f6nnur \u00f3d\u00e6\u00f0isverk.  Vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum bara reynt a\u00f0 bera h\u00f6nd yfir h\u00f6fu\u00f0 okkar \u00feegar \u00f3sannar og \u00e6rumei\u00f0andi fullyr\u00f0ingar keyr\u00f0i \u00far h\u00f3fi. <\/li>
                • Margr\u00e9t segir: \u201e\u00cd hvert skipti sem Ald\u00eds saka\u00f0i JBH um \u00f3vi\u00f0urkv\u00e6milega framkomu \u00fe\u00e1 enda\u00f0i vi\u00f0ureign \u00feeirra me\u00f0 innl\u00f6gn hennar \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild. JBH bara hringdi nokkur s\u00edmt\u00f6l og tilkynnti a\u00f0 Ald\u00eds v\u00e6ri me\u00f0 \u201eofskynjanir\u201c og \u00fear me\u00f0 var f\u00f3rnarlambi\u00f0 svo elt uppi eins og \u00f3argad\u00fdr og stungi\u00f0 \u00ed einangrun og d\u00f3pu\u00f0 ni\u00f0ur, \u00farskur\u00f0u\u00f0 me\u00f0 alvarlegan ge\u00f0sj\u00fakd\u00f3m skv. fjarst\u00fdringu sendiherrans \u00ed Washington.<\/em>  Og \u00fea\u00f0 me\u00f0 sam\u00feykki eiginkonunnar, Brynd\u00edsar, sem aldrei var til sta\u00f0ar til a\u00f0 hl\u00faa a\u00f0 barnabarni s\u00ednu, d\u00f3ttur Ald\u00edsar, hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 Ald\u00edsi sj\u00e1lfri\u201c.  \u2013 H\u00e9r er \u00feykkt smurt me\u00f0 \u00f3sannindum, rangf\u00e6rslum og \u00e1s\u00f6kunum sem hafa ekki vi\u00f0 neitt a\u00f0 sty\u00f0jast en l\u00fdsa gl\u00f3rulausu hatri og illgirni \u00feess sem fer me\u00f0 svona fleipur. <\/li>
                • En Margr\u00e9t gerir \u00fea\u00f0 ekki endasleppt.  H\u00fan segir: \u201eHvernig getur einn a\u00f0ili<\/em> r\u00e6st \u00fat l\u00f6greglu, hj\u00fakrunar- og l\u00e6knali\u00f0, barnaverndarli\u00f0 og f\u00e9lagsm\u00e1lali\u00f0, me\u00f0 einni s\u00edmhringingu?\u201c \u2013 \u00dea\u00f0 getur enginn, enda er \u00feetta bara bull a\u00f0 koma fr\u00e1 manneskju sem \u00e1 a\u00f0 vita betur (og sj\u00e1lf t\u00f3k \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed a\u00f0 vista Ald\u00edsi \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild \u00ed fylgd l\u00f6greglu, eins og fyrr er til vitna\u00f0). <\/li>
                • \u201eHver er veikur?\u201c spyr Margr\u00e9t a\u00f0 lokum.  G\u00f3\u00f0 spurning, en ekkert svar.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

                  \u00cd \u00feessum hatursfulla rei\u00f0ilestri er n\u00e1nast ekki satt or\u00f0 a\u00f0 finna, eins og au\u00f0velt er a\u00f0 s\u00fdna fram \u00e1 me\u00f0 r\u00f6kum. Ekki b\u00e6tir \u00far sk\u00e1k a\u00f0 \u00f6ll \u00feessi illm\u00e6lgi er r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tt undir yfirskini sam\u00fa\u00f0ar me\u00f0 \u00feeim sem \u00fearf \u00e1 hj\u00e1lp a\u00f0 halda, en ekki ofst\u00e6ki, illgirni og hatri.  Hva\u00f0 gengur yngri systur Brynd\u00edsar til?  \u00deess m\u00e1 geta a\u00f0 Margr\u00e9t haf\u00f0i ekkert \u00e1 m\u00f3ti \u00fev\u00ed \u00e1 \u00e1rum okkar Brynd\u00edsar \u00ed Washington DC (1998-2002) a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta gestrisni okkar og f\u00f3r \u00fe\u00e1 hi\u00f0 besta \u00e1 me\u00f0 okkur. \u00c6tli \u00feessi frambur\u00f0ur hennar s\u00e9 ekki eitt sk\u00fdrasta d\u00e6mi\u00f0 um hvernig andleg veikindi hafa eitra\u00f0 \u00fat fr\u00e1 s\u00e9r \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldu okkar Brynd\u00edsar eins og svo margra annarra a\u00f0standenda ge\u00f0sj\u00fakra. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

                  1. A\u00d0 VERA SKOTIN \u00cd KENNARANUM S\u00cdNUM<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

                    El\u00edsabet \u00deorgeirsd\u00f3ttir var ein af m\u00f6rgum eftirl\u00e6tis nemendum m\u00ednum \u00e1 frumb\u00fdlings\u00e1rum  Menntask\u00f3lans \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i. H\u00fan var forma\u00f0ur nemendaf\u00e9lagsins og mj\u00f6g virk \u00ed menningar- og f\u00e9lagsl\u00edfi sk\u00f3lans. H\u00fan beitti s\u00e9r fyrir \u00fev\u00ed, \u00e1samt me\u00f0 Einari Gu\u00f0finnssyni, s\u00ed\u00f0ar \u00feingmanni, r\u00e1\u00f0herra og forseta Al\u00feingis, a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 efndum til n\u00e1mskei\u00f0s um fundask\u00f6p og r\u00e6\u00f0umennsku,  \u00fear sem \u00e9g var lei\u00f0beinandi. Einnig t\u00f3k El\u00edsabet virkan \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed leikl\u00edstarl\u00edfi innan sk\u00f3lans me\u00f0 Brynd\u00edsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                    \u00dea\u00f0 gat ekki fari\u00f0 fram hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r, a\u00f0 um skei\u00f0 var El\u00edsabet svol\u00edti\u00f0 skotin \u00ed kennaranum s\u00ednum. Anna\u00f0 eins hefur n\u00fa gerst og \u00fea\u00f0 er ekkert sakn\u00e6mt vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0. \u00ddmsir sk\u00f3labr\u00e6\u00f0ur hennar hafa s\u00ed\u00f0ar tr\u00faa\u00f0 m\u00e9r fyrir \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0  \u00feeir hafi veri\u00f0 skotnir \u00ed henni Brynd\u00edsi \u00e1 \u00feessum \u00e1rum. Hver er \u00e9g, a\u00f0 \u00e9g geti \u00e1fellst \u00fe\u00e1? En \u00fea\u00f0 veldur m\u00e9r vonbrig\u00f0um, a\u00f0 El\u00edsabetu \u00feyki vi\u00f0 h\u00e6fi a\u00f0 afbaka \u00feessa s\u00f6gu. Enginn sem mig \u00feekkir tr\u00fair \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi \u201estungi\u00f0 fingri inn \u00ed legg\u00f6ng hennar\u201c. Er \u00feetta ekki l\u00e6knam\u00e1l?\u00c9g hef aldrei \u00e1 \u00e6vinni beitt nokkra konu ofbeldi.<\/em>E\u00f0a a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi tr\u00faa\u00f0 henni fyrir \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef\u00f0i \u00ed hyggju a\u00f0 skilja vi\u00f0 Brynd\u00edsi og gert m\u00e9r vonir um, a\u00f0 h\u00fan t\u00e6ki vi\u00f0 uppelda barna  minna. \u00c1 \u00feetta a\u00f0 vera dj\u00f3k? Ma\u00f0ur sem er kv\u00e6ntur Brynd\u00edsi Schram, hefur ekki \u00ed hyggju a\u00f0 skilja vi\u00f0 hana. Period.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                    Sagan sem h\u00fan segir af Brynd\u00edsi, hv\u00e6sandi og titrandi af rei\u00f0i, hlj\u00f3mar ekki tr\u00faver\u00f0uglega \u00ed m\u00edn eyru. Svo bar vi\u00f0, \u00feegar haldin var \u00e1rsh\u00e1t\u00ed\u00f0 sk\u00f3lans, a\u00f0 \u00e9g l\u00e1 veikur \u00ed b\u00e6linu me\u00f0 flensu og ba\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed Brynd\u00edsi a\u00f0 l\u00edta eftir \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 \u00e1rsh\u00e1t\u00ed\u00f0in f\u00e6ri s\u00f3masamlega fram. \u00dear me\u00f0 tali\u00f0 a\u00f0 framfylgja str\u00f6ngu v\u00ednbanni, sem gilti \u00e1 samkomum sk\u00f3lans \u00e1 \u00feessum \u00e1rum. El\u00edsabetu hl\u00fdtur a\u00f0 hafa lei\u00f0st \u00e1 samkomunni, \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan strauk \u00fea\u00f0an og t\u00f3k h\u00fas \u00e1 sk\u00f3lameistaranuma\u00f0 n\u00e6tur\u00feeli, \u00fear sem hann l\u00e1 lasinn \u00ed b\u00e6linu. H\u00fan var \u00f3farin, \u00feegar Brynd\u00eds kom heim a\u00f0 \u00e1rsh\u00e1t\u00ed\u00f0 lokinni. D\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00f3venjuleg a\u00f0koma, ekki satt? En Brynd\u00eds t\u00f3k \u00fev\u00ed me\u00f0 stakri yfirvegun og stillingu. H\u00fan v\u00edsa\u00f0i ungu st\u00falkunni kurteislega \u00e1 dyr, en l\u00e9t hana \u00ed engu gjalda \u00feessa upp\u00e1t\u00e6kis. Sj\u00e1lfur haf\u00f0i \u00e9g ekki n\u00e6gilegt hugarflug til a\u00f0 bera mig upp undan \u201ekynfer\u00f0islegri \u00e1reitni\u201c.  \u00c9g get ekki \u00edmynda\u00f0 m\u00e9r, a\u00f0 El\u00edsabet hafi be\u00f0i\u00f0 neinn ska\u00f0a af sk\u00f3lavist sinni \u00ed M\u00cd. H\u00fan \u00e1vann s\u00e9r traust, n\u00f3g til \u00feess a\u00f0 vera tr\u00faa\u00f0 fyrir ritstj\u00f3rn Veru, m\u00e1lgagns Kvennalistans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                    1. DIMISSION \u2013 Menntask\u00f3linn \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i, ANNO \u00b479<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

                      \u00de\u00e1 er komi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hinni skrumsk\u00e6ldu fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn Sigr\u00ed\u00f0ar Huldu Richardsd\u00f3ttur af dimission \u00fatskriftarnema\/st\u00fadentsefna Menntask\u00f3lans \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i vori\u00f0 1979. Um \u00fea\u00f0 hafa skapast \u00f3l\u00edkar hef\u00f0ir \u00ed hinum \u00fdmsu menntask\u00f3lum \u00e1 \u00cdslandi. Allar eiga \u00fe\u00e6r \u00fea\u00f0 sameiginlegt, a\u00f0 \u00feetta er \u00e6rsladagur \u2013  einskonar \u201eoktoberfest\u201c e\u00f0a karnival.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                      Hvernig b\u00e1rum vi\u00f0 okkur a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 dimission \u00ed MR anno 1958? Vi\u00f0 tr\u00f3\u00f0umst upp \u00ed gripavagna, sem h\u00f6ktu aftan \u00ed dr\u00e1ttarv\u00e9l og f\u00f3rum me\u00f0 h\u00e1va\u00f0a og l\u00e1tum um b\u00e6inn, \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 t\u00f3kum h\u00fas \u00e1 rektor og kennurum og kv\u00f6ddum \u00fe\u00e1 me\u00f0 virktum me\u00f0 \u00fevi a\u00f0 sk\u00e1la \u00ed brenniv\u00edni. Flestir voru me\u00f0 pela \u00ed vasanum. Um kv\u00f6ldi\u00f0 var haldi\u00f0 ball og drukki\u00f0 og dansa\u00f0 fram \u00e1 n\u00f3tt. \u00c9g hef heyrt, a\u00f0 dimmission vi\u00f0 hinn nor\u00f0lenska sk\u00f3la geti l\u00edka veri\u00f0 skrautleg, \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e9g hir\u00f0i ekki um a\u00f0 fara n\u00e1nar \u00fat \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00e1lma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                      Vi\u00f0 Menntask\u00f3lann \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i haf\u00f0i skapast s\u00fa hef\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara \u00ed siglingu um Dj\u00fapi\u00f0 og heims\u00e6kja forvitnilega sta\u00f0i eins og t.d. \u00c6\u00f0ey, Vigur, Reykjanes e\u00f0a bygg\u00f0arl\u00f6gin \u00ed n\u00e1grenninu. \u00cd \u00feetta skipti var Bolungarv\u00edk s\u00f3tt heim. \u00c1st\u00e6\u00f0an var s\u00fa, a\u00f0 \u00ed h\u00f3pi st\u00fadentsefna voru ungir og efnilegir Bolv\u00edkingar. S\u00e1 m\u00e6ti \u00f6\u00f0lingur, J\u00f3natan Einarsson og Halla Kristj\u00e1nsd\u00f3ttir kona hans, opnu\u00f0u heimili sitt fyrir gestum og veittu af rausn, eins og \u00feeirra var von og v\u00edsa. Sundlaugin \u00ed Bolungarvik var s\u00e9rstaklega opnu\u00f0, bara fyrir st\u00fadentsefnin og kennara \u00feeirra. \u00dear \u00e6rslu\u00f0umst vi\u00f0 um stund. Sumir \u00ed str\u00e1kah\u00f3pnum, \u00fear me\u00f0 talinn undirrita\u00f0ur, voru ekki me\u00f0 sk\u00fdlur, svo a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 stukkum naktir \u00ed laugina, \u00e1\u00f0ur en stelpurnar komu \u00e1 vettvang. \u00c1\u00f0ur en \u00fe\u00e6r bar a\u00f0, fengum vi\u00f0 l\u00e9\u00f0ar sk\u00fdlur og huldum nekt okkar vendilega. Vi\u00f0 l\u00e9kum \u00e1 als oddi \u00ed lauginni skamma stund. Allt sem \u00fear f\u00f3r fram var fyrir opnum tj\u00f6ldum og \u00ed allra augs\u00fdn. Ekkert pukur. Enginn sem \u00e9g hef r\u00e6tt vi\u00f0 kannast vi\u00f0 neina kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni, enda vands\u00e9\u00f0, hvar unnt var a\u00f0 pukrast me\u00f0 sl\u00edkt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                      Allir \u00feeir sem \u00e9g hef r\u00e6tt vi\u00f0 \u00ed h\u00f3pi kennara og nemenda segja, a\u00f0 fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn Siggu Rikk, eins og h\u00fan var k\u00f6llu\u00f0, s\u00e9 alger skrumsk\u00e6ling af \u00fev\u00ed, sem \u00fear f\u00f3r fram. Einn nemenda kva\u00f0 svo fast a\u00f0 or\u00f0i, a\u00f0  \u00feetta hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 skemmtilegasti dagur l\u00edfsins. Annar sag\u00f0i, a\u00f0 \u00feakkarr\u00e6\u00f0a m\u00edn til gestgjafanna, J\u00f3natans og H\u00f6llu, hafi ekki a\u00f0eins veri\u00f0 m\u00edn besta \u00feanga\u00f0 til heldur eftirminnilegasta r\u00e6\u00f0a, sem hann hefur nokkru sinni heyrt. Ef \u00fea\u00f0 er eitthva\u00f0 til \u00ed \u00feessu hj\u00e1 honum, m\u00e1 vera a\u00f0 sk\u00f3lameistarinn hafi veri\u00f0 \u00f6r af v\u00edni, en af og fr\u00e1 \u00fat\u00fardrukkinn og stj\u00f3rnlaus, eins og Sigr\u00ed\u00f0ur Richardsd\u00f3ttir l\u00e6tur s\u00e9r s\u00e6ma a\u00f0 segja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                      \u00dea\u00f0 kann a\u00f0 \u00feykja \u00e1m\u00e6lisvert a\u00f0 sk\u00f3lameistari og kennarar voru undir \u00e1hrifum \u00e1fengis \u00e1 dimission.  V\u00edst m\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 til sanns vegar f\u00e6ra. \u00dearna var ger\u00f0 undantekning, \u00feennan eina dag. \u00c9g var a\u00f0 kve\u00f0ja sk\u00f3lann eftir \u00e1ratugs brautry\u00f0jendastarf.  Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 er \u00e1litam\u00e1l hvort \u00fea\u00f0 megi t\u00edunda til m\u00e1lsb\u00f3ta. Hitt vekur athygli m\u00edna a\u00f0 allir \u00feeir sem \u00e9g r\u00e6ddi vi\u00f0 \u00ed h\u00f3pi \u00fe\u00e1verandi nemenda l\u00fdstu fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn Sigr\u00ed\u00f0ar sem hreina skrumsk\u00e6lingu \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed sem \u00fearna ger\u00f0ist en enginn \u00feeirra \u00feor\u00f0i a\u00f0 sta\u00f0festa \u00fea\u00f0 undir nafni.  Hvers vegna ekki? \u00deeir s\u00f6g\u00f0ust vera sk\u00edthr\u00e6ddir vi\u00f0 #metoo. Svo er veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala um karlaveldi\u00f0!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                      • FAGNA\u00d0ARTILEFNI<\/strong>                                  <\/strong><\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

                        Innst inni er \u00e9g einhvern veginn sannf\u00e6r\u00f0 um \u00fea\u00f0, a\u00f0 enginn ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 \u00cdslandi \u2013 n\u00e9 \u00ed \u00fatl\u00f6ndum \u2013 tr\u00fai \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed alv\u00f6ru, a\u00f0 ma\u00f0urinn minn, J\u00f3n Baldvin Hannibalsson, s\u00e9 allt \u00ed einu og \u00f3v\u00e6nt or\u00f0inn ofstopafullur kynfer\u00f0isgl\u00e6pama\u00f0ur, sem n\u00ed\u00f0ist b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00e1 konum og b\u00f6rnum. \u00cd \u00f6llu okkar str\u00ed\u00f0i \u00e1 undanf\u00f6rnum sext\u00edu \u00e1rum \u00ed samb\u00fa\u00f0, b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00ed p\u00f3lit\u00edkinni og \u00e1 vinnumarka\u00f0num almennt, var \u00fea\u00f0 aldrei inni \u00ed myndinni. Vi\u00f0 vorum a\u00f0 v\u00edsu st\u00f6\u00f0ugt s\u00f6ku\u00f0 um alls konar gl\u00e6pi \u2013 svo sem smygl, \u00fej\u00f3fna\u00f0 og drykkjuskap \u2013 nefndu \u00fea\u00f0 \u2013 en aldrei um \u00f3ge\u00f0slegt ofbeldi gagnvart konum e\u00f0a b\u00f6rnum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Hugarflugi\u00f0 var ekki b\u00fai\u00f0 a\u00f0 n\u00e1 \u00feeim h\u00e6\u00f0um \u00e1 \u00feessum \u00e1rum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00c9g held, a\u00f0 \u00feetta f\u00e1r, \u00feetta skyndilega og \u00edmynda\u00f0a hatur, sem um \u00feessar mundir beinist a\u00f0 okkur \u00ed samf\u00e9lagsmi\u00f0lum, s\u00e9 sprotti\u00f0 af \u00fev\u00ed, sem heitir \u00e1 \u00fe\u00fdsku \u201cSchadenfreude\u201d \u2013 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 gle\u00f0jast yfir \u00f3f\u00f6rum annarra. \u00deannig f\u00e6r f\u00f3lk \u00fatr\u00e1s fyrir s\u00edna eigin gremju, sitt ni\u00f0urb\u00e6lda hatur \u00e1 \u00f6llum og \u00f6llu. \u00dea\u00f0 hefur nautn af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 r\u00edfa ni\u00f0ur mannor\u00f0 n\u00e1ungans og ba\u00f0a sig \u00ed eigin illsku. Ska\u00f0agle\u00f0i heitir \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00edslensku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Ma\u00f0urinn minn er ekki vondur ma\u00f0ur \u2013 hann er g\u00f3\u00f0ur ma\u00f0ur. \u00de\u00fa \u00fearft ekki anna\u00f0 en a\u00f0 horfa \u00ed augu hans, hlusta \u00e1 hann tala og kynnast sko\u00f0unum hans, til \u00feess a\u00f0 skynja, a\u00f0 h\u00e9r fer ma\u00f0ur, sem ber vir\u00f0ingu fyrir samfer\u00f0af\u00f3lki s\u00ednu, hvort sem um konu e\u00f0a karl er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a. Einl\u00e6gur jafna\u00f0arma\u00f0ur, sem fer ekki \u00ed manngreinar\u00e1lit, \u00feykir v\u00e6nt um f\u00f3lk. N\u00fa er \u00fea\u00f0 or\u00f0inn gl\u00e6pur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00c6visaga J\u00f3ns Baldvins, \u201eTilhugal\u00edf\u201c, sem kom \u00fat \u00e1ri\u00f0 2002, er tileinku\u00f0 m\u00e9r me\u00f0 eftirfarandi or\u00f0um: \u201eL\u00edfi\u00f0 er eil\u00edf leit. Leit a\u00f0 l\u00edfssko\u00f0un, leit a\u00f0 l\u00edfshamingju, leit a\u00f0 l\u00edfsfyllingu. \u00deetta er \u00ed m\u00ednum huga leit a\u00f0 fegur\u00f0inni \u00ed l\u00edfinu. Hana fann \u00e9g hj\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e9r og me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Og \u00feannig hefur \u00fea\u00f0 veri\u00f0: gott l\u00edf, fagurt mannl\u00edf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00deann 6. okt\u00f3ber voru li\u00f0in 50 \u00e1r \u2013 h\u00e1lf \u00f6ld \u2013 fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 Menntask\u00f3linn \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i var stofna\u00f0ur.<\/strong> Fyrsti sk\u00f3lameistarinn var J\u00f3n Baldvin Hannibalsson, eiginma\u00f0ur minn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00deetta haust fyrir 50 \u00e1rum h\u00f6f\u00f0um vi\u00f0 veri\u00f0 lengi fjarri hvort \u00f6\u00f0ru \u2013 hann fyrir vestan a\u00f0 undirb\u00faa sk\u00f3lastarfi\u00f0, og \u00e9g \u00f3l\u00e9tt fyrir sunnan a\u00f0 lesa undir BA-pr\u00f3f \u00ed H\u00cd. \u00c9g \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 tryggja, a\u00f0 \u00e9g g\u00e6ti a\u00f0 minnsta kosti or\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 einhverju gagni \u00fearna \u00fati \u00e1 hjara veraldar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Hann sag\u00f0i m\u00e9r sigri hr\u00f3sandi fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed eitt kv\u00f6ldi\u00f0 \u00ed s\u00edmann, a\u00f0 hans fyrsta verk hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 kaupa sk\u00faringaf\u00f6tu og handy-andy, svo a\u00f0 allt yr\u00f0i hreint og f\u00ednt \u00ed gamla barnask\u00f3lah\u00fasinu, \u00feegar fyrstu nemendur streymdu a\u00f0. \u00dear \u00e1tti a\u00f0 kenna fyrst um sinn. \u00c9g held meira a\u00f0 segja, a\u00f0 hann hafi sk\u00fara\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfur, \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 enn vanta\u00f0i b\u00e6\u00f0i r\u00e6stit\u00e6kna og kennara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        En hann var als\u00e6ll, aftur kominn \u00e1 s\u00ednar heimasl\u00f3\u00f0ir, og allt haf\u00f0ist \u00feetta a\u00f0 lokum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00c9g s\u00e1 mest eftir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 geta ekki veri\u00f0 vi\u00f0st\u00f6dd sk\u00f3lasetningu \u2013 en \u00fear sem yngsta d\u00f3ttir m\u00edn, h\u00fan Kolfinna, kaus a\u00f0 koma \u00ed heiminn \u00ed framhaldi af sk\u00f3lasetningu \u2013 \u00e1tti \u00e9g ekki heimangengt. \u00c9g var \u00fev\u00ed v\u00ed\u00f0s fjarri, og \u00fea\u00f0 lei\u00f0 heil vika, \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00e9g komst vestur me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin \u00ed farangrinum  \u2013  og m\u00f6mmu, m\u00e9r til halds og trausts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00cd h\u00e1sk\u00f3la l\u00edfsins<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00c1rin okkar fyrir vestan voru okkur betri en nokkur h\u00e1sk\u00f3li, b\u00e6\u00f0i l\u00e6rd\u00f3msr\u00edk og fars\u00e6l. \u00deau fengu samt sn\u00f6ggan endi hausti\u00f0 1978. Vi\u00f0 snerum heim \u00ed september a\u00f0 loknu sumarfr\u00edi og komum \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 loku\u00f0um dyrum og h\u00f6f\u00f0um \u00ed engin h\u00fas a\u00f0 venda. (\u00c9g segi fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed betur \u00ed b\u00f3k minni \u201eBrosa\u00f0 gegnum t\u00e1rin\u201c). A\u00f0 lokum  f\u00f3r \u00e9g su\u00f0ur me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin, en J\u00f3n Baldvin haf\u00f0i ekki brj\u00f3st \u00ed s\u00e9r til a\u00f0 skiljast vi\u00f0 sk\u00f6punarverk sitt  svona \u00f3v\u00e6nt og f\u00e9kk inni \u00ed r\u00e1\u00f0skonuherbergi \u00e1 heimavistinni, \u00fear sem hann h\u00fakti \u00feennan s\u00ed\u00f0asta vetur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Vori\u00f0 1979  kvaddi hann s\u00edna s\u00ed\u00f0ustu nemendur. Og a\u00f0 venju var haldin hi\u00f0 \u00e1rlega \u201ejubileum\u201c\u2013 fagna\u00f0arh\u00e1t\u00ed\u00f0: kennslu loki\u00f0. Bara pr\u00f3fin framundan. F\u00f6gnu\u00f0urinn f\u00f3lst \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0  syngja, eta og drekka, vera g\u00f3\u00f0ur og gla\u00f0ur \u2013 laus \u00far vi\u00f0jum sk\u00f3lans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Frelsi\u00f0 framundan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Oftast var siglt me\u00f0 Fagranesinu inn \u00ed Dj\u00fap, \u00fear sem vi\u00f0 nutum gestrisni heimamanna, en a\u00f0 \u00feessu sinni var stefnan tekin \u00fat Dj\u00fapi\u00f0 \u2013 a\u00f0 v\u00edsu me\u00f0 vi\u00f0komu \u00ed S\u00fa\u00f0av\u00edk, \u00fear sem fyrrverandi nemandi sk\u00f3lans var n\u00fa or\u00f0inn sveitarstj\u00f3ri \u2013 og s\u00ed\u00f0an haldi\u00f0 \u00e1fram til Bolungarv\u00edkur. N\u00faverandi orkub\u00fastj\u00f3ri, afkomandi Einars Gu\u00f0s, var \u00e1 me\u00f0al st\u00fadentsefnanna \u2013 og enn ein veislan framundan hj\u00e1 foreldrum hans, J\u00f3natani  og H\u00f6llu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Bolv\u00edkingar voru alltaf h\u00f6f\u00f0ingjar heim a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Sundlaugin \u2013 eitt helsta dj\u00e1sn Bolungarv\u00edkur \u2013  var opnu\u00f0 s\u00e9rstaklega af \u00feessu tilefni. \u00dear slepptu tilvonandi \u201edimittendi\u201c fram af s\u00e9r beislinu um stund og h\u00f6f\u00f0u sig til \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00feeir settust a\u00f0 veislubor\u00f0um.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        N\u00fa eru li\u00f0in 40 \u00e1r s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00feetta allt ger\u00f0ist, og aldrei hefur bori\u00f0 skugga \u00e1 veru okkar fyrir vestan \u00f6ll \u00feessi \u00e1r. Margir af fyrrverandi nemendum okkar og kennurum \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i eru okkar bestu vinir \u00ed dag og aldrei hefur or\u00f0i veri\u00f0 halla\u00f0 \u00ed okkar samskiptum \u2013 fyrr en n\u00fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00deann 11. jan\u00faar, 2019 \u2013 fj\u00f6rut\u00edu \u00e1rum eftir \u00feessa gla\u00f0v\u00e6ru kve\u00f0justund vi\u00f0 Dj\u00fap \u2013 var\u00f0 skyndilega myrkur um mi\u00f0jan dag, og \u00e1 svipstundu var l\u00edf okkar hj\u00f3na komi\u00f0 \u00e1 ruslahaug s\u00f6gunnar, eins og hver annar mengandi \u00fargangur.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Fallegar minningar f\u00f6lnu\u00f0u \u00e1 augabrag\u00f0i, og l\u00edfi\u00f0 missti lit.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00de\u00f6gn \u00f3ttans<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Hva\u00f0 ger\u00f0ist? Daginn \u00feann birtist \u00ed Stundinni \u00feaulundirb\u00fain atlaga a\u00f0 mannor\u00f0i mannsins m\u00edns og m\u00ednu, \u00fear sem honum er l\u00fdst sem \u00f3l\u00e6knandi kynfer\u00f0isgl\u00e6pamanni og m\u00e9r sem me\u00f0virkri druslu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00deetta h\u00e9lt \u00e1fram d\u00f6gum og vikum saman. Einn kaflinn var um sundlaugina \u00ed Bolungarv\u00edk. \u00dear var \u00e6rslum st\u00fadentsefna sn\u00fai\u00f0 upp \u00ed fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn af fordrukknum sk\u00f3lameistara, sem  \u00e1tti a\u00f0 hafa hundelt hinar ver\u00f0andi st\u00fad\u00ednur \u00ed laug og ba\u00f0klefum me\u00f0 subbulegri \u00e1reitni. Gott ef hann og vitor\u00f0smenn hans voru ekki sag\u00f0ir va\u00f0andi um kviknaktir, \u00f6l\u00f3\u00f0ir og \u00e1gengir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00deetta \u00e1tti a\u00f0 hafa veri\u00f0 endapunkturinn \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, sem \u00e1\u00f0ur h\u00e9t skapandi brautry\u00f0jendastarf vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 byggja fr\u00e1 grunni upp n\u00fdtt menntasetur \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1gu vestfirskrar \u00e6sku.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Vi\u00f0 vissum ekki, hva\u00f0an \u00e1 okkur st\u00f3\u00f0 ve\u00f0ri\u00f0. J\u00f3n Baldvin hringdi strax \u00ed kennara og nemendur, sem voru vi\u00f0staddir \u00feessa eftirminnilegu \u201edimission\u201c. Enginn \u00feeirra vildi kannast vi\u00f0 \u00feessa fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn. \u00devert \u00e1 m\u00f3ti h\u00f6f\u00f0u sumir nemenda or\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 \u00feetta hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 einn eftirminnilegasti dagur l\u00edfsins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        En \u00feegar sk\u00f3lameistarinn spur\u00f0i, hvort \u00feeir v\u00e6ru rei\u00f0ub\u00fanir  til a\u00f0 andm\u00e6la skrumsk\u00e6lingunni og segja s\u00f6guna eins og h\u00fan var, komu v\u00f6flur \u00e1 mannskapinn. H\u00f3pur nemenda bar saman b\u00e6kur s\u00ednar. Og ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0an var\u00f0 s\u00fa, a\u00f0 enginn \u00feor\u00f0i a\u00f0 andm\u00e6la. Hvers vegna ekki? Af \u00f3tta vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a sj\u00e1lfir fyrir bar\u00f0inu \u00e1 ofs\u00f3knum \u00f6fgafeminista. Einn l\u00e6knir \u00ed h\u00f3pnum sag\u00f0i, a\u00f0 bi\u00f0stofan mundi t\u00e6mast, ef hann yr\u00f0i opinberlega saka\u00f0ur um  a\u00f0 skj\u00f3ta hl\u00edfisskildi yfir gruna\u00f0an kynfer\u00f0isbrotamann.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Skrumsk\u00e6lingin var me\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum or\u00f0um sam\u00feykkt me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f6gn heigulsh\u00e1ttarins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00dea\u00f0 var ekki fyrr en n\u00fana, t\u00e6pum tveimur \u00e1rum eftir \u00feessa atl\u00f6gu a\u00f0 mannor\u00f0i okkar, a\u00f0 m\u00e9r barst br\u00e9f fr\u00e1 \u00f3nefndum nemanda, sem haf\u00f0i teki\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed \u00feessari umr\u00e6ddu kve\u00f0juath\u00f6fn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                         H\u00e9r fylgir s\u00fa fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn or\u00f0r\u00e9tt:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        S\u00ed\u00f0b\u00fainn sannleikur<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u201c\u00c9g man vel eftir dimmisj\u00f3ninni 1979. H\u00fan h\u00f3fst me\u00f0 siglingu yfir \u00ed S\u00fa\u00f0av\u00edk \u00fear sem H\u00e1lfd\u00e1n sveitarstj\u00f3ri t\u00f3k \u00e1 m\u00f3ti okkur \u00e1 bryggjunni og bau\u00f0 okkur til kaffisams\u00e6tis \u00ed m\u00f6tuneyti frystih\u00fassins. S\u00ed\u00f0an var siglt yfir til Bolungarv\u00edkur \u00fear sem h\u00f3purinn f\u00f3r \u00ed sund \u00e1\u00f0ur en haldi\u00f0 var til veislu heima hj\u00e1 foreldrum El\u00edasar J\u00f3natanssonar. \u00cd sundlauginni var f\u00f3lk fari\u00f0 a\u00f0 finna \u00e1 s\u00e9r og hlaupin \u00e6rsl \u00ed mannskapinn, b\u00e6\u00f0i kennara og nemendur.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Kennararnir voru margir ungir a\u00f0 \u00e1rum, sumir hverjir n\u00e1nast jafnaldrar \u00fatskriftarnemanna. \u00dearna var til d\u00e6mis ungur kennari sem \u00e6rsla\u00f0ist \u00ed stelpunum, kafa\u00f0i undir \u00fe\u00e6r \u00ed lauginni og kitla\u00f0i \u00fe\u00e6r. Einhver h\u00e9lt \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 hann hef\u00f0i gripi\u00f0 \u00ed bikin\u00edbuxur \u00e1 einni \u00feeirra – \u00e9g veit ekki hva\u00f0 satt er \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Hins vegar fannst m\u00e9r vont a\u00f0 sj\u00e1, \u00e1ratugum seinna, \u00feegar \u00feessir atbur\u00f0ir voru rifja\u00f0ir upp \u00ed bl\u00f6\u00f0um – og \u00fe\u00e1 \u00ed tengslum vi\u00f0 \u00e1sakanir Ald\u00edsar \u00ed gar\u00f0 f\u00f6\u00f0ur s\u00edns – a\u00f0 heg\u00f0un \u00feessa unga manns skyldi vera yfirf\u00e6r\u00f0 \u00e1 J\u00f3n Baldvin.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00dea\u00f0 var alls ekki J\u00f3n Baldvin sem hama\u00f0ist \u00ed stelpunum \u00ed lauginni – heldur var \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feessi umr\u00e6ddi og \u00fe\u00e1verandi kennari sem n\u00fa er r\u00e1\u00f0settur ma\u00f0ur \u2013 og engum dettur \u00ed hug, held \u00e9g, a\u00f0 or\u00f0a hann vi\u00f0 \u00e1reitni e\u00f0a \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi heg\u00f0un gagnvart konum, svo \u00e9g viti. \u00dearna var vissulega v\u00edn \u00e1 f\u00f3lki og eitt og anna\u00f0 sem \u00farskei\u00f0is f\u00f3r. \u00deessi ungi kennari og annar til voru full uppteknir af n\u00e1msmeyjunum.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00c9g man \u00fe\u00f3 ekkert eftir J\u00f3ni Baldvini \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed samhengi, og ekki heldur eldri kennurunum, sem voru me\u00f0 \u00ed f\u00f6r, a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafi neitt skipt s\u00e9r af kvenf\u00f3lkinu \u00ed sundlauginni.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00c9g get ekki \u00fatiloka\u00f0 a\u00f0 einhver sk\u00f3lasystkini m\u00edn hafi upplifa\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 anna\u00f0 en \u00e9g e\u00f0a s\u00e9\u00f0 \u00feessi atvik \u00ed \u00f6\u00f0ru lj\u00f3si.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        \u00c9g get bara votta\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g upplif\u00f0i og man.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Svona man \u00e9g<\/em> \u00feetta\u201d.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        Bara ef \u00e9g hef\u00f0i fengi\u00f0 \u00feessa s\u00f6gu fyrr upp \u00ed hendurnar. \u00dea\u00f0 hef\u00f0i eflaust vaki\u00f0 mig til l\u00edfsins \u00e1 n\u00fd. \u00c9g hef\u00f0i geta\u00f0 leyft m\u00e9r \u00feann muna\u00f0 a\u00f0 hugsa til \u00e1ranna fyrir vestan me\u00f0 \u00e1n\u00e6gju \u2013 jafnvel stolti.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                         Loksins \u00feegar einhver \u00feor\u00f0i.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

                        1. A\u00d0 GEFNU TILEFNI \u2013 eftir Brynd\u00edsi Schram<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

                          Tengdafa\u00f0ir minn, Hannibal Valdimarsson, var einhver umdeildasti stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1lama\u00f0ur \u00cdslands,  me\u00f0an hann lif\u00f0i. Vestfir\u00f0ingur \u00ed h\u00fa\u00f0 og h\u00e1r, eins og flestir vita. \u00deegar \u00e9g var unglingur \u00ed Vesturb\u00e6 Reykjav\u00edkur, s\u00e1 \u00e9g oft myndir af honum \u00ed Morgunbla\u00f0inu. \u00deessum myndum fylgdi yfirleitt einhver sk\u00e6tingur og n\u00ed\u00f0 um pers\u00f3nu hans \u2013 en aldrei \u00fe\u00f3, a\u00f0 hann v\u00e6ri barnan\u00ed\u00f0ingur, merkilegt nokk!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          \u00c9g man \u00fea\u00f0 ekki n\u00fana, hvort \u00e9g lag\u00f0i einhvern tr\u00fana\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g las e\u00f0a hvort \u00fea\u00f0 snerti mig yfirleitt nokku\u00f0.  \u00de\u00f3 leyni \u00e9g \u00fev\u00ed ekki, a\u00f0 m\u00e9r st\u00f3\u00f0 h\u00e1lfger\u00f0ur stuggur af honum, \u00feegar vi\u00f0 hittumst \u00ed fyrsta sinn. Danasleikja, landr\u00e1\u00f0ama\u00f0ur, laumukommi, uppreisnarseggur, l\u00fd\u00f0skrumari,  lygari, \u00f3\u00feverri \u2013 eflaust hafa \u00f6ll \u00feessi or\u00f0 komi\u00f0 upp \u00ed huga m\u00e9r. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i lesi\u00f0 \u00feau \u00ed Bla\u00f0inu \u2013 bla\u00f0i allra landsmanna \u2013  svo oft, svo oft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          En au\u00f0vita\u00f0 voru \u00feetta bara or\u00f0 \u00e1n merkingar. \u00c9g vissi ekki, hvern mann hann hef\u00f0i a\u00f0 geyma, fyrr en \u00e9g haf\u00f0i teki\u00f0 \u00ed h\u00f6ndina \u00e1 honum, horft \u00ed augu hans og seti\u00f0 til bor\u00f0s me\u00f0 honum nokkrum sinnum. Fengi\u00f0 a\u00f0 kynnast hans innra manni. Eftir \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00e9t \u00e9g allan r\u00f3g og n\u00ed\u00f0 l\u00f6nd og lei\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          En au\u00f0vita\u00f0 f\u00f3r ekki hj\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 allt \u00feetta n\u00ed\u00f0 og r\u00f3gur \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0um dagbla\u00f0anna s\u00eda\u00f0ist inn \u00e1 heimilin \u2013  inn \u00ed eldh\u00faskr\u00f3kinn. \u00dear var hann borinn \u00e1 bor\u00f0 me\u00f0 morgunkaffinu, s\u00ed\u00f0degiskaffinu \u2013 og jafnvel l\u00edka me\u00f0 kv\u00f6ldkaffinu. K\u00f6kur voru \u00f3\u00fearfar, \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ekkert rennur lj\u00faflegar ni\u00f0ur en sl\u00fa\u00f0urs\u00f6gur, g\u00f3ms\u00e6tar og krassandi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          Amma m\u00edn var enn \u00e1 l\u00edfi, \u00feegar \u00feetta var. H\u00fan bj\u00f3 meira a\u00f0 segja hj\u00e1 okkur J\u00f3ni Baldvini, \u00feegar vi\u00f0 byrju\u00f0um a\u00f0 b\u00faa saman. \u00dea\u00f0 f\u00f3r ekki hj\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 h\u00fan kynntist tengdaf\u00f6\u00f0ur m\u00ednum. H\u00fan bar mikla vir\u00f0ingu fyrir Hannibal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          Amma var s\u00edvinnandi al\u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ukona. H\u00fan vann s\u00e9r inn peninga me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 prj\u00f3na \u00feelmj\u00faka n\u00e6rboli, hl\u00fdja vettlinga og sokka fyrir b\u00f6rn \u2013 og mynstru\u00f0 sj\u00f6l fyrir konur \u00fati \u00ed b\u00e6. \u00deegar h\u00fan haf\u00f0i pressa\u00f0 og pakka\u00f0 inn \u00feessum fallegu fl\u00edkum, lag\u00f0i h\u00fan af sta\u00f0 f\u00f3tgangandi b\u00e6jarenda \u00e1 milli til \u00feess a\u00f0 skila af s\u00e9r. Oftast var henni bo\u00f0i\u00f0 upp \u00e1 kaffi \u00ed eldh\u00faskr\u00f3knum. \u00dear sat heimilisf\u00f3lki\u00f0 og masa\u00f0i um landsins gagn og nau\u00f0synjar. Oftar en ekki barst tali\u00f0 a\u00f0 tengdaf\u00f6\u00f0ur m\u00ednum. Og eflaust hefur f\u00f3lk haft l\u00famskt gaman af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 str\u00ed\u00f0a g\u00f6mlu konunni, l\u00e1ta hana heyra \u00fea\u00f0 um \u00feennan n\u00fdja fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0lim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          Einhverju sinni haf\u00f0i h\u00fan m\u00e1tt sitja \u00f3venju lengi undir kjaftava\u00f0linum og hlusta \u00e1 f\u00f3lki\u00f0 smjatta \u00e1 sl\u00fa\u00f0urs\u00f6gum. \u201eOg hva\u00f0 segir \u00fe\u00fa n\u00fa, Margr\u00e9t m\u00edn, um \u00feennan mann?\u201c, spur\u00f0i h\u00fasm\u00f3\u00f0irin loksins. \u2013<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          \u00dea\u00f0 st\u00f3\u00f0 ekki \u00e1 svari hj\u00e1 henni \u00f6mmu minni: \u201e\u00c9g er b\u00fain a\u00f0 \u00feekkja \u00feennan mann \u00ed nokkur \u00e1r. Og \u00fea\u00f0 segir m\u00e9r alveg n\u00f3g um manninn, a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef aldrei heyrt hann tala svona um nokkra manneskju, eins og \u00fei\u00f0 hafi\u00f0 tala\u00f0 um hann h\u00e9r \u00ed dag\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          Og \u00fear me\u00f0 var h\u00fan farin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          \u00dearf \u00e9g nokkru vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          Satt a\u00f0 segja skaust \u00feessi h\u00e1lfgleymda minning upp \u00ed hugann, \u00feegar \u00e9g heyr\u00f0i, a\u00f0 sk\u00f3laslit Menntask\u00f3lans \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i f\u00e6ru fram \u00feann 25. ma\u00ed \u2013  \u00fe.e.a.s \u00ed g\u00e6r. \u00dear hafa \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ntanlega veri\u00f0 vi\u00f0staddir einhverjir \u00far seinasta \u00e1rganginum sem J\u00f3n Baldvin \u00fatskrifa\u00f0i, til a\u00f0  fagna 40 \u00e1ra st\u00fadentsafm\u00e6li s\u00ednu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          \u00deeir munu v\u00e6ntanlega hafa teki\u00f0 eftir \u00fev\u00ed, a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er b\u00fai\u00f0 a\u00f0 fjarl\u00e6gja m\u00e1lverk af fyrstu sk\u00f3lameistarahj\u00f3nunum, sem haf\u00f0i veri\u00f0 uppi \u00e1 vegg \u00ed m\u00f6tuneyti sk\u00f3lans \u00ed n\u00e6stu 40 \u00e1r. Hvers vegna? Hafa \u00feau veri\u00f0 d\u00e6md fyrir gl\u00e6p?  Eitthva\u00f0 hl\u00fdtur \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera, fyrst sk\u00f3lameistarinn \u2013  reyndar gamall nemandi okkar \u2013  telur okkur ekki lengur \u00ed s\u00ednum  h\u00fasum h\u00e6f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          \u00c1st\u00e6\u00f0an mun vera illt umtal \u00ed bl\u00f6\u00f0unum \u2013 r\u00f3gur og n\u00ed\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          M\u00e9r finnst \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 vekja athygli  \u00cdsfir\u00f0inga \u00e1 \u00feessum gj\u00f6rningi. Hann \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera \u00fdmsum ver\u00f0ugt umhugsunarefni \u00e1 \u00feessum sta\u00f0 og stundu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          Eitt a\u00f0 lokum. Menn ver\u00f0a a\u00f0  vera sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r samkv\u00e6mir \u00ed verkum s\u00ednum \u2013  hvort sem \u00feau eru g\u00f3\u00f0 e\u00f0a ill. Ver\u00f0ur sk\u00f3lameistari ekki l\u00edka a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 til \u00feess, a\u00f0 Saga Menntask\u00f3lans \u00e1 \u00cdsafir\u00f0i eftir fyrrum sk\u00f3lameistara, Bj\u00f6rn Teitsson \u2013  sem fer lofsamlegum or\u00f0um um brautry\u00f0jendurna \u2013  ver\u00f0i fjarl\u00e6g\u00f0 af b\u00f3kasafni sk\u00f3lans, r\u00e9tt eins og myndin af veggnum?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

                          \u00de\u00e1 fyrst v\u00e6ri verki\u00f0 fullkomna\u00f0.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                          Hausti\u00f0 2013 birti DV (helgarbla\u00f0 27.-29. sept) k\u00e6ru Ald\u00edsar Schram \u00e1 hendur JBH til kynfer\u00f0isbrotadeildar l\u00f6greglunnar \u00e1 h\u00f6fu\u00f0borgarsv\u00e6\u00f0inu. \u00dear er a\u00f0 finna allar s\u00f6mu s\u00f6gurnar sem Stundin og a\u00f0rir fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lar hafa n\u00fa rifja\u00f0 upp sex \u00e1rum s\u00ed\u00f0ar. S\u00f6mu n\u00f6fn \u2013 s\u00f6mu s\u00f6gur. Eina undantekningin er svi\u00f0setning Carmenar J\u00f3hannsd\u00f3ttur \u201e\u00e1 \u00feakinu\u201c sem fjalla\u00f0 er um \u00ed … Continue reading “S\u00f6gubur\u00f0ur”<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2987","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-allar_greinar","category-greinar_og_vidtol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2987","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2987"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2987\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3013,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2987\/revisions\/3013"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2987"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2987"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2987"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}