{"id":3183,"date":"2022-10-21T16:51:56","date_gmt":"2022-10-21T16:51:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/?p=3183"},"modified":"2022-10-21T16:53:42","modified_gmt":"2022-10-21T16:53:42","slug":"ad-njota-sannmaelis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/?p=3183","title":{"rendered":"A\u00d0 NJ\u00d3TA SANNM\u00c6LIS?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Fyrirs\u00f6gn \u00feessarar greinar er s\u00f3tt \u00ed bla\u00f0avi\u00f0tal vi\u00f0 \u00ferj\u00e1r d\u00e6tur okkar Brynd\u00edsar \u00ed febr\u00faar 1995. \u00cd vi\u00f0talinu beindi bla\u00f0ama\u00f0ur eftirfarandi spurningum a\u00f0 systrunum: \u201eHvernig er a\u00f0 eiga svona pabba og m\u00f6mmu? Gr\u00e9tu\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 einhvern t\u00edma \u00ed koddana ykkar yfir \u00feeim sem b\u00f6rn?\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sv\u00f6r systranna l\u00fdsa \u00e1st\u00fa\u00f0legu sambandi \u00feeirra vi\u00f0 foreldra s\u00edna. S\u00fa elsta, Ald\u00eds \u2013 \u00fe\u00e1 36 \u00e1ra \u2013 kve\u00f0ur fastast a\u00f0 or\u00f0i um mannkosti f\u00f6\u00f0ur s\u00edns. \u00deegar s\u00fa yngsta, Kolfinna,  spyr, hvort \u00fe\u00e6r s\u00e9u ekki \u201eor\u00f0nar of v\u00e6mnar\u201c, svarar Ald\u00eds:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eM\u00e1 hann ekki einhvers sta\u00f0ar nj\u00f3ta sannm\u00e6lis?\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

\u00deessi or\u00f0askipti rifju\u00f0ust upp fyrir m\u00e9r, \u00feegar \u00e9g fletti Stundinni, (30.09 -1310, 2022). Sj\u00f6 opnur a\u00f0 vi\u00f0b\u00e6ttri fors\u00ed\u00f0u, hvorki meira n\u00e9 minna. \u00dea\u00f0 var hvorki veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 vara vi\u00f0 \u00feri\u00f0ju heimsstyrj\u00f6ldinni n\u00e9 yfirvofandi kjarnorku\u00e1r\u00e1s \u00e1 \u00dakra\u00ednu. Allt var \u00feetta um meintar \u00e1vir\u00f0ingar m\u00ednar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hvert var tilefni\u00f0?<\/strong> Dagb\u00f3karf\u00e6rslur unglingsst\u00falku fyirr meira en h\u00e1lfri \u00f6ld, sem \u00e1ttu a\u00f0 gefa til kynna, a\u00f0 samskipti hennar vi\u00f0 kennarann sinn (mig) hef\u00f0u veri\u00f0 \u201eaf kynfer\u00f0islegum toga\u201c. N\u00fa hafa a\u00f0standendur konunnar, (sem l\u00e9st fyrir 6 \u00e1rum) uppl\u00fdst, a\u00f0 h\u00fan hafi \u00e1\u00f0ur, \u00feegar eftir \u00fev\u00ed var leita\u00f0, neita\u00f0 a\u00f0 birta opinberlega huglei\u00f0ingar s\u00ednar, sem h\u00fan tr\u00fa\u00f0i dagb\u00f3kinni sinni fyrir. \u00dea\u00f0 vekur reyndar upp spurningar um, hvort \u00feeir eigi ekki a\u00f0 leita \u00e1 n\u00e1\u00f0ir Pers\u00f3nuverndar til a\u00f0 g\u00e6ta hagsmuna hinnar l\u00e1tnu, sem ekki getur lengur bori\u00f0 h\u00f6nd fyirr h\u00f6fu\u00f0 s\u00e9r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u00f0standendur hinnar l\u00e1tnu konu harma \u00fea\u00f0, a\u00f0 \u201efri\u00f0helgi einkal\u00edfs\u201c hennar hafi veri\u00f0 \u201erofin og vanvirt\u201c me\u00f0 \u00feessum h\u00e6tti. \u00deau skora \u00e1 fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0la og a\u00f0ra a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00f3gert a\u00f0 lei\u00f0a hana fram sem vitni \u00ed sakam\u00e1li, sem henni er \u00f3v\u00ed\u00f0komandi. H\u00e9r mun vera \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 \u201erassstrokum\u00e1li\u00f0\u201c, svokalla\u00f0a. \u00deann 8. n\u00f3v. 2021 s\u00fdkna\u00f0i <\/strong>H\u00e9ra\u00f0sd\u00f3mur mig af \u00e1s\u00f6kunum um a\u00f0 hafa \u201estroki\u00f0 rass utan kl\u00e6\u00f0a\u201c \u00e1 heimili okkar Brynd\u00edsar \u00e1 Sp\u00e1ni \u00ed j\u00fan\u00ed, 2018. \u00c1k\u00e6ruvaldi\u00f0, sem a\u00f0 mati virtra l\u00f6gfr\u00e6\u00f0inga hefur ekki einu sinni l\u00f6gs\u00f6gu \u00ed m\u00e1linu, hefur \u00e1fr\u00fdja\u00f0 d\u00f3mnum til Landsr\u00e9ttar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 \u00c9g mun a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u ver\u00f0a vi\u00f0 \u00e1skorun a\u00f0standenda um a\u00f0 vir\u00f0a fri\u00f0helgi einkal\u00edfs hinnar l\u00e1tnu. \u00dear me\u00f0 l\u00e6t \u00e9g m\u00e9r n\u00e6gja a\u00f0 \u00e1r\u00e9tta \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g hef \u00e1\u00f0ur sagt, a\u00f0 umr\u00e6ddur nemandi minn var\u00f0 ekki fyrir kynfer\u00f0islegri \u00e1reitni af minni h\u00e1lfu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00f6glegt  – en si\u00f0laust?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Er einhverjar n\u00fdjar sakargiftir a\u00f0 finna \u00e1 \u00feessum sj\u00f6 opnum?  Svari\u00f0 er stutt og laggott: Engar. \u00dea\u00f0 sem s\u00f6gurnar, sem \u00fearna eru taldar upp  eiga sameiginlegt er, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r voru allar<\/strong> \u00e1 sakaskr\u00e1 Ald\u00edsar<\/strong> d\u00f3ttur minnar fr\u00e1 \u00e1rinu 2013. Ald\u00eds samdi sj\u00e1lf \u00feessa sakaskr\u00e1 sem l\u00f6gfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur  f.h. sj\u00e1lfrar s\u00edn og annarra \u00f3nafngreindra kvenna um meint kynfer\u00f0islegt \u00e1reiti af minni h\u00e1lfu. Fyrst birti h\u00fan \u00feetta, a.m.k. a\u00f0 hluta til \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum (DV), en lag\u00f0i s\u00ed\u00f0an fyrir l\u00f6greglu til ranns\u00f3knar (8.okt. 2013).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00deremur m\u00e1nu\u00f0um s\u00ed\u00f0ar(13.jan. 2014) v\u00edsa\u00f0i l\u00f6greglan \u00f6llum \u00feessum m\u00e1lab\u00fana\u00f0i fr\u00e1.  R\u00f6kin voru \u00feau, a\u00f0 ekkert af framl\u00f6g\u00f0um g\u00f6gnum n\u00e9 vitnisbur\u00f0i benti til \u00feess  a\u00f0 um \u201crefsiver\u00f0a h\u00e1ttsemi\u201c hafi veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a. Ald\u00eds \u00e1fr\u00fdja\u00f0i \u00feessari ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u f.h. h\u00f3psins til Saks\u00f3knara. Saks\u00f3knaramemb\u00e6tti\u00f0 sta\u00f0festi ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u  l\u00f6gregluranns\u00f3knar  og v\u00edsa\u00f0i m\u00e1linu fr\u00e1 (28. feb., 2014).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dear me\u00f0 hafa allar \u00feessar s\u00f6gur (vel \u00e1 annan tug) haft sinn framgang \u00ed r\u00e9ttarkerfinu. Ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0an er \u00f3tv\u00edr\u00e6\u00f0: \u00cd engu \u00feessara m\u00e1la \u00fe\u00f3tti vera s\u00fdnt fram \u00e1, a\u00f0 um refsiver\u00f0a h\u00e1ttsemi hafi veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a. \u00dear af lei\u00f0andi fannst ekkert tilefni til \u00e1k\u00e6ru.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cd r\u00e9ttarr\u00edki \u00e1 a\u00f0 lei\u00f0a m\u00e1l til lykta me\u00f0 \u00feessum h\u00e6tti. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf \u00f3hlutdr\u00e6ga ranns\u00f3kn og vitnalei\u00f0slur. Ef ekki er s\u00fdnt fram \u00e1 refsiver\u00f0a h\u00e1ttsemi me\u00f0 haldb\u00e6rum r\u00f6kum og v\u00edsan til sta\u00f0reynda, telst hinn k\u00e6r\u00f0i vera saklaus.  \u00cd r\u00e9ttarr\u00edki er ekki n\u00f3g a\u00f0 bera einhvern s\u00f6kum \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum e\u00f0a samf\u00e9lagsmi\u00f0lum.  Ef sakargiftir standast ekki ranns\u00f3kn \u00f3hlutdr\u00e6gs a\u00f0ila, getur \u00fea\u00f0 var\u00f0a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 l\u00f6g. \u00cd r\u00e9ttarr\u00edki sta\u00f0n\u00e6mist tj\u00e1ningarfrelsi \u00feitt vi\u00f0 \u00e6ru m\u00edna<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si\u00f0laust og \u00f3l\u00f6glegt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sj\u00e1lfskipa\u00f0ur si\u00f0g\u00e6\u00f0isv\u00f6r\u00f0ur Stundarinnar segir af \u00feessu tilefni, a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e9g s\u00e9 skv. ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u r\u00e9ttarkerfisins \u201esaklaus a\u00f0 l\u00f6gum\u201c, s\u00e9 heg\u00f0un m\u00edn engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00e1m\u00e6lisver\u00f0 skv. s\u00f6gubur\u00f0inum. L\u00f6gleg \u2013 en si\u00f0laus.  En \u00fe\u00e1 er spurningin : Eru s\u00f6gurnar sannar?<\/em> Eigum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 treysta fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum til a\u00f0 d\u00e6ma um \u00fea\u00f0? Fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum er ekki fengi\u00f0 d\u00f3msvald \u00ed r\u00e9ttarr\u00edki. Hverjir eiga a\u00f0 d\u00e6ma, ef ekki sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0ir og \u00f3hlutdr\u00e6gir d\u00f3mst\u00f3lar?  Getum vi\u00f0 treyst \u201ed\u00f3mst\u00f3li g\u00f6tunnar\u201c, ef hann er mata\u00f0ur \u00e1 \u00f3s\u00f6nnum s\u00f6gum?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f6kum d\u00e6mi af MeToo- hreyfingunni.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u00fan spratt upp \u00e1 s\u00ednum t\u00edma sem mannr\u00e9ttindahreyfing. H\u00fan f\u00f3r sem sl\u00edk v\u00edtt og breitt um heiminn. Konur sem h\u00f6f\u00f0u m\u00e1tt s\u00e6ta k\u00fagun og ofbeldi, andm\u00e6ltu \u00fe\u00f6ggun. M\u00e1lsta\u00f0ur \u00feeirra fann dj\u00fapan hlj\u00f3mgrunn. \u00deetta var mannr\u00e9ttindabar\u00e1tta, sem sk\u00edrskota\u00f0i til r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tiskenndar allra \u2013 karla jafnt sem kvenna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En ef \u00feau, sem ganga fram undir merkjum MeToo, gera sig sek um a\u00f0 lj\u00faga upp s\u00f6gum um saklaut f\u00f3lk \u2013 af annarlegum hv\u00f6tum, eins og fj\u00f6lm\u00f6rg d\u00e6mi sanna \u2013  \u00fe\u00e1 eru \u00feau ekki einungis a\u00f0 grafa undan m\u00e1lsta\u00f0 raunverulegra \u00feolenda kynfer\u00f0isofbeldis; \u00feau eru sj\u00e1lf or\u00f0in a\u00f0 \u00f3gn vi\u00f0 m\u00e1lsta\u00f0 mannr\u00e9ttinda<\/strong> \u00ed r\u00e9ttarr\u00edki. Aflei\u00f0ingarnar geta veri\u00f0 skelfilegar: \u00c6rumissir saklausra, atvinnubann og f\u00e9lagsleg \u00fatsk\u00fafun a\u00f0 \u00f3sekju.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viljum vi\u00f0 lifa \u00ed \u00feess konar \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er h\u00e9rna sem vi\u00f0 erum farin a\u00f0 n\u00e1lgast kjarna \u00feessa m\u00e1ls. \u00cd upphafi \u00feessarar greinar vitna\u00f0i \u00e9g til loflegra umm\u00e6la elstu d\u00f3ttur okkar Brynd\u00edsar um f\u00f6\u00f0ur hennar. H\u00fan sag\u00f0ist ekki \u00feekkja \u00fe\u00e1 mynd, sem fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lar hef\u00f0u dregi\u00f0 upp af honum. Og spur\u00f0i: M\u00e1 hann \u00fe\u00e1 hvergi nj\u00f3ta sannm\u00e6lis?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hvers vegna  hefur \u00e1st\u00fa\u00f0 og gagnkv\u00e6m vir\u00f0ing sn\u00faist upp \u00ed hatur og hefndarhug? Svari\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed er \u00feetta: Samkv\u00e6mt \u00fe\u00e1gildandi l\u00f6gum var \u00fea\u00f0 mitt hlutskipti  a\u00f0 veita \u00edtreka\u00f0 sam\u00feykki f.h. a\u00f0standenda vi\u00f0 bei\u00f0ni ge\u00f0l\u00e6kna um nau\u00f0ungarvistun \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild \u2013  og \u00ed einu tilviki jafnvel um sj\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0issviftingu \u2013  til \u00feess a\u00f0 d\u00f3ttir m\u00edn fengi\u00f0 noti\u00f0 br\u00e1\u00f0nau\u00f0synlegrar l\u00e6knishj\u00e1lpar. \u00deetta  er grafalvarlegt m\u00e1l og hefur haft skelfilegar aflei\u00f0ingar. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00feetta sem hefur umhverft \u00e1st \u00ed hatur \u2013 umhyggju \u00ed hefndarhug.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sta\u00f0reyndirnar eru \u00feessar: \u00c1 s.l. 20 \u00e1rum hefur d\u00f3ttir okkar haft frumkv\u00e6\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u2013  e\u00f0a sta\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 baki \u2013 k\u00e6rum \u00e1 hendur  m\u00e9r fyrir kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni vi\u00f0 n\u00e1nast allt kvenkyn \u00ed okkar fj\u00f6lskyldu. Fyrst \u00e1ri\u00f0 2002,  svo 2005 og 2006, \u00fev\u00ed n\u00e6st 2013 og 2014. Jafn oft  hefur \u00feessum k\u00e6rum veri\u00f0 v\u00edsa\u00f0 fr\u00e1 \u00ed r\u00e9ttarkerfinu, \u00fear sem ekki fundust sannanir fyrir refsiver\u00f0ri h\u00e1ttsemi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c1 \u00feessu t\u00edmabili hefur Ald\u00eds safna\u00f0 li\u00f0i til a\u00f0 leita hefnda.  \u00deegar MeToo-hreyfingin f\u00f3r a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta a\u00f0 s\u00e9r kve\u00f0a, 2018-2019,  t\u00f3k h\u00f3purinn \u00ed kringum Ald\u00edsi v\u00f6rumerki MeToo-hreyfingarinnar traustataki. \u00deetta var sami h\u00f3purinn (<\/strong>en n\u00fa undir nafni) og s\u00f6mu s\u00f6gurnar<\/strong> og Ald\u00eds haf\u00f0i dregi\u00f0 saman \u00e1 \u00e1runum 2013 0g 14, og L\u00f6gregla og Saks\u00f3knari h\u00f6f\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00edsa\u00f0 fr\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

En undir gunnf\u00e1na MeToo- hreyfingarinnar f\u00e9kk  h\u00fan byr undir b\u00e1\u00f0a v\u00e6ngi \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum. Stundin h\u00f3f  \u00feessa fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0laherfer\u00f0 11. jan. 2019. H\u00e1punkti n\u00e1\u00f0i h\u00fan \u00ed \u00fatvarpsvi\u00f0tali R\u00e1sar 2 \u00feeirra f\u00e9laga, Sigmars og Seljan 17. jan. 2019. \u00dear var  \u00fev\u00ed  \u00fatvarpa\u00f0 frammi fyrir al\u00fej\u00f3\u00f0, a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef\u00f0i gert mig sekan um a\u00f0 misnota d\u00e6tur m\u00ednar \u00ferj\u00e1r kynfer\u00f0islega \u00ed \u00e6sku og stunda\u00f0 sifjaspell me\u00f0 elstu d\u00f3ttur minni, \u00feegar h\u00fan var vistu\u00f0 \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dear me\u00f0 var okkur \u00f6llum loki\u00f0. Vi\u00f0 bu\u00f0um d\u00f3ttur okkar s\u00e1ttargj\u00f6r\u00f0, ef h\u00fan dr\u00e6gi \u00feessar upplognu sakargiftir til baka og b\u00e6\u00f0ist afs\u00f6kunar. \u00deegar \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e1ttarbo\u00f0 var hunsa\u00f0, h\u00f6f\u00f0u\u00f0um vi\u00f0 mei\u00f0yr\u00f0am\u00e1l  \u00e1 hendur R\u00daV og d\u00f3ttur okkar sem heimildamanni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e\u00c6rumei\u00f0andi \u00f3sannindi\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00f3mur \u00ed \u00feessu mei\u00f0yr\u00f0am\u00e1li (E 3197\/2019) var kve\u00f0inn upp \u00ed H\u00e9ra\u00f0sd\u00f3mi 12. mars, 2021. Ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0an, a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed er var\u00f0ar \u00feau m\u00e1l, sem h\u00e9r eru til umr\u00e6\u00f0u, var \u00f3tv\u00edr\u00e6\u00f0. \u00c1sakanir Ald\u00edsar um misnotkun d\u00e6tra minna voru d\u00e6mdar \u201edau\u00f0ar og \u00f3merkar\u201c.<\/strong> \u00cd r\u00f6kstu\u00f0ningi d\u00f3msins var sk\u00fdrt kve\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00e1 um \u00fea\u00f0, a\u00f0 \u00e1s\u00f6kun um sifjaspell v\u00e6ri tilh\u00e6fulaus (sj\u00e1 bls. 50-51\u00ed d\u00f3msor\u00f0um). F\u00e9ttamennirnir tveir voru hins vegar s\u00fdkna\u00f0ir, \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 hafa \u00fatvarpa\u00f0 \u00f3s\u00f6nnum sakargiftum um refsiver\u00f0a h\u00e1ttsemi, \u00fear sem \u00feeir bera ekki \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 or\u00f0um heimildarmanns, skv. d\u00f3maford\u00e6mum. \u00deeir mega m.\u00f6.o.<\/em> lj\u00faga eins og logi\u00f0 er \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Og \u00feann 8. n\u00f3v. ,2021 s\u00fdkna\u00f0i<\/strong> H\u00e9ra\u00f0sd\u00f3mur mig af  \u00e1s\u00f6kunum um a\u00f0 hafa \u201estroki\u00f0 rass utan kl\u00e6\u00f0a\u201c(S4407\/2020)  \u00ed m\u00e1li, sem s\u00e9rfr\u00f3\u00f0um m\u00f6nnum ber saman um, a\u00f0 \u00e1k\u00e6ruvaldi\u00f0 hafi ekki l\u00f6gs\u00f6gu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir \u00feetta? MeToo-gr\u00fappan \u00e1 f\u00e9sb\u00f3k var j\u00fa upphaflega myndu\u00f0 til stu\u00f0nings m\u00e1lflutningi Ald\u00edsar \u00ed \u00feeim k\u00e6rum\u00e1lum, sem h\u00fan er frumkv\u00f6\u00f0ull a\u00f0. Og vi\u00f0 r\u00e9ttarhald \u00ed rassstrokum\u00e1linu kom \u00e1 daginn, a\u00f0 k\u00e6randinn, Carmen Josefa, var a\u00f0 eigin s\u00f6gn<\/em> talsma\u00f0ur gr\u00fappunnar. Me\u00f0 \u00feessum d\u00f3mum voru frumkv\u00f6\u00f0ull \u00feessara k\u00e6rum\u00e1la og sj\u00e1lfur talsma\u00f0ur h\u00f3psins b\u00e1\u00f0ar d\u00e6mdar fyrir \u00f3sannindi<\/strong> um meint refsivert ath\u00e6fi mitt.  Vi\u00f0 erum ekki lengur a\u00f0 tala um \u201el\u00f6glegt en si\u00f0laust\u201c. Vi\u00f0 erum a\u00f0 tala um si\u00f0laust og<\/strong> \u00f3l\u00f6glegt<\/strong> ath\u00e6fi sj\u00e1lfskipa\u00f0ra forystumanna MeToo-hreyfingarinnar \u00ed kringum Ald\u00edsi.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dear me\u00f0 hefur hvort tveggja gerst: R\u00e9ttarkerfi\u00f0 hefur v\u00edsa\u00f0 \u00f6llum s\u00f6gubur\u00f0inum fr\u00e1,  \u00e1 \u00feeim forsendum, a\u00f0 ekki hafi veri\u00f0 um refsivert ath\u00e6fi a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a. Og d\u00f3mskerfi\u00f0 hefur b\u00e6tt um betur me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 l\u00fdsa tv\u00e6r forystukonur MeToo- hreyfingarinnar berar a\u00f0 \u00e6rumei\u00f0andi \u00f3sannindum<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Er einhver p\u00f3lit\u00edk \u00e1 bak vi\u00f0 \u00feetta?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 \u00c9g gef yfirleitt l\u00edti\u00f0 fyrir sams\u00e6riskenningar,  en \u00e9g legg \u00fea\u00f0 ekki \u00ed vana minn a\u00f0 neita sta\u00f0reyndum. \u00cd vitnalei\u00f0slum \u00ed rassstrokum\u00e1linu var k\u00e6randinn, Carmen Josefa \u2013 talsma\u00f0ur gr\u00fappunnar a\u00f0 eigin s\u00f6gn \u2013 spur\u00f0, hvers vegna h\u00fan hef\u00f0i ekki k\u00e6rt meint brot fyrr en m\u00f6rgum m\u00e1nu\u00f0um eftir \u00e1? Svari\u00f0 var: \u201eVinkona m\u00edn, forma\u00f0ur kvennahreyfingar Samfylkingarinnar, hvatti mig til \u00feess\u201c. \u2013 <\/em>\u00deetta eru hennar eigin or\u00f0.\u00de\u00e1 skilja menn fyrr en skellur \u00ed t\u00f6nnum  hatursor\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0u Ingibjargar S\u00f3lr\u00fanar af  \u00feessu tilefni \u2013 e\u00f0a hva\u00f0?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hva\u00f0 stendur \u00fe\u00e1 eftir?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Svari\u00f0 er: hatri\u00f0 og hefnigirndin.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eftir enn eina s\u00e1ttavi\u00f0leitnina  <\/strong>sneri br\u00f3\u00f0ir Brynd\u00edsar til baka me\u00f0 eftirfarandiskilabo\u00f0: \u201eS\u00e6ttir \u2013 \u00fei\u00f0 geti\u00f0 gleymt \u00fev\u00ed. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e6tir ykkur ekkert nema svartn\u00e6tti af hatri.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

 <\/strong>A\u00f0 \u00fevi er var\u00f0ar me\u00f0fer\u00f0 sta\u00f0reynda og sannleiksgildi stendur ekki eftir steinn yfir steini.En \u00feegar lj\u00fagvitni koma n\u00fa fram undir merkjum MeToo-hreyfingarinnar, hafa \u00feau unni\u00f0 m\u00e1lsta\u00f0 hennar \u00f3b\u00e6tanlegt tj\u00f3n me\u00f0 \u00feessum v\u00edtaver\u00f0u vinnubr\u00f6g\u00f0um. Er til of mikils m\u00e6lst a\u00f0 fara fram \u00e1 afs\u00f6kunarbei\u00f0ni?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lokaor\u00f0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cd upphafi \u00feessarar greinar vitna\u00f0i \u00e9g til loflegra umm\u00e6la Ald\u00edsar, elstu d\u00f3ttur okkur, um f\u00f6\u00f0ur sinn. H\u00fan sag\u00f0ist ekki \u00feekkja hann af \u00feeirri mynd, sem fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lar dr\u00e6gju upp af honum.  Loks spyr h\u00fan: \u201eM\u00e1 hann ekki einhvers sta\u00f0ar nj\u00f3ta sannm\u00e6lis?\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00fa reynir \u00e1 svari\u00f0. M\u00e9r finnst \u00fea\u00f0 reyndar vera grafalvarlegt m\u00e1l, a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lar yfir h\u00f6fu\u00f0 taki s\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 vald a\u00f0 d\u00e6ma \u00ed m\u00e1lum fyrirfram<\/strong>, sem \u00feeir hafa enga \u00feekkingu \u00e1. \u00dea\u00f0 heitir ford\u00f3mar. Hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 heldur, \u00feegar m\u00e1li\u00f0 \u00e1 r\u00e6tur a\u00f0 rekja til ge\u00f0r\u00e6nna vandam\u00e1la, sem kynda undir eldum haturs og hefnigirni, \u00fear sem heill og hamingja heilu fj\u00f6lskyldnanna er \u00ed h\u00fafi. \u00c9g geri eftirfarandi or\u00f0 Brynd\u00edsar  a\u00f0 m\u00ednum (\u201eBrosa\u00f0 gegnum t\u00e1rin\u201c, bls. 193):<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e\u00de\u00e6r fj\u00f6lskyldur eru \u00f3f\u00e1ar \u00ed okkar samf\u00e9lagi, sem hafa m\u00e1tt \u00feola \u00fea\u00f0 sama og vi\u00f0: Einhver me\u00f0limur fj\u00f6lskyldunnar \u00e1 vi\u00f0 andleg veikindi a\u00f0 str\u00ed\u00f0a, kennir s\u00ednum n\u00e1nustu um og beinir hatri s\u00ednu og \u00f3vild a\u00f0 \u00feeim\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Og loks \u00feetta:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e\u00c9g vi\u00f0urkenni, a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e1 erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00f3lk r\u00e9ttu auga, sem er rei\u00f0ub\u00fai\u00f0 a\u00f0 notf\u00e6ra s\u00e9r fj\u00f6lskylduharmleik af \u00feessu tagi \u00ed eiginhagsmunaskyni e\u00f0a til a\u00f0 koma fram p\u00f3lit\u00edskum hefndu\u201c. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00f3n Baldvin Hannibalsson<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Fyrirs\u00f6gn \u00feessarar greinar er s\u00f3tt \u00ed bla\u00f0avi\u00f0tal vi\u00f0 \u00ferj\u00e1r d\u00e6tur okkar Brynd\u00edsar \u00ed febr\u00faar 1995. \u00cd vi\u00f0talinu beindi bla\u00f0ama\u00f0ur eftirfarandi spurningum a\u00f0 systrunum: \u201eHvernig er a\u00f0 eiga svona pabba og m\u00f6mmu? Gr\u00e9tu\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 einhvern t\u00edma \u00ed koddana ykkar yfir \u00feeim sem b\u00f6rn?\u201c Sv\u00f6r systranna l\u00fdsa \u00e1st\u00fa\u00f0legu sambandi \u00feeirra vi\u00f0 foreldra s\u00edna. S\u00fa elsta, Ald\u00eds \u2013 … Continue reading “A\u00d0 NJ\u00d3TA SANNM\u00c6LIS?”<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3183","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-allar_greinar","category-greinar_og_vidtol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3183","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3183"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3183\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3185,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3183\/revisions\/3185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3183"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3183"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jbh.is\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3183"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}